CCTV footage of the suspected murderer of Ibolya Ryan were seen across the globe. Photo courtesy Security Media
CCTV footage of the suspected murderer of Ibolya Ryan were seen across the globe. Photo courtesy Security Media

Ibolya’s lesson to us all is to look out for one another



I was on a work trip to Europe when I heard about the Reem Island murder. From that distance, it all seemed especially surreal.

Yet even from the comfort of a hotel in Vienna, which was one of the cities in which Ibolya Ryan lived and where her ex-husband Paul and daughter Timia have until recently been based, the security-camera shots of the suspected killer stomping her evil way through Boutiq Mall – usually a pleasantly sterile, seemingly secure place – were frightening. The world was turned upside down.

It wasn’t until we saw pictures of Ibolya and heard the details that filled in her tragic life story, however, that the tears started to flow.

Here was a working mother, raised in Romania, one of the poorest countries in Europe, who through faith and perseverance had pulled herself up by her own bootstraps, trained as a teacher, worked in several countries, learnt new languages, successfully raised three children and survived a divorce, all with dignity and positivity.

With a continuing desire to learn more, she found a job as a nursery schoolteacher in a traditional area of Abu Dhabi, and moved here with the aim of understanding the UAE’s culture and integrating as much as possible. This woman had apparently taken on countless challenges with all the hope and self reliance of the model expatriate. But this teacher who believed in the future was stabbed to death in a toilet by a monster.

Round a dinner table in Vienna with a group of female Arab journalists, the view was unanimous. They were telling me – not asking my opinion – that “the niqab should be banned”.

Clearly, being able to see someone’s face is absolutely crucial in determining their intentions. And if their intention is to kill you, that split second of time which is gained or lost in that recognition could literally be the difference between life and death.

Obviously, the one person who does need to be unveiled is the killer. Yet calls for an outright ban of the niqab are not just about security but about people feeling superior towards a custom they see as backward.

While it’s fine for people in Europe to call for a ban there, it smacks of arrogance for non-Emiratis living in the UAE to expound upon this. I’ve confronted a few of my own preconceptions living in a mixed building in Abu Dhabi. It is a delight when a niqab-wearing neighbour and I say hello and goodbye to each other in the lift at exactly the same time.

Assuming the killing of Ibolya Ryan was a one-off, why should all wearers of the niqab be punished? In many parts of Europe, openness persists despite the occasional serious criminal act. Outside many ungated, unguarded apartment buildings in Switzerland, for example, the full names of each resident is listed along with their flat numbers. They are not going to change their system because of one crazy stalker.

If anything positive can come out of this event, perhaps it’s for people living in the UAE to realise that life here is real and not dreamland. It is borderline crazy to assume that “crime doesn’t happen” here, even if that image has been supported by the fact that most expatriates enjoy a crime-free existence.

In my seven years in the UAE, I’ve barely witnessed the kind of rowdy behaviour seen every night on the streets of the UK, let alone the violence or threats of violence which are everyday occurrences. We are shielded here, partly by our lifestyles, but this can warp our perceptions and make us vulnerable.

Perhaps Ibolya and the people who might have stepped in to help that day were temporarily immobilised by a frightening naivety and the belief that, here in the UAE, “these things don’t happen”. Like anywhere in the world, they can and they do. Let’s stay vigilant, confident, and, like Ibolya Ryan always seemed to be doing, always look out for others.

Rosemary Behan is The National’s travel editor

rbehan@thenational.ae

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At a glance

Global events: Much of the UK’s economic woes were blamed on “increased global uncertainty”, which can be interpreted as the economic impact of the Ukraine war and the uncertainty over Donald Trump’s tariffs.

 

Growth forecasts: Cut for 2025 from 2 per cent to 1 per cent. The OBR watchdog also estimated inflation will average 3.2 per cent this year

 

Welfare: Universal credit health element cut by 50 per cent and frozen for new claimants, building on cuts to the disability and incapacity bill set out earlier this month

 

Spending cuts: Overall day-to day-spending across government cut by £6.1bn in 2029-30 

 

Tax evasion: Steps to crack down on tax evasion to raise “£6.5bn per year” for the public purse

 

Defence: New high-tech weaponry, upgrading HM Naval Base in Portsmouth

 

Housing: Housebuilding to reach its highest in 40 years, with planning reforms helping generate an extra £3.4bn for public finances

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The flights

Etihad flies direct from Abu Dhabi to San Francisco from Dh5,760 return including taxes. 

The car

Etihad Guest members get a 10 per cent worldwide discount when booking with Hertz, as well as earning miles on their rentals (more at www.hertz.com/etihad). A week's car hire costs from Dh1,500 including taxes.

The hotels

Along the route, Motel 6 (www.motel6.com) offers good value and comfort, with rooms from $55 (Dh202) per night including taxes. In Portland, the Jupiter Hotel (https://jupiterhotel.com/) has rooms from $165 (Dh606) per night including taxes. The Society Hotel https://thesocietyhotel.com/ has rooms from $130 (Dh478) per night including taxes. 

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Round 5: February 25-27, Jeddah Corniche Circuit – Saudi Arabia
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Moment of the day Dinesh Chandimal has inherited a challenging job, after being made Sri Lanka’s Test captain. He responded in perfect fashion, with an easy-natured century against Pakistan. He brought up three figures with a majestic cover drive, which he just stood and admired.

Stat of the day – 33 It took 33 balls for Dilruwan Perera to get off the mark. His time on zero was eventful enough. The Sri Lankan No 7 was given out LBW twice, but managed to have both decisions overturned on review. The TV replays showed both times that he had inside edged the ball onto his pad.

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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.

Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.

Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.

“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.

Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.

From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.

Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.

BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.

Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.

Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.

“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.

“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.

“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”

The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”