A refugee's remarkable journey from dodging rockets in Kabul to competing for Miss England


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“I have so much to say and so much to do,” says Lida Nasiri. “When standing on that stage I will be a universal woman.”

The stage the Afghanistan-born 26-year-old is referring to is the knockout round for a place in the Miss England final. Many may raise an eyebrow about how a beauty contest fits with her culture and upbringing.

“I will feel a responsibility to uplift that voice and that image but in a most respectful and moral way. Because that is who I am,” she tells The National a few days before the event.

On Monday morning, Ms Nasiri will carry a large suitcase down stairs from her apartment and jump into a taxi accompanied by her devoted mother for the 15-minute ride to the Taj hotel, a stone’s throw from Buckingham Palace.

It may only be a short hop across the city for the fashion and PR executive who is among 40 contenders in the competition. But it is the culmination of a remarkable 20-year, 5,000 mile odyssey from the backstreets of Kabul to one of the capital’s top catwalks in a swish five star hotel.

Along the way she has had to contend with people traffickers, being a refugee with an uncertain future, family rifts, the breaking of conservative taboos regarding the role of women in Muslim society, and a damaging breakdown.

Win or lose, Ms Nasiri is adamant that her already epic and challenging journey in life is not one that is about to stop.

Her motivation now is to use the platform of the pageant and her experiences to educate and empower women wherever they may be.

Journey to Europe

Ms Nasiri, who speaks six languages, was born in Kabul in 1996 — the same year that the Taliban came to power in Afghanistan for the first time.

When she was 3 a rocket crashed through the roof of the home and her mother Brishna, then barely 20 herself, decided the family had to flee.

Understandably, she recalls nothing of that time but by talking to her mother — who she describes as her “rock” — she has picked up the threads of their escape.

From Afghanistan they crossed into Iran by road, then Turkmenistan, and finally Russia. It was a blur of lorries, cars, walking and trains.

Lida Nasiri, on the right in the red bib, with her mother and family members in Turkmenistan, when Lida was 2 years old. Photo: Lida Nasiri
Lida Nasiri, on the right in the red bib, with her mother and family members in Turkmenistan, when Lida was 2 years old. Photo: Lida Nasiri

For two years in Moscow her mother worked day and night making and selling food in the local bazaar to raise money to pay people traffickers to get them to Europe and freedom.

“All Mum thought about was seeking safety for me and my younger sister Surya. Where and to which country we didn’t know, “ she said.

Their first stop in the hands of the traffickers was Poland where Ms Nasiri’s recollections become clearer. “I remember all I did was hold my Mum’s hand,” she explained. “I was afraid of letting go because I saw a long chain of people walking behind us.”

Lida Nasiri, right, with her sister Surya. Photo: Lida Nasiri
Lida Nasiri, right, with her sister Surya. Photo: Lida Nasiri

As part of a group of 50 they were moved on to Germany. “In Berlin for the first time as a child I felt safe. It was a ray of light. A moment of stillness and peace.”

After a brief sojourn in the German capital and via a contact from her father’s extended family, they were on their way again, this time to the Netherlands where they arrived in 2001. “We were put into a camp with caravans with a kitchen and a washroom. Everything was so clean and tidy. From a young age all I had ever known really was moving. So that caravan was my first real home.”

Roots were put down in another bigger camp in Utrecht. “The Dutch were so considerate. They put people from the same ethnicities together to create that sense of community.”

Cast members from 'Victorious' onstage at Nickelodeon's Annual Kids' Choice Awards. Lida picked up the language by watching hours of the children’s channel Nickelodeon. Getty Images
Cast members from 'Victorious' onstage at Nickelodeon's Annual Kids' Choice Awards. Lida picked up the language by watching hours of the children’s channel Nickelodeon. Getty Images

In 2007 and by now in Montfort in the south of the country, they finally received citizenship and their precious official papers. “You start living again. I continued my education. It went well and I even learnt Latin. I wanted though to learn English.”

She had learnt English grammar at school but picked up the colloquial language by watching hours of the children’s channel Nickelodeon.

