We meant well, we really did.
Shamed by the excesses of the past 12 months, we vowed that 2014 would be the year of self-improvement. We would exercise regularly, eat more healthily, even be nicer to those less fortunate and generally work on becoming all-round better humans.
And yet, just 10 days later, here we are – New Year’s resolutions abandoned like so much seasonal gift wrapping. If only there were something, or someone, that could save us from this soul-crushing annual cycle of hope and determination spiralling down into weakness and self-loathing ...
Well, you’re in luck. Meet Mastin Kipp and the new new-age gurus.
Kipp, a 30-year-old former LA music-industry narcissist, is founder of website The Daily Love (“A Place to Love and be Loved”).
Gurus to the gullible, Kipp & Co are the self-anointed high priests of religion-lite – superficial “spirituality”. They are peddlers of trite aphorisms and bumper-sticker wisdom easily swallowed by their self-centred followers, every one of whom is readily convinced that the one supreme being in the universe is them.
Visitors to Kipp’s website can sign up for his “Dose of love ... a free daily e-multi-vitamin for your soul!”, and it’s a doozy, offering deep thoughts such as “The future is FULL of amazing possibility!” and this self-awareness corker: “As I realise I am enough, I can give even more to the world”.
What Kipp really wants, of course, is for you to sign up to the latest online course from his Love Uni-Versity: “How to follow your bliss, a five-week journey to be the hero of your own life”, which starts online on January 27. For just US$147 (Dh540), he will help you “start the New Year off with an inspirational bang!”All exclamation marks are included.
Over at The Daily Love, they talk a lot about the “Uni-verse”. Why? Kipp explains: “Uni = one. Verse = song. Together, in all our own unique ways, we are all participating in One Song.”
Whether they know it or not, Kipp and his puddle-shallow pals are the children of The Secret, the 2006 “documentary” and spin-off self-help book that made unknown Australian TV writer Rhonda Byrne a multimillionaire. In the words of psychologist Jim Taylor, shaking his head in wonder on the Huffington Post, they all proved the truth of the snake-oil salesman’s maxim that “there’s one born every minute”.
Far more than one, actually. The Secret, spun out over 200-plus pages and served with generous helpings of sub-Dan Brown tosh, has sold 20 million copies in dozens of languages.
To save you the cover price, the big faux-ancient secret is that, thanks to the (entirely made up) Law of Attraction, if you think hard enough about something you desire, it will come to pass.
And that attractive-if-delusional proposition is, pretty much, “the secret” behind the success of Kipp & Co.
Take Kipp’s spiritual contemporary, Gabrielle Bernstein, aka the Spirit Junkie, dubbed “the Dalai Lama for the Gossip Girl set”, who promises to make you “the happiest person you know”.
“Simple, consistent shifts in our thinking and actions can lead to the miraculous in all aspects of our daily lives, including our relationships, finances, bodies and self-image,” gushes the Barbie-haired former PR executive, whose latest book, May Cause Miracles, is a New York Times bestseller.
Sign up for Gabby’s new seven-minute “guided meditations” and experience the profundity: “Allow yourself to become present in your experience of your feelings ... you are exactly where you need to be, experiencing exactly what you need to experience ...”
Better still, if you’re “ready to kick off 2014 in a whole new, bright, surprising way”, for just $197 (Dh723) you could sign up for Reignite, her new group intensive course that live-streams on January 20 and 27. “Don’t dance around the perimeter of the person you are here to be,” says Gabby. “This New Year, take the plunge! Launch the beautiful life you’ve been dreaming of.”
The key to success in this game, as Gabby and every new-age guru knows, lies in being all things to all people. So “in this video I talk about how we can be spiritual without giving up things like fabulous shoes or other material goods. ...”
The Dalai Lama, Bernstein ain‘t.
Miracles is a word that crops up a lot around these people, some of whom, including Bernstein, were “students” (they mean readers) of a previous generation’s self-help classic.
A Course in Miracles, a New Age take on Christianity first published in 1976 and condemned by many as a false revelation, was supposedly “scribed” by Helen Schucman, an American psychologist who claimed to have received its words of wisdom over a seven-year period of “distinct and clear dictation from an inner voice”.
Thankfully, the voice had tipped her off at the outset to the need to grab a pen and some paper by kicking off with the words “this is a course in miracles, please take notes”.
Another devotee of The Course who managed to transform its core messages into a thriving business model is Marianne Williamson, a doyenne of the self-help crowd and the woman that Bernstein, for one, cites as her mentor and “divine teacher”.
An inspirational speaker and the author of a dozen books, Williamson is a little more actually God-focused than some of her younger pretenders, but alongside the practical guides to prayer there is still plenty of room for the materialistic.
