her say
‘You’ve written my life!” said the message in my inbox. “I’ve just finished reading your book and it’s got the answers I was seeking.” I’d set out on a journey to write a book that offered a fresh perspective on what it was like growing up as a British Asian Muslim woman.
This emotional reaction to Love in a Headscarf from all over the world is one that I feel heartened by. Especially as my bigger goal was to give voice to the many women's stories, like mine, that lie buried beneath misery memoirs, kiss-and-tell confessionals or traditional chick-lit. I love hearing from readers about the reactions that I've triggered: delight, fulfilment and a shift in perspective. Sometimes boredom, but I ignore that.
“I’m in the process of writing a book too ...” is the other line of response (followed up by the widespread myth that money must be rolling in now I’m published ... oh, if only!) As someone who came to authorship as a form of social activism, I’m keen for everyone to find their voices and contribute to our social commentary.
But what should I say when my excitement that their book is on the cusp is met by the paradoxical assertion that we are all authors, but that they just haven’t got round to it yet? My delight is tempered by comments that they’ve been writing for 10 years, it’s just something to dabble with, or “I haven’t actually started writing per se, but I know publishers will be interested …”
There’s a muse we all have. There’s truth to the adage that there’s a book in all of us. But to actually write it, all 40,000 or more words of it –my next is about 90,000, the first was 80,000 – to say something new and to be able to take huge advantage of the kindness of family while all that is on your mind is the book and its deadline to the exclusion of everything else, is not for the fainthearted. It’s hard work, soul-searing and emotionally draining.
I’m two weeks away from submitting my final manuscript for a second book, and the pain, fatigue, spiritual, creative and literary struggle is excruciating. Writing a book feels like being pregnant and giving birth. And I know, I’ve just had a baby, and she’s tiny. The sleepless nights, exhaustion and creative block with the end never seemingly in sight is exacerbated. Writing takes as long as writing takes, is the exhausting truth.
Before my two children, I lived inside my own imagination for several weeks to complete the manuscript. Now, while I’m sticking cotton wool to make clouds with my four- year-old, I’m thinking about how the chapters will unfold. Every nappy change is on automatic while I recite the sentences I want to write next. I have to decide whether to write late in the night knowing the baby will wake soon for a feed, or succumb to the minimum amount of sleep so I am able to look after two children the next day. And yet I continue to write, to chase the deadline.
The creative process is not a hobby or a form of relaxation. Inevitably it shakes you from the inner core because by its very nature it is transformative. I do it because I’m different by the end, better. That is the prize the eyes do not see, only the author knows. But of course there is a prize. The book itself is something you get to hold. And you get the responses of readers, which is the best joy of all.
Shelina Zahra Janmohamed is the author of Love in a Headscarf and blogs at www.spirit21.co.uk
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“Any leave taken beyond statutory entitlements, such as annual leave, is typically regarded as unpaid leave in accordance with Article 33 of the UAE Labour Law. While employees may legally take unpaid leave, such requests are subject to the employer’s discretion and require approval.”
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Three-day coronation
Royal purification
The entire coronation ceremony extends over three days from May 4-6, but Saturday is the one to watch. At the time of 10:09am the royal purification ceremony begins. Wearing a white robe, the king will enter a pavilion at the Grand Palace, where he will be doused in sacred water from five rivers and four ponds in Thailand. In the distant past water was collected from specific rivers in India, reflecting the influential blend of Hindu and Buddhist cosmology on the coronation. Hindu Brahmins and the country's most senior Buddhist monks will be present. Coronation practices can be traced back thousands of years to ancient India.
The crown
Not long after royal purification rites, the king proceeds to the Baisal Daksin Throne Hall where he receives sacred water from eight directions. Symbolically that means he has received legitimacy from all directions of the kingdom. He ascends the Bhadrapitha Throne, where in regal robes he sits under a Nine-Tiered Umbrella of State. Brahmins will hand the monarch the royal regalia, including a wooden sceptre inlaid with gold, a precious stone-encrusted sword believed to have been found in a lake in northern Cambodia, slippers, and a whisk made from yak's hair.
The Great Crown of Victory is the centrepiece. Tiered, gold and weighing 7.3 kilograms, it has a diamond from India at the top. Vajiralongkorn will personally place the crown on his own head and then issues his first royal command.
The audience
On Saturday afternoon, the newly-crowned king is set to grant a "grand audience" to members of the royal family, the privy council, the cabinet and senior officials. Two hours later the king will visit the Temple of the Emerald Buddha, the most sacred space in Thailand, which on normal days is thronged with tourists. He then symbolically moves into the Royal Residence.
The procession
The main element of Sunday's ceremonies, streets across Bangkok's historic heart have been blocked off in preparation for this moment. The king will sit on a royal palanquin carried by soldiers dressed in colourful traditional garb. A 21-gun salute will start the procession. Some 200,000 people are expected to line the seven-kilometre route around the city.
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On the last day of the ceremony Rama X will appear on the balcony of Suddhaisavarya Prasad Hall in the Grand Palace at 4:30pm "to receive the good wishes of the people". An hour later, diplomats will be given an audience at the Grand Palace. This is the only time during the ceremony that representatives of foreign governments will greet the king.
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