In 2011 came Ms Nasiri’s final move — at least for now as the family decamped to England. “Mum knew how much I wanted to finish my education in London.”

Demand for education

She studied for her A-levels at Uxbridge College, in West London. But when she finished she told her family she wanted to stay on to go to university. “I wanted to be somebody, I wanted to work and I wanted it in London," she said. "It is a really taboo subject. To live apart from your family especially if you are the oldest one and even more so if you want to live abroad is looked down upon, especially for a girl.”

“We should celebrate individualisation. Beauty competitions are nothing like they were with bikinis and swimsuits. Today they give you the choice to represent how you want to be seen as an individual," said Lida Nasiri. Photo: Celebrity Pictures
“We should celebrate individualisation. Beauty competitions are nothing like they were with bikinis and swimsuits. Today they give you the choice to represent how you want to be seen as an individual," said Lida Nasiri. Photo: Celebrity Pictures

They agreed she could stay and she enrolled at the American International University in Richmond, in south-west London, where she studied fashion, management and marketing, and a minor in philosophy. “Having freedom was so exciting. I felt I had control of my life. It felt good. ”

After graduation in 2019 her world caved in. She suffered a breakdown which required three months in hospital and three more months of medication. “I really had to battle. Now I am much stronger. In the hospital the only thing I thought about was getting back to the stability I had created for myself. Because that is the only power I had for myself.”

This is who I am

Now working in fashion PR for a company and as an event organiser, she entered and won the 2021 UK Beauty and Brains pageant. Her motivation was to further the cause of female emancipation. That qualified her for Miss England. “I enrolled, won the third heat and passed through to the semi-finals straightaway.”

Why a beauty contest, which she must have realised might antagonise even those closest to her? “It is part of a statement I want to make, it is part of who I am,” she argued. “The message I want to put out is that [Muslim] women even in the Netherlands, Morocco and Turkey are looked down on. We are recognised for our beauty but there is so much more to it.

“We should celebrate individualisation. More than ever uniqueness should be celebrated.”

Ambassador ambitions

Fifteen contestants will get through to the final in October where the winner will be crowned Miss England and qualify automatically for Miss World. “I am very nervous! There are 40 different women with 40 different stories, all unique in their own way.

“I am nervous but I am also strong in who I am, what I want and what I stand for. If I win I will be winning for all those women — even today — who are still constrained. A year ago my best friend from the Netherlands had an arranged marriage. And she had not even seen the guy. Imagine that in 2021. And that is in the Netherlands, in Europe.

"I am nervous but I am also strong in who I am, what I want and what I stand for. If I win I will be winning for all those women – even today – who are still constrained." Photo: Celebrity Pictures
"I am nervous but I am also strong in who I am, what I want and what I stand for. If I win I will be winning for all those women – even today – who are still constrained." Photo: Celebrity Pictures

So what is her relationship with religion now? “At 14 I started to find out for myself what the Muslim faith meant. I read the Quran in Dutch. On an emotional level I felt enriched by the stories. Morally I learnt a lot, the correct way to talk to people and to respect. Today, though, and living in the western world, religion is more in my heart and in my behaviour. Do I have a strong relationship with faith? Yes, but in my own way.

“My family on my Dad’s side is still quite conservative. My sister got married into a conservative family. Sometimes I feel it is a shame that the community where I come from can’t open up. I am not saying you have to be wear a bikini to be liberal. I am saying it is important to try and understand someone else’s perspective before you instil yours. I don’t disrespect anybody. But I want people to respect who I am and the choices I have made in my life.”

As well as her mother who has travelled over from the Netherlands, in the audience will be her father, sister and brother Mansoor cheering her own. Blood, after all, is thicker than water.

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UAE Premiership

Results
Dubai Exiles 24-28 Jebel Ali Dragons
Abu Dhabi Harlequins 43-27 Dubai Hurricanes

Fixture
Friday, March 29, Abu Dhabi Harlequins v Jebel Ali Dragons, The Sevens, Dubai

Why are asylum seekers being housed in hotels?

The number of asylum applications in the UK has reached a new record high, driven by those illegally entering the country in small boats crossing the English Channel.

