Roudha Al Marri and Ilaria Caielli are helping to bring cultures together with their new book. Leslie Pableo for The National
Roudha Al Marri and Ilaria Caielli are helping to bring cultures together with their new book. Leslie Pableo for The National

UAE 101: Emirati and Italian neighbours co-author book tackling culture and customs



A barrier-breaking book penned by an Italian and an Emirati aims to get the UAE's multicultural society on the same page.

The co-authors of UAE 101 Stories and Cultural Learnings: A Guidebook to the Emirati Culture, have amassed a huge haul of anectodes and cultural tips to help make the UAE even more united, whether you are from Dubai or Dublin.

The book was the concept of Illaria Caielli, 38, from Milan, and Roudha Al Marri, 36, born and raised in Dubai, who struck up their own connection as neighbours.

The literary duo are aiming to bridge the cultural gap between citizens and those who have come from further afield to call the UAE home.

The introduction to the book, launched at Dubai’s Myocum Café on Monday, acknowledges there is a mutual respect between the Emirati community and people from other countries, but that many barriers still remain when it comes to dealing with different cultures and customs.

The authors describe the book as "101 stories and cultural peculiarities put together to explain and display UAE customs for foreigners through real-life experiences".

“The idea behind the book was very spontaneous, ” said Ms Caielli.

“I was living in the UAE and was very interested in the culture and history but I noticed it was not easy to make friends with locals and I began to wonder why.

“Then I got the chance to meet Roudha and we exchanged our feelings and ideas and the book came from that.”

Ms Al Marri said that the book is aimed at people “who wonder about our culture and wonder why we do the things that we do”.

“We want to let people know things like why we women wear so much perfume, why our Fridays are so special and what do we expect people to do when they visit a local for the first time,” said Ms Al Marri.

“Sometimes as locals, even with the way we dress, we put these boundaries up. It gives an impression that we are not approachable when the opposite is the case, we love making friends and grew up in a multicultural environment.”

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The collaboration between an Emirati and an Italian living in the UAE gives the book an extra dimension, according to the authors, who met as neighbours when they lived in Abu Dhabi.

They suggest the book will also act as a guide for families moving to the UAE on how to make friends.

A key aspect of the book, according to Ms Caielli, is blending facts about the region with stories from people who live here.

The book is broken down to several chapters focusing on issues including history, traditions, lifestyle, folklore, food, drink and religion.

The authors said they had no desire to bring another travel guide to the UAE because the genre was already well catered for.

“We wanted to write a book for people who are genuinely interested in discovering local culture,” said Ms Al Marri.

“We realised that even people who have been living here for a long time didn’t know that much about local culture, but there is a big interest underneath the surface.”

The book closes with a list of top 10 cultural experiences in the UAE.

These include the Sheikh Zayed Grand Mosque, The Etihad Museum, Dubai Old City Centre, Abu Dhabi Heritage Village, the Bastakia Quarter and the Al Ain Palace Museum.

The book also lists a number of taboo subjects that should not be broached in case they offend the Emirati community.

Other tips in the book for those keen to embrace the Emirati way of life include recognising that when a local is stroking his beard when you are talking, this means you have his full concentration.

Also when someone places both their hands on top of their head, during a conversation, this means they respect what is being said.

The book is to go on sale across the UAE this week.

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The National's picks

4.35pm: Tilal Al Khalediah
5.10pm: Continous
5.45pm: Raging Torrent
6.20pm: West Acre
7pm: Flood Zone
7.40pm: Straight No Chaser
8.15pm: Romantic Warrior
8.50pm: Calandogan
9.30pm: Forever Young

Test

Director: S Sashikanth

Cast: Nayanthara, Siddharth, Meera Jasmine, R Madhavan

Star rating: 2/5

Some of Darwish's last words

"They see their tomorrows slipping out of their reach. And though it seems to them that everything outside this reality is heaven, yet they do not want to go to that heaven. They stay, because they are afflicted with hope." - Mahmoud Darwish, to attendees of the Palestine Festival of Literature, 2008

His life in brief: Born in a village near Galilee, he lived in exile for most of his life and started writing poetry after high school. He was arrested several times by Israel for what were deemed to be inciteful poems. Most of his work focused on the love and yearning for his homeland, and he was regarded the Palestinian poet of resistance. Over the course of his life, he published more than 30 poetry collections and books of prose, with his work translated into more than 20 languages. Many of his poems were set to music by Arab composers, most significantly Marcel Khalife. Darwish died on August 9, 2008 after undergoing heart surgery in the United States. He was later buried in Ramallah where a shrine was erected in his honour.

