Oliver and Maggie Baxter with their 10-month-old son. Courtesy: Baxter family
Oliver and Maggie Baxter with their 10-month-old son. Courtesy: Baxter family
Oliver and Maggie Baxter with their 10-month-old son. Courtesy: Baxter family
Oliver and Maggie Baxter with their 10-month-old son. Courtesy: Baxter family

Make or break: the effect Covid-19 had on marriages


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When Covid-19 broke out this year, millions of people had to work from home full-time.

This meant more time spent with partners, families and children.

While the increased contact time led to some marital bonds emerging stronger, for others it magnified existing tensions and fault lines.

Marriage counsellors and therapists said they had been working overtime since the pandemic began, as more people sought professional help to get through tough times.

“While some have become closer, others struggled and developed deeper feelings of loneliness and isolation,” said Tanya Dharamshi, clinical director at the Priory Wellbeing Centre in Dubai.

We laugh about it now but I would seriously question any couple that says it's been easy

She said financial difficulties brought on by the pandemic led many people to work longer hours, with no clear boundaries between work and home life.

“The most common issue we’ve seen is a feeling of claustrophobia and frustration for many couples who have spent considerably more time together, often trying to balance working from home with home schooling, housework and chores,” said Ms Dharamshi.

“Married couples may find their partners are often working long hours," she said.

"The quality time they once had to air concerns and effectively problem solve also becomes drained, leaving them feeling burdened and isolated.”

She said many suffered from a lack of personal space and dedicated “me time”.

“As a result, the pressure on many couples has been immense and this has naturally led to conflict and feelings of resentment,” Ms Dharamshi said.

Tanya Dharamshi from the Priory in Dubai says many couples have struggled this year. Courtesy: Tanya Dharamshi
Tanya Dharamshi from the Priory in Dubai says many couples have struggled this year. Courtesy: Tanya Dharamshi

Oliver and Maggie Baxter live in Dubai and have been married for two-and-a-half years.

The couple had a six-week-old baby when the UAE closed its borders, schools and offices in March.

They said the pandemic brought them closer together, made them reassess their priorities and gave them valuable time with their now 10-month-old son.

“We got closer during that time due to our evolving new roles as parents and how much we relied on each other,” said Ms Baxter, an education consultant.

“Oliver and I co-ordinated who got to sleep when, and working from home saved commuting time for us as well.”

She said they were surprised at how well they did as a couple during the stay-home orders considering their usual social calendar pre-pandemic.

“We are known to brunch almost weekly but this situation really did allow us to slow down, focus on what’s important, and relish in the time with our new son,” Ms Baxter said.

But the stress of the pandemic and increased home time has not been easy for everyone.

Some couples admitted they struggled with being cooped up with each other at home for long periods of time.

Abbas Fazal, a pilot in Dubai, has been married to Nastasija for nine years. Courtesy: Abbas Fazal
Abbas Fazal, a pilot in Dubai, has been married to Nastasija for nine years. Courtesy: Abbas Fazal

“As husband and wife, your goal is always to grow closer to one another,” said Abbas Fazal, a pilot in Dubai married to wife Nastasija for nine years.

“But it’s a whole different ball game and mindset needed when it comes to spending all day together inside a confined space.”

He said the pandemic has been a “trying time” for them partly because, as an airline pilot, they were used to him being away for a couple of days every week.

“This was something that both of us agreed on and the time apart allowed us to grow and miss each other,” said Mr Fazal.

However, that quickly changed when planes were grounded and flights ceased.

“All of a sudden, I was home for longer periods of time with the occasional quick flight followed by a mandatory quarantine period at home,” said Mr Fazal.

“This started to drastically change the dynamics of our relationship.”

He said small, agreeable faults that were normally tolerated between him and his wife began to spiral into bigger issues.

“Each room became a territorial space and sometimes a ceasefire was nowhere in sight,” said Mr Fazal.

“I also started to realise the quirks about my wife that drove me into the dreaded silent mode.”

Eventually though, he said, the pandemic and all those hours at home strengthened their bond.

“It took a while and it took lots of effort from both of us to make it through,” Mr Fazal said. “But knowing that we survived a pandemic while staying at home, I honestly believe no further crisis can break us going forward.

"We laugh about it now but I would seriously question any couple that says it’s been easy.”

PROFILE OF INVYGO

Started: 2018

Founders: Eslam Hussein and Pulkit Ganjoo

Based: Dubai

Sector: Transport

Size: 9 employees

Investment: $1,275,000

Investors: Class 5 Global, Equitrust, Gulf Islamic Investments, Kairos K50 and William Zeqiri

UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets

Name: Peter Dicce

Title: Assistant dean of students and director of athletics

Favourite sport: soccer

Favourite team: Bayern Munich

Favourite player: Franz Beckenbauer

Favourite activity in Abu Dhabi: scuba diving in the Northern Emirates 

 

Yemen's Bahais and the charges they often face

The Baha'i faith was made known in Yemen in the 19th century, first introduced by an Iranian man named Ali Muhammad Al Shirazi, considered the Herald of the Baha'i faith in 1844.