A total of 111,084 people applied for asylum in the UK in the year to June 2025, the highest number for any 12-month period since current records began in 2001.

Asylum seekers and their families can be housed in temporary accommodation while their claim is assessed.

The Home Office provides the accommodation, meaning asylum seekers cannot choose where they live.

When there is not enough housing, the Home Office can move people to hotels or large sites like former military bases.

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UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
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Key findings of Jenkins report
  • Founder of the Muslim Brotherhood, Hassan al Banna, "accepted the political utility of violence"
  • Views of key Muslim Brotherhood ideologue, Sayyid Qutb, have “consistently been understood” as permitting “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” and “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
  • Muslim Brotherhood at all levels has repeatedly defended Hamas attacks against Israel, including the use of suicide bombers and the killing of civilians.
  • Laying out the report in the House of Commons, David Cameron told MPs: "The main findings of the review support the conclusion that membership of, association with, or influence by the Muslim Brotherhood should be considered as a possible indicator of extremism."
Pharaoh's curse

British aristocrat Lord Carnarvon, who funded the expedition to find the Tutankhamun tomb, died in a Cairo hotel four months after the crypt was opened.
He had been in poor health for many years after a car crash, and a mosquito bite made worse by a shaving cut led to blood poisoning and pneumonia.
Reports at the time said Lord Carnarvon suffered from “pain as the inflammation affected the nasal passages and eyes”.
Decades later, scientists contended he had died of aspergillosis after inhaling spores of the fungus aspergillus in the tomb, which can lie dormant for months. The fact several others who entered were also found dead withiin a short time led to the myth of the curse.

Conflict, drought, famine

Estimates of the number of deaths caused by the famine range from 400,000 to 1 million, according to a document prepared for the UK House of Lords in 2024.
It has been claimed that the policies of the Ethiopian government, which took control after deposing Emperor Haile Selassie in a military-led revolution in 1974, contributed to the scale of the famine.
Dr Miriam Bradley, senior lecturer in humanitarian studies at the University of Manchester, has argued that, by the early 1980s, “several government policies combined to cause, rather than prevent, a famine which lasted from 1983 to 1985. Mengistu’s government imposed Stalinist-model agricultural policies involving forced collectivisation and villagisation [relocation of communities into planned villages].
The West became aware of the catastrophe through a series of BBC News reports by journalist Michael Buerk in October 1984 describing a “biblical famine” and containing graphic images of thousands of people, including children, facing starvation.

Band Aid

Bob Geldof, singer with the Irish rock group The Boomtown Rats, formed Band Aid in response to the horrific images shown in the news broadcasts.
With Midge Ure of the band Ultravox, he wrote the hit charity single Do They Know it’s Christmas in December 1984, featuring a string of high-profile musicians.
Following the single’s success, the idea to stage a rock concert evolved.
Live Aid was a series of simultaneous concerts that took place at Wembley Stadium in London, John F Kennedy Stadium in Philadelphia, the US, and at various other venues across the world.
The combined event was broadcast to an estimated worldwide audience of 1.5 billion.

AI traffic lights to ease congestion at seven points to Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan Street

The seven points are:

Shakhbout bin Sultan Street

Dhafeer Street

Hadbat Al Ghubainah Street (outbound)

Salama bint Butti Street

Al Dhafra Street

Rabdan Street

Umm Yifina Street exit (inbound)

The specs

Engine: 4.0-litre V8 twin-turbocharged and three electric motors

Power: Combined output 920hp

Torque: 730Nm at 4,000-7,000rpm

Transmission: 8-speed dual-clutch automatic

Fuel consumption: 11.2L/100km

On sale: Now, deliveries expected later in 2025

Price: expected to start at Dh1,432,000

The biog

Age: 30

Position: Senior lab superintendent at Emirates Global Aluminium

Education: Bachelor of science in chemical engineering, post graduate degree in light metal reduction technology

