Related: UAE sets out legal overhaul of personal and family law
Sweeping changes to the UAE's personal law has placed suicide and help from support groups back in the spotlight.
Although those who attempted suicide, but survived, were rarely prosecuted, previous laws exposed them to potential prosecution by the courts.
The legal grey area left some of the most desperate and vulnerable in the community confused about how or if they could ask for help.
Clarity has now been offered under landmark legal changes to officially decriminalise suicide and attempted suicide, a practice unofficially in place for some time.
British resident Gail Thompson, whose long-term partner took his own life in Dubai in 2019, said the ruling would encourage those who have lost all hope to ask for help.
There are so many people trying to help family and friends who do not have the support they need. Hopefully that will now change
“The feeling of helplessness is overwhelming when you don’t know where to turn because you are afraid of the repercussions,” she said.
“At the time, misinformation or a lack of it made it very difficult for us.
“With this new legislation people can reach out for the support they so desperately need, without the fear of breaking the law being added to their load.
“There are so many people trying to help family and friends who do not have the support they need. Hopefully that will now change.
"When someone close takes their life, they take a part of your life too."
While police and courts now ensure vulnerable people receive mental-health support, anyone found assisting an individual with an attempted suicide will face an unspecified jail sentence.
Suicide prevention is one of the foundations of the global Movember movement, an initiative to encourage discussion about men’s health throughout the month of November.
In Australia, where the charitable foundation originated 17 years ago, men are three times more likely to take their own lives than women.
It is a common trend, with men neglecting psychological issues in greater numbers than women, according to Tanya Dharamshi, clinical director and counselling psychologist at the Priory Wellbeing Centre, Dubai.
“We are seeing an increase in male patients at the centre, mainly with issues relating to Covid-19,” she said.
“Men often bear the primary financial responsibility in Dubai.
“During times of global economic uncertainty they can feel highly stressed about their ability to provide for their families, maintain their homes, children’s education and job stability.
“Compared to women, it is far less likely for men to be open and communicate with their friends and social support group about their struggles.”
Stigma around suicide is common across the world, particularly in Indian and Pakistani communities - two of the largest diasporas in the UAE.
About 3.4 million Indians are estimated to live in the Emirates, about 27 per cent of the population.
“Attitudes towards suicide varies among different communities, some may see it as a sign of weakness, or that there are other factors at play which cause someone to take extremes steps like suicide,” said Ayesha Kapur, a psychotherapist at the Staff Health Unit for the Medecines Sans Frontieres (MSF) charity in India.
“This period of self-isolation has not created new issues for people, rather people are now confronting existing issues which they had been avoiding.”
Experts said more time spent at home or in isolation forced some difficult questions about purpose and life goals.
A mental health helpline established during the pandemic by the UAE National Programme for Happiness and Wellbeing received 740 calls in just four months from May.
In Ras Al Khaimah, a suicide prevention taskforce was established by the social workers at the Indian Relief Committee to support the community after the suicide of a popular Indian national in 2018.
Similar initiatives offering support groups for men have arisen in recent months, prompted by the uncertainty of the pandemic.
Pakistanis make up the second-largest community of expatriates with about 1.5 million people living and working in the country.
They face similar challenges with effective mental health support and cultural acceptance of the issues they face, particularly among men.
Naveed Sultan, a clinical psychologist, is working at the MSF's Timergara project, an emergency response in Pakistan to the impact of Covid-19.
He said attitudes towards mental health in some Pakistani communities are often shrouded in misconception.
“One misunderstanding is the attachment of stigma or attribution of supernatural causes to mental health problems,” he said.
“That makes it difficult to speak out and seek professional care.”
In Pakistan, suicides are estimated to represent some 0.9 per cent of all deaths.
Mr Sultan said treatment was often restricted to unlicensed, traditional practitioners such as spiritualists and faith healers, whereas medical practitioners or psychiatrists were approached less often.
“People hide their suicidal ideations as is religiously prohibited, therefore leading to under reporting,” he said.
“Although people with suicidal tendencies do contact helplines, they are hesitating to approach mental health services in person due to these cultural and social stigmas.”
