In his new book on the science of awe, Dacher Keltner, a psychologist at the University of California, Berkeley, discusses concepts that can seem removed from our daily lives. Summarised in evocative phrases such as “moral beauty” and “collective effervescence”, Keltner details in his book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life, investigations into the kinds of phenomena we marvel at, and how awe – whether felt hearing a choir, observing nature or witnessing the kindness and resilience of other people – can help people move closer to finding meaning in their lives.
One aspect Keltner gets into is how awe can be and often is an antidote to loneliness. This seems like just the sort of research-backed nugget of data that should catch on, considering the several studies in recent years about how social isolation impairs the immune system, lowers life expectancy and may even be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
It came as a pleasant surprise, then, midway through Keltner's book, to find an example of collective effervescence not far from my own daily life in the UAE.
On a recent Saturday morning at a restaurant in a leafy part of the Jumeirah Lakes and Towers (JLT) neighbourhood of Dubai, more than a dozen older Indian men – "We are all senior citizens", one told me – got together for a leisurely breakfast. The food was not the point. Meeting and talking and laughing very much was, even as they tucked into parathas, bedmi pooris, dosas and mango lassis. It is not a sight one comes across very often, and surely one that Keltner and his scientist peers would wholly endorse.
It was heartening to witness this social outing of smiling strangers, unescorted by spouses, children or nurses – a contrast to all one hears about the global prevalence of loneliness among the elderly. In the background, the restaurant played a classic Hindi film song on loop, presumably catering to the preferences of its elderly patrons.
The men, in their 60s-70s, some maybe older, were an animated group. It would have been optimistic for diners on the other tables to expect the same service they were receiving.
They split their teas and coffees, instructing the somewhat harried waiters to divide the quite generous portions into smaller parts – four teas into six paper cups or three coffees into five. "Who all want?" Hands were raised. One of them took charge and did the tally.
The sense of community was clear. As was the link with awe, and how Keltner describes it: “the feeling of being in the presence of something that transcends your current understanding of the world.”
The men called for silence before one of them began reciting shayari (Urdu poetry). A man with bifocal lenses held his phone with both hands and read out a couplet –about how ajnabis (strangers) can, over the course of time, become dosts (friends). This and one or two more couplets were all met with claps and "wah! wah!". In his book, Keltner notes that across cultures vocalisations of awe are remarkably similar.
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The group of men inadvertently delighted onlookers, some of whom smiled just watching them. When the bill was paid, they took their time to disperse. As they vacated the restaurant, the place fell quiet. Tables that were initially joined to accommodate all 22 or so of them, were once again separated. The friends walked outdoors and stood in the sun for a while under the trees. One of them, wearing a clay pink shirt, even performed a little dance for a few fleeting seconds, to the visible glee of others watching. They clapped, made videos and took photos, evidently enjoying themselves.
One man came back into the restaurant to fetch a walking stick forgotten in a corner. Another retrieved his friend’s reading glasses.
It was endearing and rare, watching this counterpoint to an all-too-common cliche: older people being at a loose end, their children immersed in work schedules and children of their own. These elders live in nearby clusters of JLT and meet regularly.
I asked the one in the pink shirt whether this gathering was something of a "kavi samelan" – a poetry society meeting. He dismissed the suggestion good-naturedly. "We all became friends. We live nearby. Our children are busy in their lives, so we like to get together and tell stories and have fun. That's good, isn't it?" he asked, beaming and I replied that it was lovely to see. "Yes," he said, "What else is there to life?"
The alternatives
• Founded in 2014, Telr is a payment aggregator and gateway with an office in Silicon Oasis. It’s e-commerce entry plan costs Dh349 monthly (plus VAT). QR codes direct customers to an online payment page and merchants can generate payments through messaging apps.
• Business Bay’s Pallapay claims 40,000-plus active merchants who can invoice customers and receive payment by card. Fees range from 1.99 per cent plus Dh1 per transaction depending on payment method and location, such as online or via UAE mobile.
• Tap started in May 2013 in Kuwait, allowing Middle East businesses to bill, accept, receive and make payments online “easier, faster and smoother” via goSell and goCollect. It supports more than 10,000 merchants. Monthly fees range from US$65-100, plus card charges of 2.75-3.75 per cent and Dh1.2 per sale.