Favourite part of job: The challenge, because it is challenging

Favourite quote: “Be the change you wish to see in the world,” Gandi

Essentials

The flights
Whether you trek after mountain gorillas in Rwanda, Uganda or the Congo, the most convenient international airport is in Rwanda’s capital city, Kigali. There are direct flights from Dubai a couple of days a week with RwandAir. Otherwise, an indirect route is available via Nairobi with Kenya Airways. Flydubai flies to Kinshasa in the Democratic Republic of Congo, via Entebbe in Uganda. Expect to pay from US$350 (Dh1,286) return, including taxes.
The tours
Superb ape-watching tours that take in all three gorilla countries mentioned above are run by Natural World Safaris. In September, the company will be operating a unique Ugandan ape safari guided by well-known primatologist Ben Garrod.
In the Democratic Republic of Congo, local operator Kivu Travel can organise pretty much any kind of safari throughout the Virunga National Park and elsewhere in eastern Congo.

The specs

Engine: Dual 180kW and 300kW front and rear motors

Power: 480kW

Torque: 850Nm

Transmission: Single-speed automatic

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South Africa v India schedule

Tests: 1st Test Jan 5-9, Cape Town; 2nd Test Jan 13-17, Centurion; 3rd Test Jan 24-28, Johannesburg

ODIs: 1st ODI Feb 1, Durban; 2nd ODI Feb 4, Centurion; 3rd ODI Feb 7, Cape Town; 4th ODI Feb 10, Johannesburg; 5th ODI Feb 13, Port Elizabeth; 6th ODI Feb 16, Centurion

T20Is: 1st T20I Feb 18, Johannesburg; 2nd T20I Feb 21, Centurion; 3rd T20I Feb 24, Cape Town

The Farewell

Director: Lulu Wang

Stars: Awkwafina, Zhao Shuzhen, Diana Lin, Tzi Ma

Four stars

BMW M5 specs

Engine: 4.4-litre twin-turbo V-8 petrol enging with additional electric motor

Power: 727hp

Torque: 1,000Nm

Transmission: 8-speed auto

Fuel consumption: 10.6L/100km

On sale: Now

Price: From Dh650,000

ENGLAND WORLD CUP SQUAD

Eoin Morgan (captain), Moeen Ali, Jonny Bairstow, Jos Buttler (wicketkeeper), Tom Curran, Joe Denly, Alex Hales, Liam Plunkett, Adil Rashid, Joe Root, Jason Roy, Ben Stokes, David Willey, Chris Woakes, Mark Wood

Russia's Muslim Heartlands

Dominic Rubin, Oxford

The burning issue

The internal combustion engine is facing a watershed moment – major manufacturer Volvo is to stop producing petroleum-powered vehicles by 2021 and countries in Europe, including the UK, have vowed to ban their sale before 2040. The National takes a look at the story of one of the most successful technologies of the last 100 years and how it has impacted life in the UAE.

Read part three: the age of the electric vehicle begins

Read part two: how climate change drove the race for an alternative 

Read part one: how cars came to the UAE

THE SPECS

Engine: 1.5-litre, four-cylinder turbo

Transmission: seven-speed dual clutch automatic

Power: 169bhp

Torque: 250Nm

Price: Dh54,500

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Pad Man

Dir: R Balki

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Three-and-a-half stars

Yemen's Bahais and the charges they often face

The Baha'i faith was made known in Yemen in the 19th century, first introduced by an Iranian man named Ali Muhammad Al Shirazi, considered the Herald of the Baha'i faith in 1844.

The Baha'i faith has had a growing number of followers in recent years despite persecution in Yemen and Iran. 

Today, some 2,000 Baha'is reside in Yemen, according to Insaf. 

"The 24 defendants represented by the House of Justice, which has intelligence outfits from the uS and the UK working to carry out an espionage scheme in Yemen under the guise of religion.. aimed to impant and found the Bahai sect on Yemeni soil by bringing foreign Bahais from abroad and homing them in Yemen," the charge sheet said. 

Baha'Ullah, the founder of the Bahai faith, was exiled by the Ottoman Empire in 1868 from Iran to what is now Israel. Now, the Bahai faith's highest governing body, known as the Universal House of Justice, is based in the Israeli city of Haifa, which the Bahais turn towards during prayer. 

The Houthis cite this as collective "evidence" of Bahai "links" to Israel - which the Houthis consider their enemy. 

