Stop and Help: how a Dubai Facebook group ended up helping 10,000 people in need


Janice Rodrigues
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Dino and Wendy Isaac have lived in the UAE for almost 10 years.

Wendy works as a clerk in a construction company and Dino works as a waiter.

They have a combined monthly salary of Dh7,500, an amount that sustains them as well as their daughters, Dayne Noe, 4, and Danyne Marthini, eight months. As the family puts it, they live a simple life, budgeting so their children can live with them.

However, as the pandemic brought industries all over the world to a grinding halt earlier this year, both parents found themselves on temporary unpaid leave.

But, as the Isaac family's situation became precarious, a community initiative sprung to the rescue.

Stop and Help officially launched on March 22, 2020, with a single objective: to support families in need. The concept is pretty simple: families in the UAE that have lost their income can sign up to be connected to others, who are able to supply them with essentials such as food and other household items.

Starting as a Facebook group

The entire Harries family has been involved in the Stop and Help initiative. Heather Harries
The entire Harries family has been involved in the Stop and Help initiative. Heather Harries

Educator and founder of Stop and Help, Heather Harries, says the idea was inspired, in part, by the organic generosity of strangers.

“When borders started to shut down earlier this year, as an educator, I found myself supporting children whose parents were outside the country. As I started hearing about more children who needed help, I reached out to Dubai British School mums, and the reaction was instant ... I ended up with more people wanting to help than people who needed help.

“To help balance things out, I finally started a Facebook group. It was a place where kindness could take place,” she adds.

The initiative may have started in Dubai, but it's now connecting families in other emirates as well. Today, the Facebook group has more than 10,600 followers, with more than 3,000 "kindness givers" lending their support.

In the span of three months, it has facilitated more than 6,000 grocery deliveries across the UAE, and supported more than 10,000 people who need help.

“I’m talking about households where both parents have lost jobs, families that have had no income for months, parents who don’t know when their next salary is coming in,” says Harries. As an educator, her Stop and Help programme is geared towards families with children. “Children under the age of 6 are especially vulnerable as a lack of nutritious food can have a life-long effect. So, if you are a parent having trouble putting food on the table, we will help you,” she says.

How it works, and how families have been able to 'graduate'

Due to the number of people who needed support – and the number of people wanting to help – Harries had to streamline the process to "match needs with kindness deeds". Today, families in need have to supply proof of employment termination. They are then connected with "kindness givers" who can opt to provide a single weekly shopping order, or four weekly care boxes over the course of a month.

All the interaction between the families goes through Stop and Help to ensure no unreasonable requests are received. In line with UAE government guidelines stating that no individual may send food directly from their house to another house, Stop and Help informs givers to only send items via online supermarket delivery services, direct to families vetted by the Stop and Help volunteers.

When Harries first came up with the concept, she decided on a maximum of four weeks of support for a family – “but that was before we realised that this would go on for months”. Today, families in need of help are supported for longer durations.

However, as the economy opens up once more and people resume jobs, families have been able to "graduate".

“These are people who we have been able to support for four or five weeks, and then they return to work and don’t need support any more. We give them the chance to say thank you to those who sent groceries and it is always amazing, with people sending drawings and smiling pictures telling us how much this meant to them.”

What happens when a "kindness giver" gets this thank you letter? "More often than not, they say 'give me another family'," laughs Harries.

How those helped then volunteer

Families that have received help can send thank you messages and pictures to their 'kindness givers'. Courtesy Stop and Help
Families that have received help can send thank you messages and pictures to their 'kindness givers'. Courtesy Stop and Help

Families who are back up on their feet also sometimes find a way to give back to show their appreciation, just like in the case of Isaac family. Wendy and Dino may still be on reduced wages, but they have now offered their assistance to the Stop and Help initiative, with Wendy lending her skills as a translator.

“This is such an important initiative at the moment when so many people are without salaries or on reduced salaries,” says Wendy. “It stops people from having to worry about where their next meal is coming from. At the same time, it’s about connecting families. It is a reminder of the kindness and generosity of strangers. When you get this package, you know that you are not alone, that there are people who care for you, want to help you.”

