A problem with footballers is that they think mainly of themselves – and they never criticise themselves. When results turn bad, it’s the manager rather than the players who’ll get most criticism.
He’s the one in charge so that may seem natural, but after reading about managers losing their dressing room, I should tell you what it’s like inside a dressing room.
As I’ve got older, I’ve realised that a manager’s job is a very difficult one which has only got harder. A player must think of himself, a manager about all 25 players in a squad – and squads are far bigger than they used to be. The problem is that only 11 players can start a game and every player – no matter what they say – thinks he should start.
Straight away, you have the majority of the squad who are potentially unhappy. Maybe the coach will spread the games around players, but there will always be players who don’t like him.
A manager always has his favourites, too. They’ll back him because they play.
But what if results turn, what if the manager starts to make new decisions under pressure and drops some of the favoured players, maybe because they’ve become too comfortable knowing that they’ll be selected?
That’s when dissent can start. A player may speak to his closest colleagues about the manager. That’s normal. He may speak to journalists. The more they speak, the more leaks. And that can be dangerous.
When players speak, they do so entirely from their own perspective. Despite never managing a team, they think they know everything about management.
They talk to those close to them about their situation, and of course those people agree with them. They want their friend or husband or client to be playing.
So the player gets a distorted version of “the truth” and only the manager can challenge that because he selects the team. If a player is looking to find fault, he’ll find it because every coach has their strengths and weaknesses.
Managers also have their different styles and interpretations of football. Some managers are attack-minded, others defence-minded. They might be good tactically with defenders because they used to be one, but not with the midfield. Different training methods, styles of communication and what is said in public can all upset a player.
Whatever the manager does, the key is that he is respected. A new manager will always be given a chance, though it might not be a big chance if he has arrived at a huge club and he’s not considered one of the best managers in the world.
Gerardo Martino, a very good coach, suffered from this at Barcelona. It was difficult for him because he had limited control. Alex Ferguson took years to get that control and, because he was successful, he could make unpopular decisions and get away with it.
In Jose Mourinho’s case, he is considered one of the best, yet his team are struggling and have already lost many times this season.
A manager who keeps losing will also lose his job, but Mourinho has built up a huge bank of credit. Chelsea fans love him because of what he’s done.
They’re supporting him in the tough times that everyone faces, and it’s his challenge to get through because that patience won’t last forever. He’s not going to survive if they’re relegated – or even get close to relegation. As Mourinho reminded people recently, it’s his first really poor spell in 11 years. That’s an excellent record, but he has to do something to restore Chelsea’s previous good form. Changes mean upsetting players, plus their agents.
If some of them are important players, with power at the club, with access to the owner, then you can have a problem. I know so many players who become managers and then immediately realise how hard it is.
Maybe they wished they’d been more understanding with some of their former coaches, but sometimes players do have genuine grievances. I know of one coach who stopped a player moving to a bigger club because he said he needed him. Then he didn’t play the player. Of course, the victim was going to be angry because it was poor management.
And while coaches have their loyal players, the ones who they take from club to club, it can cause resentment when they play badly but don’t get dropped. Then it’s one rule for one and one for others.
I’ve never been in a dressing room where all the players have lost confidence in the coach and I’ve been fortunate to play for good clubs, but I’ve seen coaches suffer and felt sorry for them. I wanted to help them get out of their difficult time and felt that not all my teammates have thought the same way. Or that the owner hasn’t supported the manager – that’s another key relationship in a football club.
The owner will consult key, experienced players, but he should consult his coach first because in theory the coach should be the most important person at a club.
It reality, he often isn’t.
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A MINECRAFT MOVIE
Director: Jared Hess
Starring: Jack Black, Jennifer Coolidge, Jason Momoa
Rating: 3/5
In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
THE BIO
Born: Mukalla, Yemen, 1979
Education: UAE University, Al Ain
Family: Married with two daughters: Asayel, 7, and Sara, 6
Favourite piece of music: Horse Dance by Naseer Shamma
Favourite book: Science and geology
Favourite place to travel to: Washington DC
Best advice you’ve ever been given: If you have a dream, you have to believe it, then you will see it.