Key Points
- Protests against President Omar Al Bashir enter their sixth day
- Reports of President Bashir's resignation and arrests of senior government officials
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Price, base / as tested Dh57,000
Engine 1,170cc air/oil-cooled flat twin four-stroke engine
Transmission Six-speed gearbox
Power 110hp) @ 7,750rpm
Torque 116Nm @ 6,000rpm
Fuel economy, combined 5.3L / 100km
The biog
Favourite Emirati dish: Fish machboos
Favourite spice: Cumin
Family: mother, three sisters, three brothers and a two-year-old daughter
Key findings of Jenkins report
- Founder of the Muslim Brotherhood, Hassan al Banna, "accepted the political utility of violence"
- Views of key Muslim Brotherhood ideologue, Sayyid Qutb, have “consistently been understood” as permitting “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” and “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
- Muslim Brotherhood at all levels has repeatedly defended Hamas attacks against Israel, including the use of suicide bombers and the killing of civilians.
- Laying out the report in the House of Commons, David Cameron told MPs: "The main findings of the review support the conclusion that membership of, association with, or influence by the Muslim Brotherhood should be considered as a possible indicator of extremism."
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Director: Ayan Mukerji
Stars: Hrithik Roshan, NTR, Kiara Advani, Ashutosh Rana
Rating: 2/5
Fighting with My Family
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Polarised public
31% in UK say BBC is biased to left-wing views
19% in UK say BBC is biased to right-wing views
19% in UK say BBC is not biased at all
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Cricket World Cup League 2
UAE squad
Rahul Chopra (captain), Aayan Afzal Khan, Ali Naseer, Aryansh Sharma, Basil Hameed, Dhruv Parashar, Junaid Siddique, Muhammad Farooq, Muhammad Jawadullah, Muhammad Waseem, Omid Rahman, Rahul Bhatia, Tanish Suri, Vishnu Sukumaran, Vriitya Aravind
Fixtures
Friday, November 1 – Oman v UAE
Sunday, November 3 – UAE v Netherlands
Thursday, November 7 – UAE v Oman
Saturday, November 9 – Netherlands v UAE
How to wear a kandura
Dos
- Wear the right fabric for the right season and occasion
- Always ask for the dress code if you don’t know
- Wear a white kandura, white ghutra / shemagh (headwear) and black shoes for work
- Wear 100 per cent cotton under the kandura as most fabrics are polyester
Don’ts
- Wear hamdania for work, always wear a ghutra and agal
- Buy a kandura only based on how it feels; ask questions about the fabric and understand what you are buying
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Wicked: For Good
Director: Jon M Chu
Starring: Ariana Grande, Cynthia Erivo, Jonathan Bailey, Jeff Goldblum, Michelle Yeoh, Ethan Slater
Rating: 4/5
Six large-scale objects on show
- Concrete wall and windows from the now demolished Robin Hood Gardens housing estate in Poplar
- The 17th Century Agra Colonnade, from the bathhouse of the fort of Agra in India
- A stagecloth for The Ballet Russes that is 10m high – the largest Picasso in the world
- Frank Lloyd Wright’s 1930s Kaufmann Office
- A full-scale Frankfurt Kitchen designed by Margarete Schütte-Lihotzky, which transformed kitchen design in the 20th century
- Torrijos Palace dome
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Ultramafic rocks: Dark-coloured rocks rich in magnesium or iron with very low silica content
Ophiolite: A section of the earth’s crust, which is oceanic in nature that has since been uplifted and exposed on land
Olivine: A commonly occurring magnesium iron silicate mineral that derives its name for its olive-green yellow-green colour
Which honey takes your fancy?
Al Ghaf Honey
The Al Ghaf tree is a local desert tree which bears the harsh summers with drought and high temperatures. From the rich flowers, bees that pollinate this tree can produce delicious red colour honey in June and July each year
Sidr Honey
The Sidr tree is an evergreen tree with long and strong forked branches. The blossom from this tree is called Yabyab, which provides rich food for bees to produce honey in October and November. This honey is the most expensive, but tastiest
Samar Honey
The Samar tree trunk, leaves and blossom contains Barm which is the secret of healing. You can enjoy the best types of honey from this tree every year in May and June. It is an historical witness to the life of the Emirati nation which represents the harsh desert and mountain environments
Du Plessis plans his retirement
South Africa captain Faf du Plessis said on Friday the Twenty20 World Cup in Australia in two years' time will be his last.
Du Plessis, 34, who has led his country in two World T20 campaigns, in 2014 and 2016, is keen to play a third but will then step aside.