• 2checkout’s “all-in-one payment gateway and merchant account” accepts payments in 200-plus markets for 2.4-3.9 per cent, plus a Dh1.2-Dh1.8 currency conversion charge. The US provider processes online shop and mobile transactions and has 17,000-plus active digital commerce users.
• PayPal is probably the best-known online goods payment method - usually used for eBay purchases - but can be used to receive funds, providing everyone’s signed up. Costs from 2.9 per cent plus Dh1.2 per transaction.
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The Abu Dhabi Supreme Petroleum Council was established in 1988 and is the highest governing body in Abu Dhabi’s oil and gas industry. The council formulates, oversees and executes the emirate’s petroleum-related policies. It also approves the allocation of capital spending across state-owned Adnoc’s upstream, downstream and midstream operations and functions as the company’s board of directors. The SPC’s mandate is also required for auctioning oil and gas concessions in Abu Dhabi and for awarding blocks to international oil companies. The council is chaired by Sheikh Khalifa, the President and Ruler of Abu Dhabi while Sheikh Mohamed bin Zayed, Abu Dhabi’s Crown Prince and Deputy Supreme Commander of the Armed Forces, is the vice chairman.
Ferrari 12Cilindri specs
Engine: naturally aspirated 6.5-liter V12
Power: 819hp
Torque: 678Nm at 7,250rpm
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Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
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- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
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Date of launch: 2014
Founder: Jon Richards, founder and chief executive; Samer Chebab, co-founder and chief operating officer, and Jonathan Rawlings, co-founder and chief financial officer
Based: Media City, Dubai
Sector: Financial services
Size: 120 employees
Investors: 2014: $500,000 in a seed round led by Mulverhill Associates; 2015: $3m in Series A funding led by STC Ventures (managed by Iris Capital), Wamda and Dubai Silicon Oasis Authority; 2019: $8m in Series B funding with the same investors as Series A along with Precinct Partners, Saned and Argo Ventures (the VC arm of multinational insurer Argo Group)
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Oman, UAE, Namibia
Al Amerat, Muscat
Results
Oman beat UAE by five wickets
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Fixtures
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Thursday January 9 – Oman v UAE
Saturday January 11 – UAE v Namibia
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5 of the most-popular Airbnb locations in Dubai
Bobby Grudziecki, chief operating officer of Frank Porter, identifies the five most popular areas in Dubai for those looking to make the most out of their properties and the rates owners can secure:
• Dubai Marina
The Marina and Jumeirah Beach Residence are popular locations, says Mr Grudziecki, due to their closeness to the beach, restaurants and hotels.
Frank Porter’s average Airbnb rent:
One bedroom: Dh482 to Dh739
Two bedroom: Dh627 to Dh960
Three bedroom: Dh721 to Dh1,104
• Downtown
Within walking distance of the Dubai Mall, Burj Khalifa and the famous fountains, this location combines business and leisure. “Sure it’s for tourists,” says Mr Grudziecki. “Though Downtown [still caters to business people] because it’s close to Dubai International Financial Centre."
Frank Porter’s average Airbnb rent:
One bedroom: Dh497 to Dh772
Two bedroom: Dh646 to Dh1,003
Three bedroom: Dh743 to Dh1,154
• City Walk
The rising star of the Dubai property market, this area is lined with pristine sidewalks, boutiques and cafes and close to the new entertainment venue Coca Cola Arena. “Downtown and Marina are pretty much the same prices,” Mr Grudziecki says, “but City Walk is higher.”
Frank Porter’s average Airbnb rent:
One bedroom: Dh524 to Dh809
Two bedroom: Dh682 to Dh1,052
Three bedroom: Dh784 to Dh1,210
• Jumeirah Lake Towers
Dubai Marina’s little brother JLT resides on the other side of Sheikh Zayed road but is still close enough to beachside outlets and attractions. The big selling point for Airbnb renters, however, is that “it’s cheaper than Dubai Marina”, Mr Grudziecki says.
Frank Porter’s average Airbnb rent:
One bedroom: Dh422 to Dh629
Two bedroom: Dh549 to Dh818
Three bedroom: Dh631 to Dh941
• Palm Jumeirah
Palm Jumeirah's proximity to luxury resorts is attractive, especially for big families, says Mr Grudziecki, as Airbnb renters can secure competitive rates on one of the world’s most famous tourist destinations.
Frank Porter’s average Airbnb rent:
One bedroom: Dh503 to Dh770
Two bedroom: Dh654 to Dh1,002
Three bedroom: Dh752 to Dh1,152
