DUBAI // All Rasik Panchal wanted was a partner from his home town in Gujarat, India. But working thousands of kilometres away in Dubai made that a challenge.
So Mr Panchal, 33, decided to try the matrimonial website Shaadi.
"Since I was living out of India, I felt out of reach from my community," he said. "Whenever I travelled back home my family would also help me. But I couldn't do that frequently."
After verifying his identity with the site, he stipulated what he was looking for in a wife. She had to be Gujarati and vegetarian.
"Most people back home are vegetarians anyway, but in today's world you can never really know for sure," Mr Panchal said. "I wanted to make sure we lived a similar lifestyle."
In September last year, after scanning dozens of profiles, he met his perfect match, Mitali. In the hope of settling down, he took a flight to India.
"We decided we would meet first and if everything goes well, we would tell our parents," said Mr Panchal, an engineer with LG. "Being away from the pressure of your parents allows you to talk to each other freely and truly get to know each other."
Mitali had a similar story. Although she still lived at home in Gujarat she felt she had exhausted all the traditional options there and decided to sign up on the website.
"I figured even if I wasn't active on the site others would still approach me," she said. "I wanted to feel that I tried every option available."
Nearly 25 suitors had approached her online before she finally met Mr Panchal. When the couple met in person it was love at first sight. Two days later, they met each other's parents. At first, Mitali's parents were unconvinced. But it was not that she had met Mr Panchal online that bothered them; it was that he was from the UAE.
"The community back home has these negative perceptions about men who work in the Gulf," he said. "They assume they are not very educated and they don't have a good job.
"They would prefer someone coming from the US or the UK. But she asked them to just give me a chance and then see what happens.
"I had to work hard to convince them about Dubai and life there. I felt like a travel consultant, but it was worth it."
A month later the couple were engaged, tying the knot in May this year. Now their first child is on the way.
Both say others in their position should not rule out the online option.
"What you do after you meet someone is up to you," Mr Panchal said. "At the end of the day, there's nothing to lose.
"If things don't work out, you would have gained a friend."
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TRAP
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Killing of Qassem Suleimani
How to wear a kandura
Dos
- Wear the right fabric for the right season and occasion
- Always ask for the dress code if you don’t know
- Wear a white kandura, white ghutra / shemagh (headwear) and black shoes for work
- Wear 100 per cent cotton under the kandura as most fabrics are polyester
Don’ts
- Wear hamdania for work, always wear a ghutra and agal
- Buy a kandura only based on how it feels; ask questions about the fabric and understand what you are buying
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Tearful appearance
Chancellor Rachel Reeves set markets on edge as she appeared visibly distraught in parliament on Wednesday.
Legislative setbacks for the government have blown a new hole in the budgetary calculations at a time when the deficit is stubbornly large and the economy is struggling to grow.
She appeared with Keir Starmer on Thursday and the pair embraced, but he had failed to give her his backing as she cried a day earlier.
A spokesman said her upset demeanour was due to a personal matter.
VEZEETA PROFILE
Date started: 2012
Founder: Amir Barsoum
Based: Dubai, UAE
Sector: HealthTech / MedTech
Size: 300 employees
Funding: $22.6 million (as of September 2018)
Investors: Technology Development Fund, Silicon Badia, Beco Capital, Vostok New Ventures, Endeavour Catalyst, Crescent Enterprises’ CE-Ventures, Saudi Technology Ventures and IFC
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Director: Dean Fleischer Camp
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How to get exposure to gold
Although you can buy gold easily on the Dubai markets, the problem with buying physical bars, coins or jewellery is that you then have storage, security and insurance issues.
A far easier option is to invest in a low-cost exchange traded fund (ETF) that invests in the precious metal instead, for example, ETFS Physical Gold (PHAU) and iShares Physical Gold (SGLN) both track physical gold. The VanEck Vectors Gold Miners ETF invests directly in mining companies.
Alternatively, BlackRock Gold & General seeks to achieve long-term capital growth primarily through an actively managed portfolio of gold mining, commodity and precious-metal related shares. Its largest portfolio holdings include gold miners Newcrest Mining, Barrick Gold Corp, Agnico Eagle Mines and the NewMont Goldcorp.
Brave investors could take on the added risk of buying individual gold mining stocks, many of which have performed wonderfully well lately.
London-listed Centamin is up more than 70 per cent in just three months, although in a sign of its volatility, it is down 5 per cent on two years ago. Trans-Siberian Gold, listed on London's alternative investment market (AIM) for small stocks, has seen its share price almost quadruple from 34p to 124p over the same period, but do not assume this kind of runaway growth can continue for long
However, buying individual equities like these is highly risky, as their share prices can crash just as quickly, which isn't what what you want from a supposedly safe haven.
THREE POSSIBLE REPLACEMENTS
Khalfan Mubarak
The Al Jazira playmaker has for some time been tipped for stardom within UAE football, with Quique Sanchez Flores, his former manager at Al Ahli, once labelling him a “genius”. He was only 17. Now 23, Mubarak has developed into a crafty supplier of chances, evidenced by his seven assists in six league matches this season. Still to display his class at international level, though.
Rayan Yaslam
The Al Ain attacking midfielder has become a regular starter for his club in the past 15 months. Yaslam, 23, is a tidy and intelligent player, technically proficient with an eye for opening up defences. Developed while alongside Abdulrahman in the Al Ain first-team and has progressed well since manager Zoran Mamic’s arrival. However, made his UAE debut only last December.
Ismail Matar
The Al Wahda forward is revered by teammates and a key contributor to the squad. At 35, his best days are behind him, but Matar is incredibly experienced and an example to his colleagues. His ability to cope with tournament football is a concern, though, despite Matar beginning the season well. Not a like-for-like replacement, although the system could be adjusted to suit.
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