I’m learning how to sail. Or more accurately, I’m learning how not to capsize. That’s what goes through my mind when I’m crouched in the boat’s tiny cockpit, holding onto the rope for the sail – I mean the mainsheet for the mainsail. I’m desperately wondering if I push the tiller away from me or towards me, tighten the sail or loosen it, towards or away, tight or loose, and then: tack, duck, tack, duck and suddenly I’ve switched directions, madly scrambling under the swinging boom (yes, it’s already clipped me in the head several times) and hoping that when the tack is over, I’m not barrelling towards the rocks on the shoreline.
When we first moved to Abu Dhabi, four years ago, I promised myself that I’d learn to sail. I was sure that there would be sailing schools along the shoreline of the Corniche because it’s perfect for the novice sailor: no surf, warm water, consistent breeze. Sailing schools were hard to find, however, probably because sailing boats would just get in the way of the weekend jet ski warriors. It’s only now that I finally have the tiller in my hands.
With a few other women, I signed up for these lessons to prove to myself that even at my age, I could learn something new – something out of my comfort zone. Think about it: as we age, there comes a point where learning new things doesn’t happen very often. Maybe you get a new project at work but it’s likely to be a version of what you’ve done before. Or maybe you move to a new place, but then don’t you start recreating what you’ve done in other places?
The cow-path of routine can be seductive: we all like to know where we’re going, and when, and how to get there. But as one of my sailing partners asked, when is the last time any of us learnt something so new that it was a little bit frightening? And won’t it be satisfying to conquer that fear, as we gain (even a little) mastery of this new thing?
They say that stretching the brain can be a good way to ward off some of the mental erosion that comes with ageing. I’ve read that even doing the crossword puzzle regularly can help stave off dementia or Alzheimer’s.
I remind myself of that fact as I attempt nautical knots, which are just puzzles done with rope, I think. “The squirrel comes out of the hole, goes around the tree, and back in the hole,” says the sailing teacher, and voila, a perfect bowline knot.
My squirrel comes out of the hole, apparently drives off to Yas Mall, sees a film and eventually meanders back. “Let’s try that one again,” says the sailing teacher. My knots are abysmal, but my brain is getting a great workout.
The French novelist Colette, who knew a thing or two about ageing gracefully, wrote that being astonished is one of the surest ways of not growing old too quickly. There is a moment on a sailing boat– if you’re an experienced sailor, I suppose you get a long unbroken string of these moments – when the tiller steadies, the sail catches the wind, and all I hear is the water against the hull as the boat skims forward.
It’s the joyful expression of geometry in motion: if you angle the sail here as the wind comes from there, the boat goes one way. If you angle the sail differently, you’ll change direction. For that one moment, I am astonished and not just because I’m skimming rather than capsizing. I’m astonished by an almost dizzying connection to history: from ancient Polynesian explorers, to the pearling boats of the Gulf, to the high-tech yachts of the Volvo Ocean Race, the technology of sailing boats may have changed, but the basic premise – harnessing the wind’s power with a piece of fabric – has not.
I’ve no plans to sail around the world, but by the end of the year, I swear I will be able to tack without panicking and maybe even get that wretched squirrel around the tree and back in the hole.
Deborah Lindsay Williams is a professor of literature at NYU Abu Dhabi. She is the author of The Time Locket, a novel that she wrote as Deborah Quinn
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Key facilities
- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
SNAPSHOT
While Huawei did launch the first smartphone with a 50MP image sensor in its P40 series in 2020, Oppo in 2014 introduced the Find 7, which was capable of taking 50MP images: this was done using a combination of a 13MP sensor and software that resulted in shots seemingly taken from a 50MP camera.
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Ms Yang's top tips for parents new to the UAE
- Join parent networks
- Look beyond school fees
- Keep an open mind
The specs
Engine: 4.0-litre flat-six
Torque: 450Nm at 6,100rpm
Transmission: 7-speed PDK auto or 6-speed manual
Fuel economy, combined: 13.8L/100km
On sale: Available to order now
Why does a queen bee feast only on royal jelly?