 

HIJRA

Starring: Lamar Faden, Khairiah Nathmy, Nawaf Al-Dhufairy

Director: Shahad Ameen

Rating: 3/5

Genesis G80 2020 5.0-litre Royal Specs

Engine: 5-litre V8

Gearbox: eight-speed automatic

Power: 420hp

Torque: 505Nm

Fuel economy, combined: 12.4L/100km

Price: Dh260,500

Karwaan

Producer: Ronnie Screwvala

Director: Akarsh Khurana

Starring: Irrfan Khan, Dulquer Salmaan, Mithila Palkar

Rating: 4/5

West Indies v India - Third ODI

India 251-4 (50 overs)
Dhoni (78*), Rahane (72), Jadhav (40)
Cummins (2-56), Bishoo (1-38)
West Indies 158 (38.1 overs)
Mohammed (40), Powell (30), Hope (24)
Ashwin (3-28), Yadav (3-41), Pandya (2-32)

India won by 93 runs

Key facilities
  • Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
  • Premier League-standard football pitch
  • 400m Olympic running track
  • NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
  • 600-seat auditorium
  • Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
  • An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
  • Specialist robotics and science laboratories
  • AR and VR-enabled learning centres
  • Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
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The stats

Ship name: MSC Bellissima

Ship class: Meraviglia Class

Delivery date: February 27, 2019

Gross tonnage: 171,598 GT

Passenger capacity: 5,686

Crew members: 1,536

Number of cabins: 2,217

Length: 315.3 metres

Maximum speed: 22.7 knots (42kph)

England's lowest Test innings

- 45 v Australia in Sydney, January 28, 1887

- 46 v West Indies in Port of Spain, March 25, 1994

- 51 v West Indies in Kingston, February 4, 2009

- 52 v Australia at The Oval, August 14, 1948

- 53 v Australia at Lord's, July 16, 1888

- 58 v New Zealand in Auckland, March 22, 2018

Results:

Men's 100m T34: 1. Walid Ktila (TUN) 15 sec; 2. Rheed McCracken (AUS) 15.40; 3. Mohammed Al Hammadi (UAE) 15.75. Men's 400m T34: 1. Walid Ktila (TUN) 50.56; 2. Mohammed Al Hammadi (UAE) 50.94; 3. Henry Manni (FIN) 52.24.

Asia Cup 2018 Qualifier

Sunday's results:

  • UAE beat Malaysia by eight wickets
  • Nepal beat Singapore by four wickets
  • Oman v Hong Kong, no result

Tuesday fixtures:

  • Malaysia v Singapore
  • UAE v Oman
  • Nepal v Hong Kong
Volvo ES90 Specs

Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)

Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp

Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm

On sale: Later in 2025 or early 2026, depending on region

Price: Exact regional pricing TBA

Oscars in the UAE

The 90th Academy Awards will be aired in the UAE from 3.30am on Monday, March 5 on OSN, with the ceremony starting at 5am

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COMPANY PROFILE

Company name: Letstango.com

Started: June 2013

Founder: Alex Tchablakian

Based: Dubai

Industry: e-commerce

Initial investment: Dh10 million

Investors: Self-funded

Total customers: 300,000 unique customers every month

LA LIGA FIXTURES

Friday Celta Vigo v Villarreal (midnight kick-off UAE)

Saturday Sevilla v Real Sociedad (4pm), Atletico Madrid v Athletic Bilbao (7.15pm), Granada v Barcelona (9.30pm), Osasuna v Real Madrid (midnight)

Sunday Levante v Eibar (4pm), Cadiz v Alaves (7.15pm), Elche v Getafe (9.30pm), Real Valladolid v Valencia (midnight)

Monday Huesca v Real Betis (midnight)

The specs
Engine: 4.0-litre flat-six
Power: 510hp at 9,000rpm
Torque: 450Nm at 6,100rpm
Transmission: 7-speed PDK auto or 6-speed manual
Fuel economy, combined: 13.8L/100km
On sale: Available to order now
Price: From Dh801,800
Updated: August 23, 2022, 3:59 PM`