Any woman who dares raise her head above the parapet will be familiar with the following scenario: woman makes public statement about her rights and place in the world. Abuse inevitably follows, usually concerning her appearance. It’s the most common currency to attack women in the public sphere and why feminists are often described as unattractive or lacking in femininity.
The more women's profile is raised, the more acute the focus on their looks. But hearteningly, the response from women in the firing range of these crosshairs is increasingly to co-opt the attention and proudly reclaim it for themselves.
Social media brings with it many perks, among them a platform where women can talk about beauty on their own terms and start developing forms of self-expression. The aim has been to fight the constraints that traditionally have shamed them or objectified them, in some cases leading to an impact on their physical and mental health. Among some of the most inspiring beauty bloggers, for example, are Evita Patcey Delmundo, a Miss Universe Malaysia contestant who proudly posted pictures of her many moles, YouTuber Michaela Davert, who suffers from brittle bone disease and is behind the online show FunSizedStyle and Abu Dhabi's own alopecia sufferer Yasmin Taylor.
But as women's power and self-determination have grown online, so has the volume of misogynistic abuse – and the looks-based bullying has increased exponentially in a phenomenon called beauty cyberbullying.
New research from the non-profit Cybersmile Foundation suggests that girls are nearly twice as likely to have been subjected to cyberbullying compared to boys while one in four secondary school students suffer from repeated incidents. The volume of abuse is so great that, according to the foundation, 115 million images were deleted last year. It is the ultimate form of self-effacement, when abuse gets so embedded in women's psyches that they start to remove themselves from the public sphere.
However, the desire to tackle beauty cyberbullying is gaining momentum. In September this year, celebrities got behind Diesel's "hate couture" campaign, which enables customers to personalise hoodies and tee shirts with the worst comment made about them online, with the mantra "the more hate you wear, the less you care". Earlier this month, pop group Little Mix's song Strip discussed toxic social media. The promo for the song featured a much-discussed image of their naked bodies covered with the hateful comments they receive online.
Most recently, a campaign from make-up manufacturer Rimmel, starring Rita Ora, Cara Delevigne and Kuwaiti lifestyle blogger Ascia Al Faraj, tackled cyberbullying with the hashtag #IWillNotBeDeleted.
All of this tells us that the abuse must stop. And while it’s great that women are standing firm, there is a paradox we need to grapple with. Beauty is still being used as the yardstick – so does it make a difference who is using it as a measuring tool if looks are still the ultimate criteria of success?
As a lot of these campaigns rightly suggest, we need to take responsibility, as followers and consumers of social media, for the comments we make and to call out beauty cyberbullying. But we also need a more strategic intervention to change the conversation. Ultimately, that means we need to break out of the cycle of talking about women in terms of beauty and move the conversation onto their other achievements. In image-driven social media, that can be hard to do, particularly as so many platforms focus on visuals.
But it is feasible. Sahar Sohail in Pakistan has the Instagram handle “the Pakistani Martha Stewart” and uses her art to explore double standards in society and explore social issues through satire.
In Sharjah, Bodour Al Qasimi effortlessly showcases how a working mother can run a business and influence politics through snapshots of her events and meetings.
A study by Vuelio on bloggers in the UK showed a vast difference between what men and women blog about. While men have a mixed repertoire of subjects, women tended to focus on lifestyle, fashion and beauty.
This is where audience participation is hugely important. As followers, we need to choose wisely. We need to realise that by one click, follow or like, a seemingly insignificant choice has been made to demonstrate what is important to us and what agenda we would like to see set.
For years, bullies have been telling women their value is based on how they look. It is time to tell the bullies what values we hold dear instead.
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Farage on Muslim Brotherhood
Nigel Farage told Reform's annual conference that the party will proscribe the Muslim Brotherhood if he becomes Prime Minister.
"We will stop dangerous organisations with links to terrorism operating in our country," he said. "Quite why we've been so gutless about this – both Labour and Conservative – I don't know.
“All across the Middle East, countries have banned and proscribed the Muslim Brotherhood as a dangerous organisation. We will do the very same.”
It is 10 years since a ground-breaking report into the Muslim Brotherhood by Sir John Jenkins.
