War in Syria: newlyweds fled Aleppo for Abu Dhabi after home was hit by air strike


Haneen Dajani
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Abdullah Nasser, 30, vividly remembers the day when an air strike reduced his family home in Aleppo to rubble.

In the summer of 2014, the journalist and his family went to spend the night at his sister’s home.

“I was on vacation from university in Damascus and went to visit my family in Aleppo."

He describes the situation as being a lucky one for him and his family.

“We went to my sister’s house for a sleepover – just to hang out.

“It was June or July, and a battle broke out in our neighbourhood. It was a catastrophe."

One by one, the buildings in the area began to collapse.

People dig in the rubble in an ongoing search for survivors at a site hit previously by an airstrike in the rebel-held Tariq al-Bab neighborhood of Aleppo, Syria, September 26, 2016. REUTERS/Abdalrhman Ismail/File Photo
People dig in the rubble in an ongoing search for survivors at a site hit previously by an airstrike in the rebel-held Tariq al-Bab neighborhood of Aleppo, Syria, September 26, 2016. REUTERS/Abdalrhman Ismail/File Photo

“The neighbours told us we were lucky not to have been there. They kept escaping from building to building.”

This week marks 10 years since pro-democracy demonstrations began in Syria.

Inspired by similar events in the region, citizens were calling for reforms and took to the streets. In retaliation, the government of President Bashar Al Assad responded with deadly force, igniting further demands for change and ultimately leading to a civil war which still drags on.

As the situation worsened, the death toll mounted. More than 500,000 people are now believed to be dead or missing.

The UN children's agency Unicef reported that 12,000 children have been killed or wounded during the conflict.

Abdullah Nasser, a Syrian journalist who moved to the UAE because of the war at home, says he hopes to go back permanently one day. Victor Besa / The National
Abdullah Nasser, a Syrian journalist who moved to the UAE because of the war at home, says he hopes to go back permanently one day. Victor Besa / The National

On top of the destruction of his home and most of his belongings, Mr Nasser said his biggest loss was his family memories.

“The problem with losing a house is not about what you have in the house. The saddest moment is to remember that you have lost all your photo albums and memories. This is really hard for anyone.”

After the incident, his mother rented a house in Aleppo. His siblings, who were all married, already lived in their own houses.

Mr Nasser returned to his studies in Damascus, but continued to visit Aleppo regularly.

“During my last three visits, I knew that I would be moving out of Syria soon and I wanted to capture every memory,” he said.

“So I kept taking photos of random buildings and people – just strangers doing their own thing.”

Mr Nasser finally made the decision to leave Syria just as he was due to marry his fiancé.

The economic situation was bad, and he could not see himself raising a family there, he said.

Four days after the ceremony he moved with his wife, Kenda Ali, to the UAE on February 1, 2020.

Although he frequently travelled to Europe for media workshops, Mr Nasser said his preference was to move to the Emirates.

“I’ve been to the Netherlands and France, but the added value in the UAE is that you have a better opportunity to work.

"As an Arab multimedia journalist, it is not easy to find a job when you travel far from the Arab region.”

Even so, it was not easy for Mr Nasser to find a job in the UAE either.

He spent three months in Dubai searching for work, before moving to the capital where his sister-in-law lives.

“I started networking and making friends, sending my resume here and there, until I found this job.”

Mr Nasser now works as a graphic designer at a media production company.

Everyday sounds can remind him of the trauma back home.

Sitting at the cafe outside his office in Abu Dhabi's Twofour54 complex, he paused and smiled every time a plane flew over.

“For a Syrian person, all these aircraft and jets moving around sounds so familiar to me and my Syrian friends,” he said.

“We used to hear this sound a lot in Syria. Not from normal airplanes though, from fighter jets.”

Mr Nasser would like to go back to visit as soon as possible, especially after the birth of his first child two months ago – a girl named Taj.

“I plan to take my baby girl. We are working on her documents. My wife always tells me we must take her to see the family.”

Although Mr Nasser misses his family and friends at home, he said it would still be difficult to move his life back to Syria.

“Do I want to go back to Syria permanently? Yes – it is my country. I hope it gets better and I go back. I want to live in my country, my neighbourhood, with my friends.

"It wasn’t easy to say goodbye.”

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How to come clean about financial infidelity
  • Be honest and transparent: It is always better to own up than be found out. Tell your partner everything they want to know. Show remorse. Inform them of the extent of the situation so they know what they are dealing with.
  • Work on yourself: Be honest with yourself and your partner and figure out why you did it. Don’t be ashamed to ask for professional help. 
  • Give it time: Like any breach of trust, it requires time to rebuild. So be consistent, communicate often and be patient with your partner and yourself.
  • Discuss your financial situation regularly: Ensure your spouse is involved in financial matters and decisions. Your ability to consistently follow through with what you say you are going to do when it comes to money can make all the difference in your partner’s willingness to trust you again.
  • Work on a plan to resolve the problem together: If there is a lot of debt, for example, create a budget and financial plan together and ensure your partner is fully informed, involved and supported. 