The specs
AT4 Ultimate, as tested
Engine: 6.2-litre V8
Power: 420hp
Torque: 623Nm
Transmission: 10-speed automatic
Price: From Dh330,800 (Elevation: Dh236,400; AT4: Dh286,800; Denali: Dh345,800)
On sale: Now
Tuesday's fixtures
Kyrgyzstan v Qatar, 5.45pm
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NO OTHER LAND
Director: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham, Rachel Szor, Hamdan Ballal
Stars: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham
Rating: 3.5/5
Points to remember
- Debate the issue, don't attack the person
- Build the relationship and dialogue by seeking to find common ground
- Express passion for the issue but be aware of when you're losing control or when there's anger. If there is, pause and take some time out.
- Listen actively without interrupting
- Avoid assumptions, seek understanding, ask questions
Specs
Engine: Dual-motor all-wheel-drive electric
Range: Up to 610km
Power: 905hp
Torque: 985Nm
Price: From Dh439,000
Available: Now
Skewed figures
In the village of Mevagissey in southwest England the housing stock has doubled in the last century while the number of residents is half the historic high. The village's Neighbourhood Development Plan states that 26% of homes are holiday retreats. Prices are high, averaging around £300,000, £50,000 more than the Cornish average of £250,000. The local average wage is £15,458.
TUESDAY'S ORDER OF PLAY
Centre Court
Starting at 2pm:
Malin Cilic (CRO) v Benoit Paire (FRA) [8]
Not before 4pm:
Dan Evans (GBR) v Fabio Fogini (ITA) [4]
Not before 7pm:
Pablo Carreno Busta (SPA) v Stefanos Tsitsipas (GRE) [2]
Roberto Bautista Agut (SPA) [5] v Jan-Lennard Struff (GER)
Court One
Starting at 2pm
Prajnesh Gunneswaran (IND) v Dennis Novak (AUT)
Joao Sousa (POR) v Filip Krajinovic (SRB)
Not before 5pm:
Rajeev Ram (USA) and Joe Salisbury (GBR) [1] v Marin Cilic v Novak Djokovic (SRB)
Nikoloz Basilashvili v Ricardas Berankis (LTU)
Learn more about Qasr Al Hosn
In 2013, The National's History Project went beyond the walls to see what life was like living in Abu Dhabi's fabled fort:
Election pledges on migration
CDU: "Now is the time to control the German borders and enforce strict border rejections"
SPD: "Border closures and blanket rejections at internal borders contradict the spirit of a common area of freedom"
Volvo ES90 Specs
Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)
Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp
Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm
On sale: Later in 2025 or early 2026, depending on region
Price: Exact regional pricing TBA
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
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In numbers
Number of Chinese tourists coming to UAE in 2017 was... 1.3m
Alibaba’s new ‘Tech Town’ in Dubai is worth... $600m
China’s investment in the MIddle East in 2016 was... $29.5bn
The world’s most valuable start-up in 2018, TikTok, is valued at... $75bn
Boost to the UAE economy of 5G connectivity will be... $269bn
Ms Yang's top tips for parents new to the UAE
- Join parent networks
- Look beyond school fees
- Keep an open mind
COMPANY PROFILE
Initial investment: Undisclosed
Investment stage: Series A
Investors: Core42
Current number of staff: 47
Coming soon
Torno Subito by Massimo Bottura
When the W Dubai – The Palm hotel opens at the end of this year, one of the highlights will be Massimo Bottura’s new restaurant, Torno Subito, which promises “to take guests on a journey back to 1960s Italy”. It is the three Michelinstarred chef’s first venture in Dubai and should be every bit as ambitious as you would expect from the man whose restaurant in Italy, Osteria Francescana, was crowned number one in this year’s list of the World’s 50 Best Restaurants.
Akira Back Dubai
Another exciting opening at the W Dubai – The Palm hotel is South Korean chef Akira Back’s new restaurant, which will continue to showcase some of the finest Asian food in the world. Back, whose Seoul restaurant, Dosa, won a Michelin star last year, describes his menu as, “an innovative Japanese cuisine prepared with a Korean accent”.
Dinner by Heston Blumenthal
The highly experimental chef, whose dishes are as much about spectacle as taste, opens his first restaurant in Dubai next year. Housed at The Royal Atlantis Resort & Residences, Dinner by Heston Blumenthal will feature contemporary twists on recipes that date back to the 1300s, including goats’ milk cheesecake. Always remember with a Blumenthal dish: nothing is quite as it seems.
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THE SPECS
Engine: 6.75-litre twin-turbocharged V12 petrol engine
Power: 420kW
Torque: 780Nm
Transmission: 8-speed automatic
Price: From Dh1,350,000
On sale: Available for preorder now
