Two veiled Muslim women in a street in Marseille, southern France, on December 24, 2009. A survey by The New York Times claims Muslim women in France are victimised for wearing Muslim clothing. Michel Gangne / AFP
Two veiled Muslim women in a street in Marseille, southern France, on December 24, 2009. A survey by The New York Times claims Muslim women in France are victimised for wearing Muslim clothing. MichelShow more

French Muslim women face daily struggle against stigmatisation, says New York Times survey



NICE// A fierce political row has erupted in France after an American newspaper’s survey on problems faced by French Muslim women depicted a daily struggle against stigmatisation and abuse.

France's socialist prime minister, Manuel Valls, who caused some surprise by siding with mostly right-wing mayors who imposed bans on burqinis, claimed the report in The New York Times gave a "false" and "intolerable" impression.

Women quoted in the survey, conducted online in French, English and Arabic, spoke of hostility having risen in the aftermath of the spate of terrorist attacks in France in recent years.

One, Charlotte Monnier, 23, a student from the southwestern city of Toulouse, said she was “insulted, spat on literally every day in the subway, on the bus, at school. Yet I have never insulted or hit someone.” She expressed concern that Muslims would eventually be made to wear yellow stars, as Jews were forced to do by Nazi occupiers during the Second World war.

Saima Ashraf, a Pakistani-born French Muslim who now lives in the UK and is deputy leader of the Barking and Dagenham borough council in East London, said she could not have reached such a position in France.

Her comment reflects social taboos rather than the law, since the accompanying photograph in The New York Times makes it clear that she wears a headscarf, not the face-covering veil forbidden in public in France though not in Britain.

But she told The National: “You don’t see women wearing the hijab in the public sector in France. They just wouldn’t recruit you. I love France but the country is breeding a whole generation of people, especially from North Africa, who are made to feel totally confused about the place of their culture, values and identity.”

Mr Valls and the mayors concerned have failed to explain why it is acceptable to target Muslim women wearing burqinis on the beach when clothing which covers more of the body is entirely permissible in the street.

The New York Times quoted Hajer Zennou, 27, from Lyon, as commenting with sadness on the widely circulated images of a Muslim woman surrounded by police on a beach in Nice. “This reminds me of my first days in high school after French law banned the hijab in schools,” she said. “My teacher forced me to take off my headscarf in front of all the other pupils. I was humiliated. Today, I felt my heart broken again. I just looked at this woman taking off her clothes and asked myself, when will it end?”

The newspaper said what emerged from its survey was “a portrait of life as a Muslim woman, veiled or not, in parts of Europe where terrorism has put people on edge. One French term was used dozens of times: ‘un combat’ or ‘a struggle’ to live day to day.”

Yet Mr Valls, who chose the French version of the news site Huffington Post, to make a detailed response, insisted the burqini was “not an anodyne bathing outfit, but a provocation, radical Islam seeking to impose itself in public places”. He did not explain how this was the case and successive courts have now overturned bans issued in many French resorts as a clear breach of the wearers’ rights.

Mr Valls also said the article did not reflect a broad “field study” but reported comments made following a so-called “postcolonial summer camp” in France from which “people with white skins” were excluded. The New York Times defended its methodology and said he was mistaken. The point was amplified by Le Monde newspaper which noted that the organisers of the summer camp had specified only a preference that those attending should have been victims of racism, a “controversial choice” but not one excluding white people.

The prime minister went on to defend burqini bans as extending rather than denying women’s freedom since, according to him, they challenged Salafist concepts of female bodies being “impure or inferior”. He criticised The New York Times for failing to talk to “the great majority of Muslim women who do not recognise themselves in this ultra-rigorous vision of Islam”.

The widespread nature of everyday abuse of Muslims in France — and not just women — is hardly in question.

Karim Bezzah, 47, a fireman and lifeguard whose duties include beach surveillance at La Faviere on the Mediterranean coast, told The National he was insulted when he pointed out to a dog-owning sunbather that pets were forbidden on the sands, as clearly indicated by signs. She called him an “espece de bougnoul”, one of the most offensive of racist terms in French, on a par with the N-word in English.

He lodged a complaint but officials decided it could not be pursued. “The law should work both ways,” he said, “If a woman wears a burqa despite the law, she has to accept the consequences — whatever her view of the law. But if a woman racially abuses me, she should also be answerable to the law.”

The wounds left by such remarks can be lasting. “For years, we have had to put up with dirty looks and threatening remarks,” Taslima Amar, 30, a teacher in Pantin, a suburb of Paris, told the newspaper survey. “I’ve been asked to go back home (even though I am home).”

Now she and her husband are exploring the possibility of leaving France.

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Tips for newlyweds to better manage finances

All couples are unique and have to create a financial blueprint that is most suitable for their relationship, says Vijay Valecha, chief investment officer at Century Financial. He offers his top five tips for couples to better manage their finances.

Discuss your assets and debts: When married, it’s important to understand each other’s personal financial situation. It’s necessary to know upfront what each party brings to the table, as debts and assets affect spending habits and joint loan qualifications. Discussing all aspects of their finances as a couple prevents anyone from being blindsided later.

Decide on the financial/saving goals: Spouses should independently list their top goals and share their lists with one another to shape a joint plan. Writing down clear goals will help them determine how much to save each month, how much to put aside for short-term goals, and how they will reach their long-term financial goals.

Set a budget: A budget can keep the couple be mindful of their income and expenses. With a monthly budget, couples will know exactly how much they can spend in a category each month, how much they have to work with and what spending areas need to be evaluated.

Decide who manages what: When it comes to handling finances, it’s a good idea to decide who manages what. For example, one person might take on the day-to-day bills, while the other tackles long-term investments and retirement plans.

Money date nights: Talking about money should be a healthy, ongoing conversation and couples should not wait for something to go wrong. They should set time aside every month to talk about future financial decisions and see the progress they’ve made together towards accomplishing their goals.

On Instagram: @WithHopeUAE

Although social media can be harmful to our mental health, paradoxically, one of the antidotes comes with the many social-media accounts devoted to normalising mental-health struggles. With Hope UAE is one of them.
The group, which has about 3,600 followers, was started three years ago by five Emirati women to address the stigma surrounding the subject. Via Instagram, the group recently began featuring personal accounts by Emiratis. The posts are written under the hashtag #mymindmatters, along with a black-and-white photo of the subject holding the group’s signature red balloon.
“Depression is ugly,” says one of the users, Amani. “It paints everything around me and everything in me.”
Saaed, meanwhile, faces the daunting task of caring for four family members with psychological disorders. “I’ve had no support and no resources here to help me,” he says. “It has been, and still is, a one-man battle against the demons of fractured minds.”
In addition to With Hope UAE’s frank social-media presence, the group holds talks and workshops in Dubai. “Change takes time,” Reem Al Ali, vice chairman and a founding member of With Hope UAE, told The National earlier this year. “It won’t happen overnight, and it will take persistent and passionate people to bring about this change.”