I’m sure we all know by now that men and women see things differently. We are well-acquainted with the infamously common jokes that draw on sexist connotations.
And yet the implications of the widely varying perceptions men and women have about gender equality are far from hilarious.
Indeed, a recent gender equality survey shows a stark contrast between the attitudes of men in four Middle Eastern countries – Egypt, Lebanon, Morocco and Palestine – and convictions held by women about equality and sharing household responsibilities.
As an example, more than half of the Egyptian men surveyed agreed that there are times when women deserve to be beaten. Naturally, less than a third of women holding the same belief.
Meanwhile, while almost three-quarters of Egyptian women surveyed said married women should have the same rights to work outside the home as their husbands, less than a third of Egyptian men agreed.
And even more startling is the fact that while younger women held more progressive views than older women, attitudes were broadly the same across all men’s age groups, except in Lebanon, where younger men showed slightly more progressive attitudes.
These kinds of disparities exist around the world, but the mismatch of perceptions is truly troubling. A Harvard Business Review article looked at the career expectations of Harvard Business School graduates.
Only half of the men surveyed were sure spouses’ careers would take equal priority, whereas almost all the women interviewed thought their careers would take equal priority.
About 75 per cent of male participants believed their wives should assume the homemaker role, compared with only half of women holding the same view despite the fact that the majority surveyed are, in fact, homemakers. Examples of this are numerous. The brutal truth is that men simply don’t take note of the disparity and remain comfortable in the shoes they’ve been given by society.
But there’s a darker side that analysts of the study allude to.
This is the growing global phenomenon of ‘hypermasculinity’ thanks to unemployment.
In fact, a key source of stress for men was the challenge of finding paid work in times of economic uncertainty, particularly in countries affected by conflict.
Feeling the pressure to bring home the bread is driving men to become even more sensitive about their masculinity, inducing an opposite reaction where they are, therefore, less likely to care about gender equality for fear of being undermined.
Between a fifth and half of men reported being ashamed to face their families because of lack of work or income.
Indeed, the effects of conflict and unemployment were frequently cited as a factor for depression among men.
We see this same toxic masculinity in the rise of the right – which berates feminism as ugly – appearing in a similar backdrop of uncertainty and change.
Tough guy Trump is the epitome of this trend. This ‘super macho’ perception problem has real life ramifications.
A UK study looking at attitudes and behaviour took housework as a case in point. In the study, women reported spending an average of 13 hours on housework and 23 hours caring for family members a week. Men, by contrast, spend only 8 hours a week mopping and dusting and 10 hours being selfless. While it comes no surprise that women report this as unfair, what is surprising is that men agree, at least in theory. But while both sexes theoretically believe in the shift – and even think they are upholding it – the reality is that women continue to bear the brunt of the housework – while also working for money. This becomes even more worrying and significant when it comes to violence since the study did, after all, point out that many feel it is acceptable to beat their wives.
The short of it is that the disparity between gender expectations is one that we must continue to identify and learn to manage. If we don’t, the impact will be felt both at a social level and at an individual level at home.
Its implications for mental health, the potential disintegration of the family unit and social stability are huge.
And while we may wrongly indulge sexist stereotypes as a bit of a joke, such implications will be no laughing matter.
And if you don’t believe any of these scenarios or convictions, ask your partner about their perceptions. You may well be surprised at what you discover.
Shelina Zahra Janmohamed is the author of the books Generation M: Young Muslims Changing the World and Love in a Headscarf
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Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
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Nepotism is the name of the game
Salman Khan’s father, Salim Khan, is one of Bollywood’s most legendary screenwriters. Through his partnership with co-writer Javed Akhtar, Salim is credited with having paved the path for the Indian film industry’s blockbuster format in the 1970s. Something his son now rules the roost of. More importantly, the Salim-Javed duo also created the persona of the “angry young man” for Bollywood megastar Amitabh Bachchan in the 1970s, reflecting the angst of the average Indian. In choosing to be the ordinary man’s “hero” as opposed to a thespian in new Bollywood, Salman Khan remains tightly linked to his father’s oeuvre. Thanks dad.
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Europe’s rearming plan
- Suspend strict budget rules to allow member countries to step up defence spending
- Create new "instrument" providing €150 billion of loans to member countries for defence investment
- Use the existing EU budget to direct more funds towards defence-related investment
- Engage the bloc's European Investment Bank to drop limits on lending to defence firms
- Create a savings and investments union to help companies access capital
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Defining head lice
Pediculus humanus capitis are tiny wingless insects that feed on blood from the human scalp. The adult head louse is up to 3mm long, has six legs, and is tan to greyish-white in colour. The female lives up to four weeks and, once mature, can lay up to 10 eggs per day. These tiny nits firmly attach to the base of the hair shaft, get incubated by body heat and hatch in eight days or so.
Identifying lice
Lice can be identified by itching or a tickling sensation of something moving within the hair. One can confirm that a person has lice by looking closely through the hair and scalp for nits, nymphs or lice. Head lice are most frequently located behind the ears and near the neckline.
Treating lice at home
Head lice must be treated as soon as they are spotted. Start by checking everyone in the family for them, then follow these steps. Remove and wash all clothing and bedding with hot water. Apply medicine according to the label instructions. If some live lice are still found eight to 12 hours after treatment, but are moving more slowly than before, do not re-treat. Comb dead and remaining live lice out of the hair using a fine-toothed comb.
After the initial treatment, check for, comb and remove nits and lice from hair every two to three days. Soak combs and brushes in hot water for 10 minutes.Vacuum the floor and furniture, particularly where the infested person sat or lay.
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Bantamweight:
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Featherweight:
Abdullatip Magomedov (RUS) bt Sulaiman Al Modhyan (KUW)
Middleweight:
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Middleweight:
Rustam Chsiev (RUS) bt Tarek Suleiman (SYR)
Welterweight:
Khamzat Chimaev (SWE) bt Mzwandile Hlongwa (RSA)
Lightweight:
Alex Martinez (CAN) bt Anas Siraj Mounir (MAR)
Welterweight:
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Pakistan 227 & 37-0 (target 176)
Pakistan require another 139 runs with 10 wickets remaining
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2007: Lebanon and Cyprus define their respective exclusive economic zones to facilitate oil and gas exploration. Israel uses this to define its EEZ with Cyprus
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2018-2019: US seeks to mediate between Israel and Lebanon to prevent clashes over oil and gas resources.
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