The Baha'i faith has had a growing number of followers in recent years despite persecution in Yemen and Iran. 

Today, some 2,000 Baha'is reside in Yemen, according to Insaf. 

"The 24 defendants represented by the House of Justice, which has intelligence outfits from the uS and the UK working to carry out an espionage scheme in Yemen under the guise of religion.. aimed to impant and found the Bahai sect on Yemeni soil by bringing foreign Bahais from abroad and homing them in Yemen," the charge sheet said. 

Baha'Ullah, the founder of the Bahai faith, was exiled by the Ottoman Empire in 1868 from Iran to what is now Israel. Now, the Bahai faith's highest governing body, known as the Universal House of Justice, is based in the Israeli city of Haifa, which the Bahais turn towards during prayer. 

The Houthis cite this as collective "evidence" of Bahai "links" to Israel - which the Houthis consider their enemy. 

 

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Electric scooters: some rules to remember
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  • Wear a protective helmet
  • Park the electric scooter in designated parking lots (if any)
  • Do not leave electric scooter in locations that obstruct traffic or pedestrians
  • Solo riders only, no passengers allowed
  • Do not drive outside designated lanes
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Director: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham, Rachel Szor, Hamdan Ballal

Stars: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham

Rating: 3.5/5

Jumanji: The Next Level

Director: Jake Kasdan

Stars: Dwayne Johnson, Kevin Hart, Karen Gillan, Jack Black, Nick Jonas 

Two out of five stars 

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BMW M5 specs

Engine: 4.4-litre twin-turbo V-8 petrol enging with additional electric motor

Power: 727hp

Torque: 1,000Nm

Transmission: 8-speed auto

Fuel consumption: 10.6L/100km

On sale: Now

Price: From Dh650,000

How to watch Ireland v Pakistan in UAE

When: The one-off Test starts on Friday, May 11
What time: Each day’s play is scheduled to start at 2pm UAE time.
TV: The match will be broadcast on OSN Sports Cricket HD. Subscribers to the channel can also stream the action live on OSN Play.

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  • Promises of high, fixed or 'guaranteed' returns.
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The specs

Engine: 4.0-litre V8 twin-turbocharged and three electric motors

Power: Combined output 920hp

Torque: 730Nm at 4,000-7,000rpm

Transmission: 8-speed dual-clutch automatic

Fuel consumption: 11.2L/100km

On sale: Now, deliveries expected later in 2025

Price: expected to start at Dh1,432,000

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    15 years, 181 days old
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    15 years, 271 days old
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    16 years, 30 days old
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    16 years, 68 days old
LA LIGA FIXTURES

Thursday (All UAE kick-off times)

Sevilla v Real Betis (midnight)

Friday

Granada v Real Betis (9.30pm)

Valencia v Levante (midnight)

Saturday

Espanyol v Alaves (4pm)

Celta Vigo v Villarreal (7pm)

Leganes v Real Valladolid (9.30pm)

Mallorca v Barcelona (midnight)

Sunday

Atletic Bilbao v Atletico Madrid (4pm)

Real Madrid v Eibar (9.30pm)

Real Sociedad v Osasuna (midnight)

RESULT

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Chelsea: Alonso (45' 3), Batshuayi (85')

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Final
UAE v Hong Kong

TV:
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Why are asylum seekers being housed in hotels?

The number of asylum applications in the UK has reached a new record high, driven by those illegally entering the country in small boats crossing the English Channel.

A total of 111,084 people applied for asylum in the UK in the year to June 2025, the highest number for any 12-month period since current records began in 2001.

Asylum seekers and their families can be housed in temporary accommodation while their claim is assessed.

The Home Office provides the accommodation, meaning asylum seekers cannot choose where they live.

When there is not enough housing, the Home Office can move people to hotels or large sites like former military bases.

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Sand storm

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  • Travel distance: Limited 
  • Source: Open desert areas with strong winds

Dust storm

  • Particle size: Much finer, lightweight particles
  • Visibility: Hazy skies but less intense
  • Duration: Can linger for days
  • Travel distance: Long-range, up to thousands of kilometres
  • Source: Can be carried from distant regions
Results:

2.15pm: Handicap (PA) Dh60,000 1,200m.

Winner: AZ Dhabyan, Adam McLean (jockey), Saleha Al Ghurair (trainer).

2.45pm: Maiden (PA) Dh60,000 1,200m.

