Several years ago I was working in South Africa, and some friends called to say they were planning a day-trip to climb Table Mountain. They asked if I'd like to go along, and I instinctively said no - thinking of meetings, unanswered messages, and the disturbing thought that I "just couldn't possibly" take the time off to do something fun.
What a mistake. As I sat in my office after putting the phone down, I felt vaguely sad. I finally realised what the problem was: if I could fast-forward time to the day after I missed the Table Mountain excursion, I would have regretted not going. I called my friends back to check in: "Sorry, but is there still room for me? I'd love to go."
We had a great trip, and the world at work didn't end due to my one-day absence.
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We all make time for what's meaningful to us. If travel is important, a big trip won't just materialise out of the blue, with the time away from work prearranged and your packed bags lined up outside the door, awaiting a taxi that has been magically summoned.
No, if we're going to choose adventure, we must make deliberate choices. These days, you hear a lot about efficiency and productivity: how to accomplish the maximum amount of work, how to live the most optimal life. But surely there's more to life than getting things done.
Travel taught me to appreciate adventure for the joy it brings, even if adventure is sometimes accompanied by difficulty or hardship. I could always be more productive or take better care of my inbox. Or I could choose to set out on a journey of undetermined length and outcome. What's the better choice? I've found that saying yes to adventure is often better than bunkering down for efficiency's sake.
Last year, I published a book and wanted to go on a tour to meet readers. I asked my publisher about the plan. "Well, we don't have any money for tours anymore," they said. "But maybe you can come to New York?"
I said that New York was great, but not everyone lives there. Instead of a single-city event, I talked various friends into putting together an "unconventional book tour", visiting all 50 US states and 10 Canadian provinces. (Next time, it will be fully international.) Along the way I went to many big cities with long queues of people, but I also had plenty of stops in the middle of nowhere. These stops required five or more hours of driving from a bigger hub city. At the end of the night, a couple of dozen people would show up.
The whole tour was an adventure - not highly efficient, perhaps, but a grand experience that I thoroughly enjoyed. When you set out on an adventure, you're not always sure of the outcome. This fact is an inherent part of adventure and can't be manipulated without losing the essence of adventure itself.
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Visiting every country in the world is an adventure like no other. All over the world, I spend a lot of time getting to places, often sleeping on the floor of the airport before another 5am departure. I fly to one place, then to another, and finally to my intended destination.
A recent itinerary took me to 13 stops, beginning in South Africa, heading over to Madagascar and Comoros in the Indian Ocean, up through Nairobi and Dubai and eventually across the Atlantic via London and Madrid. I learned to think in airport codes along the way: JNB-TNR-NBO-KGL-BJM-JNB-DXB-LHR-MAD-DFW-PDX. When things went wrong, I learned to view the problems as obstacles to overcome, and sometimes even a welcome part of the adventure itself.
Perhaps you won't go to every country or enjoy sleeping on airport floors. But I'll bet there's at least one adventure with your name on it out there. When you find such an opportunity, keep the words of Amelia Earhart in mind: "When a great adventure is offered, you don't refuse it."
My current adventure began six years ago on a ferry from Hong Kong to Macau. I scribbled the idea in a notebook: why not go to every country in the world? Thinking of what would be involved simultaneously thrilled and frightened me—always a characteristic of a worthy adventure.
I chose not to refuse this adventure, and my life is so much the better because of it. I hope you'll choose to create your own adventures as well.
Next week: Chris Guillebeau on the self-reliance of the modern traveller.
Key facilities
- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
The smuggler
Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple.
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.
Khouli conviction
Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.
For sale
A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.
- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico
- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000
- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950
How to protect yourself when air quality drops
Install an air filter in your home.
Close your windows and turn on the AC.
Shower or bath after being outside.
Wear a face mask.
Stay indoors when conditions are particularly poor.
If driving, turn your engine off when stationary.
A MINECRAFT MOVIE
Director: Jared Hess
Starring: Jack Black, Jennifer Coolidge, Jason Momoa
Rating: 3/5
Specs
Engine: Electric motor generating 54.2kWh (Cooper SE and Aceman SE), 64.6kW (Countryman All4 SE)
Power: 218hp (Cooper and Aceman), 313hp (Countryman)
Torque: 330Nm (Cooper and Aceman), 494Nm (Countryman)
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh158,000 (Cooper), Dh168,000 (Aceman), Dh190,000 (Countryman)
Company profile
Name: One Good Thing
Founders: Bridgett Lau and Micheal Cooke
Based in: Dubai
Sector: e-commerce
Size: 5 employees
Stage: Looking for seed funding
Investors: Self-funded and seeking external investors
THE BIG THREE
NOVAK DJOKOVIC
19 grand slam singles titles
Wimbledon: 5 (2011, 14, 15, 18, 19)
French Open: 2 (2016, 21)
US Open: 3 (2011, 15, 18)
Australian Open: 9 (2008, 11, 12, 13, 15, 16, 19, 20, 21)
Prize money: $150m
ROGER FEDERER
20 grand slam singles titles
Wimbledon: 8 (2003, 04, 05, 06, 07, 09, 12, 17)
French Open: 1 (2009)
US Open: 5 (2004, 05, 06, 07, 08)
Australian Open: 6 (2004, 06, 07, 10, 17, 18)
Prize money: $130m
RAFAEL NADAL
20 grand slam singles titles
Wimbledon: 2 (2008, 10)
French Open: 13 (2005, 06, 07, 08, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 17, 18, 19, 20)
US Open: 4 (2010, 13, 17, 19)
Australian Open: 1 (2009)
Prize money: $125m
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
The specs
Price, base / as tested Dh135,000
Engine 1.6L turbo
Gearbox Six speed automatic with manual and sports mode
Power 165hp @ 6,000rpm
Torque 240Nm @ 1,400rpm 0-100kph: 9.2 seconds
Top speed 420 kph (governed)
Fuel economy, combined 35.2L / 100km (est)
Five famous companies founded by teens
There are numerous success stories of teen businesses that were created in college dorm rooms and other modest circumstances. Below are some of the most recognisable names in the industry:
- Facebook: Mark Zuckerberg and his friends started Facebook when he was a 19-year-old Harvard undergraduate.
- Dell: When Michael Dell was an undergraduate student at Texas University in 1984, he started upgrading computers for profit. He starting working full-time on his business when he was 19. Eventually, his company became the Dell Computer Corporation and then Dell Inc.
- Subway: Fred DeLuca opened the first Subway restaurant when he was 17. In 1965, Mr DeLuca needed extra money for college, so he decided to open his own business. Peter Buck, a family friend, lent him $1,000 and together, they opened Pete’s Super Submarines. A few years later, the company was rebranded and called Subway.
- Mashable: In 2005, Pete Cashmore created Mashable in Scotland when he was a teenager. The site was then a technology blog. Over the next few decades, Mr Cashmore has turned Mashable into a global media company.
- Oculus VR: Palmer Luckey founded Oculus VR in June 2012, when he was 19. In August that year, Oculus launched its Kickstarter campaign and raised more than $1 million in three days. Facebook bought Oculus for $2 billion two years later.
Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
Ms Yang's top tips for parents new to the UAE
- Join parent networks
- Look beyond school fees
- Keep an open mind
The specs
Engine: 2.0-litre four-cylinder turbo
Power: 178hp at 5,500rpm
Torque: 280Nm at 1,350-4,200rpm
Transmission: seven-speed dual-clutch auto
Price: from Dh209,000
On sale: now
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Dr Afridi's warning signs of digital addiction
Spending an excessive amount of time on the phone.
Neglecting personal, social, or academic responsibilities.
Losing interest in other activities or hobbies that were once enjoyed.
Having withdrawal symptoms like feeling anxious, restless, or upset when the technology is not available.
Experiencing sleep disturbances or changes in sleep patterns.
What are the guidelines?
Under 18 months: Avoid screen time altogether, except for video chatting with family.
Aged 18-24 months: If screens are introduced, it should be high-quality content watched with a caregiver to help the child understand what they are seeing.
Aged 2-5 years: Limit to one-hour per day of high-quality programming, with co-viewing whenever possible.
Aged 6-12 years: Set consistent limits on screen time to ensure it does not interfere with sleep, physical activity, or social interactions.
Teenagers: Encourage a balanced approach – screens should not replace sleep, exercise, or face-to-face socialisation.
Source: American Paediatric Association
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Qyubic
Started: October 2023
Founder: Namrata Raina
Based: Dubai
Sector: E-commerce
Current number of staff: 10
Investment stage: Pre-seed
Initial investment: Undisclosed
Veere di Wedding
Dir: Shashanka Ghosh
Starring: Kareena Kapoo-Khan, Sonam Kapoor, Swara Bhaskar and Shikha Talsania
Verdict: 4 Stars
The White Lotus: Season three
Creator: Mike White
Starring: Walton Goggins, Jason Isaacs, Natasha Rothwell
Rating: 4.5/5