Harries believes the initiative has played role in connecting families from different financial backgrounds in the UAE. “I have a theory that everybody really wants to be kind, to do something positive,” she says. “But they’re not sure how to. All we are doing is showing them how they can contribute to another person’s wellbeing.”

Just this week, the initiative reached another high as it partnered with Emirates Loto, which is pledging to assist 25 families a day until the end of 2020.

Meanwhile, the past three months have left Harries with numerous anecdotes, happy memories, and pictures of relieved families and smiling children.

“I’m learning something new every day. For some people, the less you have, the less you ask. There are some parents who request items for their children, without thinking about their needs. It’s the beauty of human nature," she says.

“Another lovely thing – even expats who have lost their jobs in the UAE are stepping up to help. And it’s snowballing; I constantly have calls from people asking what they can do. The entire Dubai community has pulled together for this one.”

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Sheffield United 0

Red card: Jon Egan (Sheffield United)

 

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Breast cancer in men: the facts

1) Breast cancer is men is rare but can develop rapidly. It usually occurs in those over the ages of 60, but can occasionally affect younger men.

2) Symptoms can include a lump, discharge, swollen glands or a rash. 

3) People with a history of cancer in the family can be more susceptible. 

4) Treatments include surgery and chemotherapy but early diagnosis is the key. 

5) Anyone concerned is urged to contact their doctor

 

Six large-scale objects on show
  • Concrete wall and windows from the now demolished Robin Hood Gardens housing estate in Poplar
  • The 17th Century Agra Colonnade, from the bathhouse of the fort of Agra in India
  • A stagecloth for The Ballet Russes that is 10m high – the largest Picasso in the world
  • Frank Lloyd Wright’s 1930s Kaufmann Office
  • A full-scale Frankfurt Kitchen designed by Margarete Schütte-Lihotzky, which transformed kitchen design in the 20th century
  • Torrijos Palace dome
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Chatham House Rule

A mark of Chatham House’s influence 100 years on since its founding,  was Moscow’s formal declaration last month that it was an “undesirable
organisation”. 

 

The depth of knowledge and academics that it drew on
following the Ukraine invasion had broadcast Mr Putin’s chicanery.  

 

The institute is more used to accommodating world leaders,
with Nelson Mandela, Margaret Thatcher among those helping it provide
authoritative commentary on world events. 

 

Chatham House was formally founded as the Royal Institute of
International Affairs following the peace conferences of World War One. Its
founder, Lionel Curtis, wanted a more scientific examination of international affairs
with a transparent exchange of information and ideas.  

 

That arena of debate and analysis was enhanced by the “Chatham
House Rule” states that the contents of any meeting can be discussed outside Chatham
House but no mention can be made identifying individuals who commented.  

 

This has enabled some candid exchanges on difficult subjects
allowing a greater degree of free speech from high-ranking figures.  

 

These meetings are highly valued, so much so that
ambassadors reported them in secret diplomatic cables that – when they were
revealed in the Wikileaks reporting – were thus found to have broken the rule. However,
most speeches are held on the record.  

 

Its research and debate has offered fresh ideas to
policymakers enabling them to more coherently address troubling issues from climate
change to health and food security.   

 
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6pm: Handicap (PA) | Dh80,000 | 1,600m

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6.30pm: Handicap (PA) | Dh80,000 | 2,200m

Winner: MH Tawag, Richard Mullen, Elise Jeanne

7pm: Wathba Stallions Cup Handicap (PA) | Dh70,000 | 1,400m

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7.30pm: Handicap (TB) | Dh100,000 | 1,600m

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Global state-owned investor ranking by size

1.

United States

2.

China

3.

UAE

4.

Japan

5

Norway

6.

Canada

7.

Singapore

8.

Australia

9.

Saudi Arabia

10.