"The T20 World Cup in 2020 is something I'm really looking forward to. I think right now that will probably be the last tournament for me," he said in Brisbane ahead of a one-off T20 against Australia on Saturday.
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The National's picks
4.35pm: Tilal Al Khalediah
5.10pm: Continous
5.45pm: Raging Torrent
6.20pm: West Acre
7pm: Flood Zone
7.40pm: Straight No Chaser
8.15pm: Romantic Warrior
8.50pm: Calandogan
9.30pm: Forever Young
The alternatives
• Founded in 2014, Telr is a payment aggregator and gateway with an office in Silicon Oasis. It’s e-commerce entry plan costs Dh349 monthly (plus VAT). QR codes direct customers to an online payment page and merchants can generate payments through messaging apps.
• Business Bay’s Pallapay claims 40,000-plus active merchants who can invoice customers and receive payment by card. Fees range from 1.99 per cent plus Dh1 per transaction depending on payment method and location, such as online or via UAE mobile.
• Tap started in May 2013 in Kuwait, allowing Middle East businesses to bill, accept, receive and make payments online “easier, faster and smoother” via goSell and goCollect. It supports more than 10,000 merchants. Monthly fees range from US$65-100, plus card charges of 2.75-3.75 per cent and Dh1.2 per sale.
• 2checkout’s “all-in-one payment gateway and merchant account” accepts payments in 200-plus markets for 2.4-3.9 per cent, plus a Dh1.2-Dh1.8 currency conversion charge. The US provider processes online shop and mobile transactions and has 17,000-plus active digital commerce users.
• PayPal is probably the best-known online goods payment method - usually used for eBay purchases - but can be used to receive funds, providing everyone’s signed up. Costs from 2.9 per cent plus Dh1.2 per transaction.
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
Who has lived at The Bishops Avenue?
- George Sainsbury of the supermarket dynasty, sugar magnate William Park Lyle and actress Dame Gracie Fields were residents in the 1930s when the street was only known as ‘Millionaires’ Row’.
- Then came the international super rich, including the last king of Greece, Constantine II, the Sultan of Brunei and Indian steel magnate Lakshmi Mittal who was at one point ranked the third richest person in the world.
- Turkish tycoon Halis Torprak sold his mansion for £50m in 2008 after spending just two days there. The House of Saud sold 10 properties on the road in 2013 for almost £80m.
- Other residents have included Iraqi businessman Nemir Kirdar, singer Ariana Grande, holiday camp impresario Sir Billy Butlin, businessman Asil Nadir, Paul McCartney’s former wife Heather Mills.
Hunting park to luxury living
- Land was originally the Bishop of London's hunting park, hence the name
- The road was laid out in the mid 19th Century, meandering through woodland and farmland
- Its earliest houses at the turn of the 20th Century were substantial detached properties with extensive grounds
Strait of Hormuz
Fujairah is a crucial hub for fuel storage and is just outside the Strait of Hormuz, a vital shipping route linking Middle East oil producers to markets in Asia, Europe, North America and beyond.
The strait is 33 km wide at its narrowest point, but the shipping lane is just three km wide in either direction. Almost a fifth of oil consumed across the world passes through the strait.
Iran has repeatedly threatened to close the strait, a move that would risk inviting geopolitical and economic turmoil.
Last month, Iran issued a new warning that it would block the strait, if it was prevented from using the waterway following a US decision to end exemptions from sanctions for major Iranian oil importers.
RACE CARD
6.30pm Maiden (TB) Dh82.500 (Dirt) 1,400m
7.05pm Handicap (TB) Dh87,500 (D) 1,400m
7.40pm Handicap (TB) Dh92,500 (Turf) 2,410m
8.15pm Handicap (TB) Dh105,000 (D) 1,900m
8.50pm UAE 2000 Guineas Trial (TB) Conditions Dh183,650 (D) 1,600m
9.25pm Dubai Trophy (TB) Conditions Dh183,650 (T) 1,200m
10pm Handicap (TB) Dh102,500 (T) 1,400m
Western Region Asia Cup T20 Qualifier
Sun Feb 23 – Thu Feb 27, Al Amerat, Oman
The two finalists advance to the Asia qualifier in Malaysia in August
Group A
Bahrain, Maldives, Oman, Qatar
Group B
UAE, Iran, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia
