“It gets me a little sad. I see every week, there are girls my age and they are all very nice but they are my competition," Spain's Garbine Muguruza said. AFP PHOTO / ROSLAN RAHMAN
“It gets me a little sad. I see every week, there are girls my age and they are all very nice but they are my competition," Spain's Garbine Muguruza said. AFP PHOTO / ROSLAN RAHMAN

‘Friends is quite difficult to have’: Loneliness is toughest opponent for tennis players on tour



Andre Agassi, the eight-time major winner, wrote in his autobiography, Open, “Of all the games men and women play, tennis is the closest to solitary confinement.

“Only boxers can understand the loneliness of tennis players — and yet boxers have their corner men and managers,” the American legend added.

“People sometimes mention the track-and-field runner as a comparably lonely figure, but I have to laugh. At least the runner can feel and smell his opponents. They’re inches away. In tennis you’re on an island.”

Surviving on that lonely “island”, then, is a challenge, especially when you are young. That perhaps explains why the likes of Agassi and Jennifer Capriati, and even Serena Williams, kept falling in and out of love with sport.

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That loneliness, perhaps, explain Andy Murray’s berating screams towards his coaching staff in the stands. Or the crumpled notes that some of the other players carry with them.

One year at Wimbledon, Pete Sampras, with his game in tatters, brought out a note from his wife, which was addressed to “My husband – seven times Wimbledon champion – Pete”.

Most people might find such acts odd, but tennis can be a cruel sport. In cricket, the batsman has his partner to lift his spirits, the golfer has his caddie. In football, and indeed any other team sport, you have your teammates for support.

In tennis, there is none of that. After nearly decades on the tour, Williams still struggles with life on the tour. At the Australian Open last month, she talked about being “kind of sad”, lonely and bored.

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Does she not have any friends in the locker room? It seems a reasonable question, but then these following words of American author David Foster Wallace in his 1996 novel Infinite Jest perhaps explain the situation best.

“We’re all on each other’s food chain,” he wrote in the novel, which is centred on a junior tennis academy and a nearby substance-abuse recovery centre. “All of us. It’s an individual sport. Welcome to the meaning of individual. We’re each deeply alone here. It’s what we all have in common, this aloneness.”

Being on each other’s food chain makes friendships virtually impossible, and we have seen the likes of Maria Sharapova and Eugenie Bouchard say it loud. Garbine Muguruza confirmed the fact recently and, here in Dubai, Carla Suarez Navarro agreed in part.

“Friends is quite difficult to have,” Muguruza said in a recent radio interview. “It gets me a little sad. I see every week, there are girls my age and they are all very nice but they are my competition.”

Suarez Navarro said on the subject: “I understand what Garbine wants to say. I know it’s not easy because you are in competition all the time, but I think that most players have one or two friends on tour.

“Look at Serena and [Caroline] Wozniacki. They play finals but they are friends. I know that players go on holidays together; I see some having dinner of lunch together. But I know it is difficult.”

For Petra Kvitova, one such friend is Lucie Hradecka and the two-time Wimbledon champion is glad Hradecka is playing in Dubai this week, especially since the world No 8 is travelling alone after parting ways with coach David Kotyza.

"It's a bit more difficult for a woman than a man on tour," said Kvitova, the No 4 seed here in the Dubai Duty Free Tennis Championships who will start her campaign against American Madison Brengle on Wednesday.

“You are away from your family, boyfriends, friends but it’s fine for a few years, then it is not easy. That is part of the job. I’m OK right now.”

Over time though, that loneliness can become your toughest opponent. Ask Agassi, ask Capriati, or even Williams.

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The smuggler

Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple. 
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.

Khouli conviction

Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.

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A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.

- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico

- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000

- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950

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In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe

Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010

Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille

Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm

Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year

Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”

Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners

TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013 

Quick pearls of wisdom

Focus on gratitude: And do so deeply, he says. “Think of one to three things a day that you’re grateful for. It needs to be specific, too, don’t just say ‘air.’ Really think about it. If you’re grateful for, say, what your parents have done for you, that will motivate you to do more for the world.”

Know how to fight: Shetty married his wife, Radhi, three years ago (he met her in a meditation class before he went off and became a monk). He says they’ve had to learn to respect each other’s “fighting styles” – he’s a talk it-out-immediately person, while she needs space to think. “When you’re having an argument, remember, it’s not you against each other. It’s both of you against the problem. When you win, they lose. If you’re on a team you have to win together.” 

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