South Korea

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AUSTRALIA SQUAD

Aaron Finch, Matt Renshaw, Brendan Doggett, Michael Neser, Usman Khawaja, Shaun Marsh, Mitchell Marsh, Tim Paine (captain), Travis Head, Marnus Labuschagne, Nathan Lyon, Jon Holland, Ashton Agar, Mitchell Starc, Peter Siddle

Key facilities
  • Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
  • Premier League-standard football pitch
  • 400m Olympic running track
  • NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
  • 600-seat auditorium
  • Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
  • An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
  • Specialist robotics and science laboratories
  • AR and VR-enabled learning centres
  • Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
ASHES SCHEDULE

First Test
November 23-27 (The Gabba, Brisbane)
Second Test
December 2-6 (Adelaide Oval, Adelaide)
Third Test
December 14-18 (Waca Ground, Perth)
Fourth Test
December 26-30 (Melbourne Cricket Ground, Melbourne)
Fifth Test
January 4-8, 2018 (Sydney Cricket Ground, Sydney)

Mountain Classification Tour de France after Stage 8 on Saturday: 

  • 1. Lilian Calmejane (France / Direct Energie) 11
  • 2. Fabio Aru (Italy / Astana) 10
  • 3. Daniel Martin (Ireland / Quick-Step) 8
  • 4. Robert Gesink (Netherlands / LottoNL) 8
  • 5. Warren Barguil (France / Sunweb) 7
  • 6. Chris Froome (Britain / Team Sky) 6
  • 7. Guillaume Martin (France / Wanty) 6
  • 8. Jan Bakelants (Belgium / AG2R) 5
  • 9. Serge Pauwels (Belgium / Dimension Data) 5
  • 10. Richie Porte (Australia / BMC Racing) 4
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  • Engine: 3.9-litre twin-turbo V8
  • Power: 640hp
  • Torque: 760nm
  • On sale: 2026
  • Price: Not announced yet
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
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The Florida Project

Director: Sean Baker

Starring: Bria Vinaite, Brooklynn Prince, Willem Dafoe

Four stars

Boulder shooting victims

• Denny Strong, 20
• Neven Stanisic, 23
• Rikki Olds, 25
• Tralona Bartkowiak, 49
• Suzanne Fountain, 59
• Teri Leiker, 51
• Eric Talley, 51
• Kevin Mahoney, 61
• Lynn Murray, 62
• Jody Waters, 65

MATCH INFO

Quarter-finals

Saturday (all times UAE)

England v Australia, 11.15am 
New Zealand v Ireland, 2.15pm

Sunday

Wales v France, 11.15am
Japan v South Africa, 2.15pm

UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
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Tearful appearance

Chancellor Rachel Reeves set markets on edge as she appeared visibly distraught in parliament on Wednesday. 

Legislative setbacks for the government have blown a new hole in the budgetary calculations at a time when the deficit is stubbornly large and the economy is struggling to grow. 

She appeared with Keir Starmer on Thursday and the pair embraced, but he had failed to give her his backing as she cried a day earlier.

A spokesman said her upset demeanour was due to a personal matter.

The specs

Engine: 1.5-litre turbo

Power: 181hp

Torque: 230Nm

Transmission: 6-speed automatic

Starting price: Dh79,000

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ESSENTIALS

The flights

Emirates flies from Dubai to Phnom Penh via Yangon from Dh2,700 return including taxes. Cambodia Bayon Airlines and Cambodia Angkor Air offer return flights from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap from Dh250 return including taxes. The flight takes about 45 minutes.

The hotels

Rooms at the Raffles Le Royal in Phnom Penh cost from $225 (Dh826) per night including taxes. Rooms at the Grand Hotel d'Angkor cost from $261 (Dh960) per night including taxes.

The tours

A cyclo architecture tour of Phnom Penh costs from $20 (Dh75) per person for about three hours, with Khmer Architecture Tours. Tailor-made tours of all of Cambodia, or sites like Angkor alone, can be arranged by About Asia Travel. Emirates Holidays also offers packages. 

