There is a question that has always fascinated humanity, the question of self: who am I?
That is why online tests like “What Disney princess are you?” (I got Princess Jasmine by the way) are so popular.
For some of these tests, all you have to do is type in your name, and like magic it tells you who and what you are like.
Now, there are thousands, if not millions, of people who may have your name, so are you all the same? Not only that, when will a test ever tell you, “hey, you are just average” and not this amazing fun cool “unique” person everyone loves and adores?
Some people reshare the results everywhere, as if to remind those around them how awesome they are. I believe these tests are just meant for fun and to leave you feeling positive, not meant to empower you with some new piece of knowledge.
There is nothing wrong with doing things that make you feel better, especially since our social media feed is often crammed with depressing news and updates.
I come from a psychology background, and am fascinated by everything related to this field.
As a region rocked with so many conflicts and so many related psychological issues, interventions are much needed.
One way to gently introduce this process of self-analysis is through schools. A child could note down honestly what bothers him or her, and perhaps even learning problems could be uncovered earlier to help the child. I had dyslexia and no one knew. I struggled alone for the longest time at a Saudi school where teachers thought I was just “being naughty” and ignoring instructions.
Long before the internet, there were personality tests published in magazines and conducted at universities. We should not underestimate the importance of professional personality tests.
Personality tests, like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator assessment, a psychometric questionnaire designed to measure psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions, are taken seriously and can help one find the better fitting job for one’s personality and natural preferences.
I recall a representative from a human resources department in the US telling me how it is good to do these tests, understand the results and then beef up a resume by highlighting some of the strengths that come naturally to you.
There are many people in jobs that don’t fit their personality and natural preferences, and so they end up unhappy in their work, wasting years, when a quick test could help them find out information about themselves.
People rely on horoscopes to know about their future when there are far more reliable sources that can tell you how to react to certain situations to bring about positive outcomes. I also found this Arabic proverb quite funny: “Self-praise is like chewing cotton wool.”
In a way, we are self-praising whenever we pick out things we like from our horoscopes or tests. It is hard, if not impossible to swallow something like cotton wool, and also, it leaves the mouth sore from all that chewing. I wish we were calm and dignified all the time, but often we are not even on a good day. We all have good and bad qualities, and we just have to be honest about who we are. From time to time, we need to sit with our “self” as it is important for our professional and personal relations to check ourselves and see what is working and what isn’t.
Ultimately, whatever princess or prince a test may tell you are like, it may not be the most reliable test. It can be an important point to restart a conversation with the self. For while social media is all about “me” and “myself”, there isn’t much reflection and analysis of this me.
rghazal@thenational.ae
On Twitter: @Arabianmau
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Killing of Qassem Suleimani
Labour dispute
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The specs
- Engine: 3.9-litre twin-turbo V8
- Power: 640hp
- Torque: 760nm
- On sale: 2026
- Price: Not announced yet
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Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
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When: December 27-29, 2018
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Thing you will miss most about the UAE: My friends and family, Formula 1, having Friday's off, desert adventures, and Arabic culture and people
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7 Larry Page $56.8 billion
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Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
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Red Sparrow
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Gothia Cup 2025
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Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
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- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
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Torque: 66Nm
Transmission: four-speed manual
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Jetour T1 specs
Engine: 2-litre turbocharged
Power: 254hp
Torque: 390Nm
Price: From Dh126,000
Available: Now
Ultra processed foods
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- infant formulas and follow-on milks, health and slimming products such as powdered or fortified meal and dish substitutes,
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Jordan cabinet changes
In
- Raed Mozafar Abu Al Saoud, Minister of Water and Irrigation
- Dr Bassam Samir Al Talhouni, Minister of Justice
- Majd Mohamed Shoueikeh, State Minister of Development of Foundation Performance
- Azmi Mahmud Mohafaza, Minister of Education and Minister of Higher Education and Scientific Research
- Falah Abdalla Al Ammoush, Minister of Public Works and Housing
- Basma Moussa Ishakat, Minister of Social Development
- Dr Ghazi Monawar Al Zein, Minister of Health
- Ibrahim Sobhi Alshahahede, Minister of Agriculture and Minister of Environment
- Dr Mohamed Suleiman Aburamman, Minister of Culture and Minister of Youth
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- Dr Adel Issa Al Tawissi, Minister of High Education and Scientific Research
- Hala Noaman “Basiso Lattouf”, Minister of Social Development
- Dr Mahmud Yassin Al Sheyab, Minister of Health
- Yahya Moussa Kasbi, Minister of Public Works and Housing
- Nayef Hamidi Al Fayez, Minister of Environment
- Majd Mohamed Shoueika, Minister of Public Sector Development
- Khalid Moussa Al Huneifat, Minister of Agriculture
- Dr Awad Abu Jarad Al Mushakiba, Minister of Justice
- Mounir Moussa Ouwais, Minister of Water and Agriculture
- Dr Azmi Mahmud Mohafaza, Minister of Education
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- Basma Mohamed Al Nousour, Minister of Culture
You may remember …
Robbie Keane (Atletico de Kolkata) The Irish striker is, along with his former Spurs teammate Dimitar Berbatov, the headline figure in this season’s ISL, having joined defending champions ATK. His grand entrance after arrival from Major League Soccer in the US will be delayed by three games, though, due to a knee injury.
Dimitar Berbatov (Kerala Blasters) Word has it that Rene Meulensteen, the Kerala manager, plans to deploy his Bulgarian star in central midfield. The idea of Berbatov as an all-action, box-to-box midfielder, might jar with Spurs and Manchester United supporters, who more likely recall an always-languid, often-lazy striker.
Wes Brown (Kerala Blasters) Revived his playing career last season to help out at Blackburn Rovers, where he was also a coach. Since then, the 23-cap England centre back, who is now 38, has been reunited with the former Manchester United assistant coach Meulensteen, after signing for Kerala.
Andre Bikey (Jamshedpur) The Cameroonian defender is onto the 17th club of a career has taken him to Spain, Portugal, Russia, the UK, Greece, and now India. He is still only 32, so there is plenty of time to add to that tally, too. Scored goals against Liverpool and Chelsea during his time with Reading in England.
Emiliano Alfaro (Pune City) The Uruguayan striker has played for Liverpool – the Montevideo one, rather than the better-known side in England – and Lazio in Italy. He was prolific for a season at Al Wasl in the Arabian Gulf League in 2012/13. He returned for one season with Fujairah, whom he left to join Pune.
Australia tour of Pakistan
March 4-8: First Test, Rawalpindi
March 12-16: Second Test, Karachi
March 21-25: Third Test, Lahore
March 29: First ODI, Rawalpindi
March 31: Second ODI, Rawalpindi
April 2: Third ODI, Rawalpindi
April 5: T20I, Rawalpindi
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ESSENTIALS
The flights
Emirates flies from Dubai to Phnom Penh via Yangon from Dh2,700 return including taxes. Cambodia Bayon Airlines and Cambodia Angkor Air offer return flights from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap from Dh250 return including taxes. The flight takes about 45 minutes.
The hotels
Rooms at the Raffles Le Royal in Phnom Penh cost from $225 (Dh826) per night including taxes. Rooms at the Grand Hotel d'Angkor cost from $261 (Dh960) per night including taxes.
The tours
A cyclo architecture tour of Phnom Penh costs from $20 (Dh75) per person for about three hours, with Khmer Architecture Tours. Tailor-made tours of all of Cambodia, or sites like Angkor alone, can be arranged by About Asia Travel. Emirates Holidays also offers packages.
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