A sense of connection to other human beings is vital. Without it we can feel trapped in an unending and unwanted state of solitude; isolated, alone, lonely. Like love, loneliness is a complex (composite) emotion, a blend of anxiety and nostalgia with a base note of sadness. Unlike love, however, loneliness is typically experienced negatively. If love is the opposite of hate, loneliness is its absence.
In some nations at least, loneliness has been identified as a growing social problem. Last week, for example, the UK government appointed Tracey Crouch as minister for loneliness. This appointment comes on the back of a government report on social isolation. Among other gloomy statistics, the report suggests that around 200,000 older people hadn’t had a conversation with a friend or relative in more than a month. The report described the impact of loneliness and social isolation as being: “twice as harmful as obesity, and… comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day or being an alcoholic”.
Over the past few decades, studies have repeatedly found that people who enjoy better social relationships and a stronger sense of social connection tend to be less prone to depression, recover quicker from depressive episodes and are less likely to relapse. Beyond depression, social-connection also promotes better physical health outcomes too. Research supports this observation across an array of conditions, including heart disease, dementia, and strokes. When people talk or sing about feeling so lonely they could die, it’s poetic. It’s also very real.
The "loneliness epidemic" is not restricted to the elderly. The UK report also talks about elevated rates of loneliness among young people too. University students, who feel like they don’t fit in, spending days in relative isolation with nothing but college deadlines and digital devices for companionship and support.
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In nations like the UAE, where relatively collectivist cultural values continue to shape society, loneliness might not be such a problem, in fact, a lack of privacy and “me-time” is a common complaint. Many of the UAE’s citizens continue to live in extended families. Furthermore, cousins, aunties, and uncles all enjoy a status that can seem strange to people from more individualistic societies (for example, the US, the UK and Australia), and, if they exist at all, residential care homes for the elderly, are rare. They certainly aren’t the booming and often scandalised industry that they have become in some nations.
Even surrounded by family and friends, though, we can still experience loneliness. It’s not necessarily physical presence that counts, but an actual psychological sense of connection, a sense of being, understood and attended to, and the ability and opportunity to reciprocate. Being lonely in a crowd can be particularly perplexing and distressing, especially when we look around and see other people, apparently, enjoying healthy levels of social connectedness.
Beyond the UAE’s citizens, however, there is also a large community of expatriates; the UAE has one of the highest expatriate-to-citizen ratios in the world. Many of these expatriates are physically separated, disconnected, from their long-term friends and extended families. Some expatriates might have no family members or friends in the UAE at all. Such a situation is obviously fertile ground for loneliness to blossom, and loneliness is a gateway state to depression.
Promoting psychological well-being – happiness, if we must – has to include initiatives that encourage and facilitate human connectedness. We need more efforts that help bring us together, and we need educational experiences that don’t neglect to develop the skills required to help us connect. At a grassroots level, this could be arranging social activities (book clubs, storytelling circles, team sports). At the educational level, we need to devote more time to fostering social and emotional competencies in school children.
As biological organisms we are inherently social, loneliness is the psychological pain we feel when our social needs are not met. I wish the UK’s new minister of loneliness every success with her new portfolio. Targeting this growing global public health concern is time and effort well spent.
Dr Justin Thomas is an associate professor at Zayed University
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New Zealand
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Arsenal 2 (Saka 43', Lacazette 85')
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FA Cup fifth round
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Skewed figures
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Brief scores:
England: 290 & 346
Sri Lanka: 336 & 243
Spain drain
CONVICTED
Lionel Messi Found guilty in 2016 of of using companies in Belize, Britain, Switzerland and Uruguay to avoid paying €4.1m in taxes on income earned from image rights. Sentenced to 21 months in jail and fined more than €2m. But prison sentence has since been replaced by another fine of €252,000.
Javier Mascherano Accepted one-year suspended sentence in January 2016 for tax fraud after found guilty of failing to pay €1.5m in taxes for 2011 and 2012. Unlike Messi he avoided trial by admitting to tax evasion.
Angel di Maria Argentina and Paris Saint-Germain star Angel di Maria was fined and given a 16-month prison sentence for tax fraud during his time at Real Madrid. But he is unlikely to go to prison as is normal in Spain for first offences for non-violent crimes carrying sentence of less than two years.
SUSPECTED
Cristiano Ronaldo Real Madrid's star striker, accused of evading €14.7m in taxes, appears in court on Monday. Portuguese star faces four charges of fraud through offshore companies.
Jose Mourinho Manchester United manager accused of evading €3.3m in tax in 2011 and 2012, during time in charge at Real Madrid. But Gestifute, which represents him, says he has already settled matter with Spanish tax authorities.
Samuel Eto'o In November 2016, Spanish prosecutors sought jail sentence of 10 years and fines totalling €18m for Cameroonian, accused of failing to pay €3.9m in taxes during time at Barcelona from 2004 to 2009.
Radamel Falcao Colombian striker Falcao suspected of failing to correctly declare €7.4m of income earned from image rights between 2012 and 2013 while at Atletico Madrid. He has since paid €8.2m to Spanish tax authorities, a sum that includes interest on the original amount.
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