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Afghanistan v Zimbabwe, Abu Dhabi Sunshine Series

All matches at the Zayed Cricket Stadium, Abu Dhabi

Test series

1st Test: Zimbabwe beat Afghanistan by 10 wickets
2nd Test: Wednesday, 10 March – Sunday, 14 March

Play starts at 9.30am

T20 series

1st T20I: Wednesday, 17 March
2nd T20I: Friday, 19 March
3rd T20I: Saturday, 20 March

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Young women have more “financial grit”, but fall behind on investing

In an October survey of young adults aged 16 to 25, Charles Schwab found young women are more driven to reach financial independence than young men (67 per cent versus. 58 per cent). They are more likely to take on extra work to make ends meet and see more value than men in creating a plan to achieve their financial goals. Yet, despite all these good ‘first’ measures, they are investing and saving less than young men – falling early into the financial gender gap.

While the women surveyed report spending 36 per cent less than men, they have far less savings than men ($1,267 versus $2,000) – a nearly 60 per cent difference.

In addition, twice as many young men as women say they would invest spare cash, and almost twice as many young men as women report having investment accounts (though most young adults do not invest at all). 

“Despite their good intentions, young women start to fall behind their male counterparts in savings and investing early on in life,” said Carrie Schwab-Pomerantz, senior vice president, Charles Schwab. “They start off showing a strong financial planning mindset, but there is still room for further education when it comes to managing their day-to-day finances.”

Ms Schwab-Pomerantz says parents should be conveying the same messages to boys and girls about money, but should tailor those conversations based on the individual and gender.

"Our study shows that while boys are spending more than girls, they also are saving more. Have open and honest conversations with your daughters about the wage and savings gap," she said. "Teach kids about the importance of investing – especially girls, who as we see in this study, aren’t investing as much. Part of being financially prepared is learning to make the most of your money, and that means investing early and consistently."

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Meydan race card

6.30pm: Maiden Dh 165,000 1,600m
7.05pm: Handicap Dh 185,000 2,000m
7.40pm: Maiden Dh 165,000 1,600m
8.15pm: Handicap Dh 190,000 1,400m
8.50pm: Handicap Dh 175,000 1,600m
9.25pm: Handicap Dh 175,000 1,200m
10pm: Handicap Dh 165,000 1,600m

Temple numbers

Expected completion: 2022

Height: 24 meters

Ground floor banquet hall: 370 square metres to accommodate about 750 people

Ground floor multipurpose hall: 92 square metres for up to 200 people

First floor main Prayer Hall: 465 square metres to hold 1,500 people at a time

First floor terrace areas: 2,30 square metres  

Temple will be spread over 6,900 square metres

Structure includes two basements, ground and first floor 

Tell-tale signs of burnout

- loss of confidence and appetite

- irritability and emotional outbursts

- sadness

- persistent physical ailments such as headaches, frequent infections and fatigue

- substance abuse, such as smoking or drinking more

- impaired judgement

- excessive and continuous worrying

- irregular sleep patterns

 

Tips to help overcome burnout

Acknowledge how you are feeling by listening to your warning signs. Set boundaries and learn to say ‘no’

Do activities that you want to do as well as things you have to do

Undertake at least 30 minutes of exercise per day. It releases an abundance of feel-good hormones

Find your form of relaxation and make time for it each day e.g. soothing music, reading or mindful meditation

Sleep and wake at the same time every day, even if your sleep pattern was disrupted. Without enough sleep condition such as stress, anxiety and depression can thrive.

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How to play the stock market recovery in 2021?

If you are looking to build your long-term wealth in 2021 and beyond, the stock market is still the best place to do it as equities powered on despite the pandemic.

Investing in individual stocks is not for everyone and most private investors should stick to mutual funds and ETFs, but there are some thrilling opportunities for those who understand the risks.

Peter Garnry, head of equity strategy at Saxo Bank, says the 20 best-performing US and European stocks have delivered an average return year-to-date of 148 per cent, measured in local currency terms.

Online marketplace Etsy was the best performer with a return of 330.6 per cent, followed by communications software company Sinch (315.4 per cent), online supermarket HelloFresh (232.8 per cent) and fuel cells specialist NEL (191.7 per cent).

Mr Garnry says digital companies benefited from the lockdown, while green energy firms flew as efforts to combat climate change were ramped up, helped in part by the European Union’s green deal. 

Electric car company Tesla would be on the list if it had been part of the S&P 500 Index, but it only joined on December 21. “Tesla has become one of the most valuable companies in the world this year as demand for electric vehicles has grown dramatically,” Mr Garnry says.

By contrast, the 20 worst-performing European stocks fell 54 per cent on average, with European banks hit by the economic fallout from the pandemic, while cruise liners and airline stocks suffered due to travel restrictions.

As demand for energy fell, the oil and gas industry had a tough year, too.

Mr Garnry says the biggest story this year was the “absolute crunch” in so-called value stocks, companies that trade at low valuations compared to their earnings and growth potential.

He says they are “heavily tilted towards financials, miners, energy, utilities and industrials, which have all been hit hard by the Covid-19 pandemic”. “The last year saw these cheap stocks become cheaper and expensive stocks have become more expensive.” 

This has triggered excited talk about the “great value rotation” but Mr Garnry remains sceptical. “We need to see a breakout of interest rates combined with higher inflation before we join the crowd.”

Always remember that past performance is not a guarantee of future returns. Last year’s winners often turn out to be this year’s losers, and vice-versa.