In The Law of Divine Compensation, for instance, she revealed “the spiritual principles that help us overcome financial stress and unleash the divine power of abundance”. And one can only imagine what Schucman and her ghostwriter might have made of Williamson’s A Course in Weight Loss — 21 Spiritual Lessons for Surrendering Your Weight Forever.
Don’t laugh. If the best-selling books and the millions of virtual followers aren’t sufficiently sobering, these people could soon be running the world. Under the campaign slogan “Create anew”, Williamson has announced she is running for US congress this year.
In California’s 33rd congressional district, an area embracing Beverly Hills, Bel Air and Santa Monica, home to the world’s greatest concentration of Kundalini yoga studios, she is surely a shoo-in.
Williamson might find life in the House of Representatives a touch less convivial than life as a big fish in the small pool of self-help shamanism, in which mutual backslapping and incestuous cross-promotion is the name of the game.
She endorses Bernstein, Kipp and Kris Carr, the Crazy Sexy Cancer Survivor author, who in turn endorses Marie “I’m here to make you rich” Forleo. Forleo also gets a shout-out from Bernstein, as does Danielle LaPorte, the Canadian author of The Desire Map.
Oprah Winfrey, of course, endorses them all, which might be all you need to know about Kipp & Co.
It was on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday, a celebration of all things spiritually alternative, that Kipp described his drug-fuelled fall from grace (in which grace equated to “my own house in the Hollywood Hills, BMW, A-list celebrity friends, dream job in the music business”), followed by a satisfyingly brief, if hardly biblically arduous, journey to self-enlightenment.
“In one week,” he told Oprah, “my life fell apart.”
Actually, it didn’t really, but in this business the wake-up call, followed by instant revelation and redemption, is obligatory. Kipp had split up with his girlfriend and was staying in her parents’ pool house (“a Hollywood cell”) when, to top it all, “my lower back went out and I got gout. All in one week.” Dude.
Presumably the pool house had Wi-Fi, because Kipp was already running The Daily Love, and that, he told Oprah, is when he got his big break. TV personality Kim Kardashian tweeted “I feel so inspired when I read tweets from @TheDailyLove. They make me feel lovey [sic] and positive!”
Overnight, The Daily Love went from 1,000 to 10,000 followers. “It was like this confirmation of God going, ‘I got you’,” said Kipp. Oprah nodded, knowingly.
Serial sceptic Barbara Ehrenreich interviewed a lot of inspirational speakers for her 2009 book Bright-Sided: How Positive Thinking Is Undermining America, and she had a four-letter word for what they were peddling.
The message she kept hearing, she later said, was “you can have whatever you want, so long as you focus your thoughts on it, as long as you really, really want it. And I think that’s nuts, frankly.”
For Jim Taylor, the psychologist who pegged The Secret author Rhonda Byrne as “the latest in a long history of shakedown artists, from the snake-oil salesmen of the Old West to the grifters of the early 20th century to the motivational speakers of today”, the most remarkable thing about the self-help gurus was not their “outlandish claims [and] absurd assertions”, but the fact that “so many people accept [their] blather as gospel”.
So, nuts or gospel? This new year, why not take a walk on the wide-eyed side and judge for yourself? All major credit cards accepted.
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More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
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The smuggler
Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple.
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.
Khouli conviction
Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.
For sale
A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.
- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico
- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000
- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950
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At a glance
Global events: Much of the UK’s economic woes were blamed on “increased global uncertainty”, which can be interpreted as the economic impact of the Ukraine war and the uncertainty over Donald Trump’s tariffs.
Growth forecasts: Cut for 2025 from 2 per cent to 1 per cent. The OBR watchdog also estimated inflation will average 3.2 per cent this year
Welfare: Universal credit health element cut by 50 per cent and frozen for new claimants, building on cuts to the disability and incapacity bill set out earlier this month
Spending cuts: Overall day-to day-spending across government cut by £6.1bn in 2029-30
Tax evasion: Steps to crack down on tax evasion to raise “£6.5bn per year” for the public purse
Defence: New high-tech weaponry, upgrading HM Naval Base in Portsmouth
Housing: Housebuilding to reach its highest in 40 years, with planning reforms helping generate an extra £3.4bn for public finances
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
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A timeline of the Historical Dictionary of the Arabic Language
- 2018: Formal work begins
- November 2021: First 17 volumes launched
- November 2022: Additional 19 volumes released
- October 2023: Another 31 volumes released
- November 2024: All 127 volumes completed
Formula Middle East Calendar (Formula Regional and Formula 4)
Round 1: January 17-19, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 2: January 22-23, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 3: February 7-9, Dubai Autodrome – Dubai
Round 4: February 14-16, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 5: February 25-27, Jeddah Corniche Circuit – Saudi Arabia
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- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
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- 600-seat auditorium
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No more lice
Defining head lice
Pediculus humanus capitis are tiny wingless insects that feed on blood from the human scalp. The adult head louse is up to 3mm long, has six legs, and is tan to greyish-white in colour. The female lives up to four weeks and, once mature, can lay up to 10 eggs per day. These tiny nits firmly attach to the base of the hair shaft, get incubated by body heat and hatch in eight days or so.