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T20 SQUADS

Australia: Aaron Finch (c), Mitchell Marsh, Alex Carey, Ashton Agar, Nathan Coulter-Nile, Chris Lynn, Nathan Lyon, Glenn Maxwell, Ben McDermott, D’Arcy Short, Billy Stanlake, Mitchell Starc, Andrew Tye, Adam Zampa.

Pakistan: Sarfraz Ahmed (c), Fakhar Zaman, Mohammad Hafeez, Sahibzada Farhan, Babar Azam, Shoaib Malik, Asif Ali, Hussain Talat, Shadab Khan, Shaheen Shah Afridi, Usman Khan Shinwari, Hassan Ali, Imad Wasim, Waqas Maqsood, Faheem Ashraf.

Six tips to secure your smart home

Most smart home devices are controlled via the owner's smartphone. Therefore, if you are using public wi-fi on your phone, always use a VPN (virtual private network) that offers strong security features and anonymises your internet connection.

Keep your smart home devices’ software up-to-date. Device makers often send regular updates - follow them without fail as they could provide protection from a new security risk.

Use two-factor authentication so that in addition to a password, your identity is authenticated by a second sign-in step like a code sent to your mobile number.

Set up a separate guest network for acquaintances and visitors to ensure the privacy of your IoT devices’ network.

Change the default privacy and security settings of your IoT devices to take extra steps to secure yourself and your home.

Always give your router a unique name, replacing the one generated by the manufacturer, to ensure a hacker cannot ascertain its make or model number.

SPECS

Nissan 370z Nismo

Engine: 3.7-litre V6

Transmission: seven-speed automatic

Power: 363hp

Torque: 560Nm

Price: Dh184,500

Results

5.30pm Maiden (TB) Dh82,500 (Turf) 1,400m

Winner Spirit Of Light, Clement Lecoeuvre (jockey), Erwan Charpy (trainer)

6.05pm Maiden (TB) Dh82,500 (Dirt) 1,900m

Winner Bright Start, Pat Cosgrave, Saeed bin Suroor

6.40pm Handicap (TB) Dh92,500 (D) 2,000m

Winner Twelfthofneverland, Nathan Crosse, Satish Seemar

7.15pm Handicap (TB) Dh85,000 (T) 1,600m

Winner Imperial Empire, Tadhg O’Shea, Satish Seemar

7.50pm Handicap (TB) Dh92,500 (T) 2,000m

Winner Record Man, Tadhg O’Shea, Satish Seemar

8.25pm Handicap (TB) Dh92,500 (D) 1,600m

Winner Celtic Prince, Fabrice Veron, Rashed Bouresly

Dubai Bling season three

Cast: Loujain Adada, Zeina Khoury, Farhana Bodi, Ebraheem Al Samadi, Mona Kattan, and couples Safa & Fahad Siddiqui and DJ Bliss & Danya Mohammed 

Rating: 1/5

The specs

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Power: 579hp

Torque: 859Nm

Transmission: Single-speed automatic

Price: From Dh825,900

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Real estate tokenisation project

Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.

The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.

Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.

One in nine do not have enough to eat

Created in 1961, the World Food Programme is pledged to fight hunger worldwide as well as providing emergency food assistance in a crisis.

One of the organisation’s goals is the Zero Hunger Pledge, adopted by the international community in 2015 as one of the 17 Sustainable Goals for Sustainable Development, to end world hunger by 2030.

The WFP, a branch of the United Nations, is funded by voluntary donations from governments, businesses and private donations.

Almost two thirds of its operations currently take place in conflict zones, where it is calculated that people are more than three times likely to suffer from malnutrition than in peaceful countries.

It is currently estimated that one in nine people globally do not have enough to eat.

On any one day, the WFP estimates that it has 5,000 lorries, 20 ships and 70 aircraft on the move.

Outside emergencies, the WFP provides school meals to up to 25 million children in 63 countries, while working with communities to improve nutrition. Where possible, it buys supplies from developing countries to cut down transport cost and boost local economies.