While you're here
'The Batman'

Stars:Robert Pattinson

Director:Matt Reeves

Rating: 5/5

Specs

Engine: Duel electric motors
Power: 659hp
Torque: 1075Nm
On sale: Available for pre-order now
Price: On request

The drill

Recharge as needed, says Mat Dryden: “We try to make it a rule that every two to three months, even if it’s for four days, we get away, get some time together, recharge, refresh.” The couple take an hour a day to check into their businesses and that’s it.

Stick to the schedule, says Mike Addo: “We have an entire wall known as ‘The Lab,’ covered with colour-coded Post-it notes dedicated to our joint weekly planner, content board, marketing strategy, trends, ideas and upcoming meetings.”

Be a team, suggests Addo: “When training together, you have to trust in each other’s abilities. Otherwise working out together very quickly becomes one person training the other.”

Pull your weight, says Thuymi Do: “To do what we do, there definitely can be no lazy member of the team.” 

Afghanistan Premier League - at a glance

Venue: Sharjah Cricket Stadium

Fixtures:

Tue, Oct 16, 8pm: Kandahar Knights v Kabul Zwanan; Wed, Oct 17, 4pm: Balkh Legends v Nangarhar Leopards; 8pm: Kandahar Knights v Paktia Panthers; Thu, Oct 18, 4pm: Balkh Legends v Kandahar Knights; 8pm: Kabul Zwanan v Paktia Panthers; Fri, Oct 19, 8pm: First semi-final; Sat, Oct 20, 8pm: Second semi-final; Sun, Oct 21, 8pm: final

Table:

1. Balkh Legends 6 5 1 10

2. Paktia Panthers 6 4 2 8

3. Kabul Zwanan 6 3 3 6

4. Nagarhar Leopards 7 2 5 4

5. Kandahar Knights 5 1 4 2

The specs

Engine: 1.6-litre 4-cyl turbo and dual electric motors

Power: 300hp at 6,000rpm

Torque: 520Nm at 1,500-3,000rpm

Transmission: 8-speed auto

Fuel consumption: 8.0L/100km

Price: from Dh199,900

On sale: now

Closing the loophole on sugary drinks

As The National reported last year, non-fizzy sugared drinks were not covered when the original tax was introduced in 2017. Sports drinks sold in supermarkets were found to contain, on average, 20 grams of sugar per 500ml bottle.

The non-fizzy drink AriZona Iced Tea contains 65 grams of sugar – about 16 teaspoons – per 680ml can. The average can costs about Dh6, which would rise to Dh9.

Drinks such as Starbucks Bottled Mocha Frappuccino contain 31g of sugar in 270ml, while Nescafe Mocha in a can contains 15.6g of sugar in a 240ml can.

Flavoured water, long-life fruit juice concentrates, pre-packaged sweetened coffee drinks fall under the ‘sweetened drink’ category
 

Not taxed:

Freshly squeezed fruit juices, ground coffee beans, tea leaves and pre-prepared flavoured milkshakes do not come under the ‘sweetened drink’ band.

Brief scoreline:

Liverpool 2

Keita 5', Firmino 26'

Porto 0

Sukuk

An Islamic bond structured in a way to generate returns without violating Sharia strictures on prohibition of interest.

The specs

Engine: four-litre V6 and 3.5-litre V6 twin-turbo

Transmission: six-speed and 10-speed

Power: 271 and 409 horsepower

Torque: 385 and 650Nm

Price: from Dh229,900 to Dh355,000

Volvo ES90 Specs

Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)

Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp

Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm

On sale: Later in 2025 or early 2026, depending on region

Price: Exact regional pricing TBA

MATCH INFO

Manchester United 6 (McTominay 2', 3'; Fernandes 20', 70' pen; Lindelof 37'; James 65')

Leeds United 2 (Cooper 41'; Dallas 73')

Man of the match: Scott McTominay (Manchester United)

The specs

  Engine: 2-litre or 3-litre 4Motion all-wheel-drive Power: 250Nm (2-litre); 340 (3-litre) Torque: 450Nm Transmission: 8-speed automatic Starting price: From Dh212,000 On sale: Now

The smuggler

Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple. 
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.

Khouli conviction

Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.

For sale

A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.

- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico

- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000

- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950

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