Identifying lice
Lice can be identified by itching or a tickling sensation of something moving within the hair. One can confirm that a person has lice by looking closely through the hair and scalp for nits, nymphs or lice. Head lice are most frequently located behind the ears and near the neckline.
Treating lice at home
Head lice must be treated as soon as they are spotted. Start by checking everyone in the family for them, then follow these steps. Remove and wash all clothing and bedding with hot water. Apply medicine according to the label instructions. If some live lice are still found eight to 12 hours after treatment, but are moving more slowly than before, do not re-treat. Comb dead and remaining live lice out of the hair using a fine-toothed comb.
After the initial treatment, check for, comb and remove nits and lice from hair every two to three days. Soak combs and brushes in hot water for 10 minutes.Vacuum the floor and furniture, particularly where the infested person sat or lay.
Courtesy Dr Vishal Rajmal Mehta, specialist paediatrics, RAK Hospital
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What is the definition of an SME?
SMEs in the UAE are defined by the number of employees, annual turnover and sector. For example, a “small company” in the services industry has six to 50 employees with a turnover of more than Dh2 million up to Dh20m, while in the manufacturing industry the requirements are 10 to 100 employees with a turnover of more than Dh3m up to Dh50m, according to Dubai SME, an agency of the Department of Economic Development.
A “medium-sized company” can either have staff of 51 to 200 employees or 101 to 250 employees, and a turnover less than or equal to Dh200m or Dh250m, again depending on whether the business is in the trading, manufacturing or services sectors.
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
German intelligence warnings
- 2002: "Hezbollah supporters feared becoming a target of security services because of the effects of [9/11] ... discussions on Hezbollah policy moved from mosques into smaller circles in private homes." Supporters in Germany: 800
- 2013: "Financial and logistical support from Germany for Hezbollah in Lebanon supports the armed struggle against Israel ... Hezbollah supporters in Germany hold back from actions that would gain publicity." Supporters in Germany: 950
- 2023: "It must be reckoned with that Hezbollah will continue to plan terrorist actions outside the Middle East against Israel or Israeli interests." Supporters in Germany: 1,250
Source: Federal Office for the Protection of the Constitution
In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
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Common OCD symptoms and how they manifest
Checking: the obsession or thoughts focus on some harm coming from things not being as they should, which usually centre around the theme of safety. For example, the obsession is “the building will burn down”, therefore the compulsion is checking that the oven is switched off.
Contamination: the obsession is focused on the presence of germs, dirt or harmful bacteria and how this will impact the person and/or their loved ones. For example, the obsession is “the floor is dirty; me and my family will get sick and die”, the compulsion is repetitive cleaning.
Orderliness: the obsession is a fear of sitting with uncomfortable feelings, or to prevent harm coming to oneself or others. Objectively there appears to be no logical link between the obsession and compulsion. For example,” I won’t feel right if the jars aren’t lined up” or “harm will come to my family if I don’t line up all the jars”, so the compulsion is therefore lining up the jars.
Intrusive thoughts: the intrusive thought is usually highly distressing and repetitive. Common examples may include thoughts of perpetrating violence towards others, harming others, or questions over one’s character or deeds, usually in conflict with the person’s true values. An example would be: “I think I might hurt my family”, which in turn leads to the compulsion of avoiding social gatherings.
Hoarding: the intrusive thought is the overvaluing of objects or possessions, while the compulsion is stashing or hoarding these items and refusing to let them go. For example, “this newspaper may come in useful one day”, therefore, the compulsion is hoarding newspapers instead of discarding them the next day.
Source: Dr Robert Chandler, clinical psychologist at Lighthouse Arabia
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The rules on fostering in the UAE
A foster couple or family must:
- be Muslim, Emirati and be residing in the UAE
- not be younger than 25 years old
- not have been convicted of offences or crimes involving moral turpitude
- be free of infectious diseases or psychological and mental disorders
- have the ability to support its members and the foster child financially
- undertake to treat and raise the child in a proper manner and take care of his or her health and well-being
- A single, divorced or widowed Muslim Emirati female, residing in the UAE may apply to foster a child if she is at least 30 years old and able to support the child financially