Winner: Ashton Tourettes, Sam Hitchcott, Ibrahim Aseel.

3.15pm: Conditions (PA) Dh60,000 2,000m.

Winner: Hareer Al Reef, Gerald Avranche, Abdallah Al Hammadi.

3.45pm: Maiden (PA) Dh60,000 1,700m.

Winner: Kenz Al Reef, Gerald Avranche, Abdallah Al Hammadi.

4.15pm: Sheikh Ahmed bin Rashid Al Maktoum Cup (TB) Dh 200,000 1,700m.

Winner: Mystique Moon, Sam Hitchcott, Doug Watson.

4.45pm: The Crown Prince Of Sharjah Cup Prestige (PA) Dh200,000 1,200m.

Winner: ES Ajeeb, Sam Hitchcott, Ibrahim Aseel.

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Name: Akeed

Based: Muscat

Launch year: 2018

Number of employees: 40

Sector: Online food delivery

Funding: Raised $3.2m since inception 

The National's picks

4.35pm: Tilal Al Khalediah
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How to apply for a drone permit
  • Individuals must register on UAE Drone app or website using their UAE Pass
  • Add all their personal details, including name, nationality, passport number, Emiratis ID, email and phone number
  • Upload the training certificate from a centre accredited by the GCAA
  • Submit their request
What are the regulations?
  • Fly it within visual line of sight
  • Never over populated areas
  • Ensure maximum flying height of 400 feet (122 metres) above ground level is not crossed
  • Users must avoid flying over restricted areas listed on the UAE Drone app
  • Only fly the drone during the day, and never at night
  • Should have a live feed of the drone flight
  • Drones must weigh 5 kg or less
The biog

Name: Dhabia Khalifa AlQubaisi

Age: 23

How she spends spare time: Playing with cats at the clinic and feeding them

Inspiration: My father. He’s a hard working man who has been through a lot to provide us with everything we need

Favourite book: Attitude, emotions and the psychology of cats by Dr Nicholes Dodman

Favourit film: 101 Dalmatians - it remind me of my childhood and began my love of dogs 

Word of advice: By being patient, good things will come and by staying positive you’ll have the will to continue to love what you're doing

Results

6.30pm: Mazrat Al Ruwayah Group Two (PA) US$55,000 (Dirt) 1,600m; Winner: Rasi, Harry Bentley (jockey), Sulaiman Al Ghunaimi (trainer).

7.05pm: Meydan Trophy (TB) $100,000 (Turf) 1,900m; Winner: Ya Hayati, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.

7.40pm: Handicap (TB) $135,000 (D) 1,200m; Winner: Bochart, Richard Mullen, Satish Seemar.

8.15pm: Balanchine Group Two (TB) $250,000 (T) 1,800m; Winner: Magic Lily, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.

8.50pm: Handicap (TB) $135,000 (T) 1,000m; Winner: Waady, Jim Crowley, Doug Watson.

9.25pm: Firebreak Stakes Group Three (TB) $200,000 (D) 1,600m; Winner: Capezzano, Mickael Barzalona, Salem bin Ghadayer.

10pm: Handicap (TB) $175,000 (T) 2,410m; Winner: Eynhallow, Mickael Barzalona, Charlie Appleby.

How to invest in gold

Investors can tap into the gold price by purchasing physical jewellery, coins and even gold bars, but these need to be stored safely and possibly insured.

A cheaper and more straightforward way to benefit from gold price growth is to buy an exchange-traded fund (ETF).

Most advisers suggest sticking to “physical” ETFs. These hold actual gold bullion, bars and coins in a vault on investors’ behalf. Others do not hold gold but use derivatives to track the price instead, adding an extra layer of risk. The two biggest physical gold ETFs are SPDR Gold Trust and iShares Gold Trust.

Another way to invest in gold’s success is to buy gold mining stocks, but Mr Gravier says this brings added risks and can be more volatile. “They have a serious downside potential should the price consolidate.”

Mr Kyprianou says gold and gold miners are two different asset classes. “One is a commodity and the other is a company stock, which means they behave differently.”

Mining companies are a business, susceptible to other market forces, such as worker availability, health and safety, strikes, debt levels, and so on. “These have nothing to do with gold at all. It means that some companies will survive, others won’t.”

By contrast, when gold is mined, it just sits in a vault. “It doesn’t even rust, which means it retains its value,” Mr Kyprianou says.

You may already have exposure to gold miners in your portfolio, say, through an international ETF or actively managed mutual fund.

You could spread this risk with an actively managed fund that invests in a spread of gold miners, with the best known being BlackRock Gold & General. It is up an incredible 55 per cent over the past year, and 240 per cent over five years. As always, past performance is no guide to the future.