Some facts about bees:
The queen bee eats only royal jelly, an extraordinary food created by worker bees so she lives much longer
The life cycle of a worker bee is from 40-60 days
A queen bee lives for 3-5 years
This allows her to lay millions of eggs and allows the continuity of the bee colony
About 20,000 honey bees and one queen populate each hive
Honey is packed with vital vitamins, minerals, enzymes, water and anti-oxidants.
Apart from honey, five other products are royal jelly, the special food bees feed their queen
Pollen is their protein source, a super food that is nutritious, rich in amino acids
Beewax is used to construct the combs. Due to its anti-fungal, anti-bacterial elements, it is used in skin treatments
Propolis, a resin-like material produced by bees is used to make hives. It has natural antibiotic qualities so works to sterilize hive, protects from disease, keeps their home free from germs. Also used to treat sores, infection, warts
Bee venom is used by bees to protect themselves. Has anti-inflammatory properties, sometimes used to relieve conditions such as rheumatoid arthritis, nerve and muscle pain
Honey, royal jelly, pollen have health enhancing qualities
The other three products are used for therapeutic purposes
Is beekeeping dangerous?
As long as you deal with bees gently, you will be safe, says Mohammed Al Najeh, who has worked with bees since he was a boy.
“The biggest mistake people make is they panic when they see a bee. They are small but smart creatures. If you move your hand quickly to hit the bees, this is an aggressive action and bees will defend themselves. They can sense the adrenalin in our body. But if we are calm, they are move away.”
Some of Darwish's last words
"They see their tomorrows slipping out of their reach. And though it seems to them that everything outside this reality is heaven, yet they do not want to go to that heaven. They stay, because they are afflicted with hope." - Mahmoud Darwish, to attendees of the Palestine Festival of Literature, 2008
His life in brief: Born in a village near Galilee, he lived in exile for most of his life and started writing poetry after high school. He was arrested several times by Israel for what were deemed to be inciteful poems. Most of his work focused on the love and yearning for his homeland, and he was regarded the Palestinian poet of resistance. Over the course of his life, he published more than 30 poetry collections and books of prose, with his work translated into more than 20 languages. Many of his poems were set to music by Arab composers, most significantly Marcel Khalife. Darwish died on August 9, 2008 after undergoing heart surgery in the United States. He was later buried in Ramallah where a shrine was erected in his honour.
Our legal columnist
Name: Yousef Al Bahar
Advocate at Al Bahar & Associate Advocates and Legal Consultants, established in 1994
Education: Mr Al Bahar was born in 1979 and graduated in 2008 from the Judicial Institute. He took after his father, who was one of the first Emirati lawyers
The specs
Engine: 3.0-litre six-cylinder turbo
Power: 398hp from 5,250rpm
Torque: 580Nm at 1,900-4,800rpm
Transmission: Eight-speed auto
Fuel economy, combined: 6.5L/100km
On sale: December
Price: From Dh330,000 (estimate)
KILLING OF QASSEM SULEIMANI
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Tearful appearance
Chancellor Rachel Reeves set markets on edge as she appeared visibly distraught in parliament on Wednesday.
Legislative setbacks for the government have blown a new hole in the budgetary calculations at a time when the deficit is stubbornly large and the economy is struggling to grow.
She appeared with Keir Starmer on Thursday and the pair embraced, but he had failed to give her his backing as she cried a day earlier.
A spokesman said her upset demeanour was due to a personal matter.
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HOSTS
T20 WORLD CUP
2024: US and West Indies; 2026: India and Sri Lanka; 2028: Australia and New Zealand; 2030: England, Ireland and Scotland
ODI WORLD CUP
2027: South Africa, Zimbabwe and Namibia; 2031: India and
Bangladesh
CHAMPIONS TROPHY
2025: Pakistan; 2029: India
MATCH INFO
Uefa Champions League semi-finals, second leg:
Liverpool (0) v Barcelona (3), Tuesday, 11pm UAE
Game is on BeIN Sports
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
Volvo ES90 Specs
Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)
Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp
Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm
On sale: Later in 2025 or early 2026, depending on region
Price: Exact regional pricing TBA
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