Among the former diplomat's findings was an assessment that “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” has “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
The prime minister at the time, David Cameron, who commissioned the report, said membership or association with the Muslim Brotherhood was a "possible indicator of extremism" but it would not be banned.
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- A targeted global asset freeze and travel ban on Iranian individuals and entities
- Authorisation for countries to inspect Iran Air Cargo and Islamic Republic of Iran Shipping Lines cargoes for banned goods
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25 visual effects (VFX) studios
2,150 VFX shots in a film with 2,500 shots
1,000 VFX artists
3,000 technicians
10 Concept artists, 25 3D designers
New sound technology, named 4D SRL
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Sabri Razouk, 74
Athlete and fitness trainer
Married, father of six
Favourite exercise: Bench press
Must-eat weekly meal: Steak with beans, carrots, broccoli, crust and corn
Power drink: A glass of yoghurt
Role model: Any good man
UAE players with central contracts
Rohan Mustafa, Ashfaq Ahmed, Chirag Suri, Rameez Shahzad, Shaiman Anwar, Adnan Mufti, Mohammed Usman, Ghulam Shabbir, Ahmed Raza, Qadeer Ahmed, Amir Hayat, Mohammed Naveed and Imran Haider.
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5pm: Maiden (Purebred Arabians); Dh80,000; 1,400m.
5.30pm: Maiden (PA); Dh80,00; 1,400m.
6pm: Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan National Day Cup (PA); Group 3; Dh500,000; 1,600m.
6.30pm: Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan National Day Cup (Thoroughbred); Listed; Dh380,000; 1,600m
7pm: Wathba Stallions Cup for Private Owners Handicap (PA); Dh70,000; 1,400m.
7.30pm: Handicap (PA); Dh80,000; 1,600m
Company profile
Date started: 2015
Founder: John Tsioris and Ioanna Angelidaki
Based: Dubai
Sector: Online grocery delivery
Staff: 200
Funding: Undisclosed, but investors include the Jabbar Internet Group and Venture Friends
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Engine: Two-litre four-cylinder turbo
Power: 235hp
Torque: 350Nm
Transmission: Nine-speed automatic
Price: From Dh167,500 ($45,000)
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Juventus v Sampdoria (10.45pm)
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- Carbonated drinks, sweet or savoury packaged snacks, confectionery, mass-produced packaged breads and buns
- margarines and spreads; cookies, biscuits, pastries, cakes, and cake mixes, breakfast cereals, cereal and energy bars;
- energy drinks, milk drinks, fruit yoghurts and fruit drinks, cocoa drinks, meat and chicken extracts and instant sauces
- infant formulas and follow-on milks, health and slimming products such as powdered or fortified meal and dish substitutes,
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Rating: 4/5
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Spartak Moscow v Sevilla
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Apoel Nicosia v Borussia Dortmund
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- Make sure you are an exact fit for the job advertised. If you are an HR manager with five years’ experience in retail and the job requires a similar candidate with five years’ experience in consumer, you should apply. But if you have no experience in HR, do not apply for the job.
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1) The liquid nanoclay is a mixture of water and clay that aims to convert desert land to fertile ground
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3) One application is said to last five years
4) The cost of treatment per hectare (2.4 acres) of desert varies from $7,000 to $10,000 per hectare
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Uefa Champions League final:
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TV: Match on BeIN Sports
What is an FTO Designation?
FTO designations impose immigration restrictions on members of the organisation simply by virtue of their membership and triggers a criminal prohibition on knowingly providing material support or resources to the designated organisation as well as asset freezes.
It is a crime for a person in the United States or subject to the jurisdiction of the United States to knowingly provide “material support or resources” to or receive military-type training from or on behalf of a designated FTO.
Representatives and members of a designated FTO, if they are aliens, are inadmissible to and, in certain circumstances removable from, the United States.
Except as authorised by the Secretary of the Treasury, any US financial institution that becomes aware that it has possession of or control over funds in which an FTO or its agent has an interest must retain possession of or control over the funds and report the funds to the Treasury Department.
Source: US Department of State
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Luxury: Enjoys window shopping for high-end bags and jewellery
Discount: She works in luxury retail, but is careful about spending, waits for sales, festivals and only buys on discount
University: The only person in her family to go to college, Jiang secured a bachelor’s degree in business management in China
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