Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied
Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied
Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied
Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied

Is 'Indian Matchmaking' realistic? Four UAE couples on how arranged marriages are evolving


Janice Rodrigues
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Few shows have been as divisive and controversial as Netflix's recent Indian Matchmaking.

The series, which follows Mumbai matchmaker Sima Taparia as she connects Indian-origin singles looking for spouses, has been praised criticised, inside India and beyond.

While many say it perpetuates – and even normalises – damaging ideas around colourism and caste, others are of the opinion that it simply shines a light on the reality of Indian set-ups, while doing what reality television does best: entertain.

Is the show hyper-dramatised? Or does it provide relatable content for modern Indians? We speak to four UAE couples who met through arranged marriages to find out.

'Conversations on arranged marriages are maturing'

Nasera Anjum and Mohammed Abdul Shadab have been married for five years in 2020. Supplied
Nasera Anjum and Mohammed Abdul Shadab have been married for five years in 2020. Supplied

Nasera Anjum and Mohammed Abdul Shadab met through a matrimonial advertisement in a newspaper – a standard practice for those in their community in Hyderabad, India. Mohammed was working in IT in the UAE at the time, while Nasera was a teacher in India, so it was during a trip back home that they first met face-to-face.

“The meeting was very formal, in front of his family,” Nasera says. “He was pretty flamboyant, talkative. I was more reserved, just answering questions.”

Phone numbers were exchanged, Mohammed returned to the UAE, and the two kept in touch. However, after a few weeks of talking, both of them told their parents it wasn’t working out.

“When we started talking, our personalities didn’t match. I’m a social person. I like partying, meeting friends; she’s more homely. I thought I would lose all my freedom,” Mohammed says, with a laugh.

But both sets of parents were disappointed, and asked them to keep an open mind. “My mum told me that he seemed nice and asked me to speak to him for a bit longer,” says Nasera. “We eventually fell in love. We got engaged in three months.”

The second time the couple met face-to-face was at their wedding. Even their engagement was done virtually, since they were in different countries.

Nasera Anjum and Mohammed Abdul Shadab met through a matrimonial advert in a newspaper, a common practice in their community in Hyderabad, India.
Nasera Anjum and Mohammed Abdul Shadab met through a matrimonial advert in a newspaper, a common practice in their community in Hyderabad, India.

The couple have now been married for five years. Mohammed believes that their example is proof that arranged marriage in India is evolving. In the past, it was standard for families to arrange marriages – sometimes without the bride and the groom even meeting or speaking before the engagement. Now, the bride and groom are more actively involved, and are having deeper conversations, the couple says.

“I think the conversation around arranged marriage is maturing. When Nasera and I used to speak, we would talk about things like the future, how we wanted to build careers, travel. I think couples are having these conversations rather than just asking general questions,” says Mohammed.

Verdict on 'Indian Matchmaking'

Nasera: I think it's realistic. Sima Taparia is more elite, visiting people in their homes, but there are marriage bureaus that people approach for these kinds of services. They submit their profiles, or biodata, and have six-month or year-long packages, during which the bureaus will send over profiles to the bride and the groom. If a match is made, both the bride and the groom pay a sum.

Meeting on a matrimony website

Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied
Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar got engaged within three months of meeting. Supplied

Archana Sadanand and Pradeep K Nambiar’s story is something many urban, millennial Indians will relate to. “When I turned 25, my relatives started nosing around and asking my parents why I hadn’t found anyone yet. So, I told my parents they could make a matrimony profile to get them off my back,” says Archana, an influencer.

Meanwhile, Pradeep’s parents had made a profile for him five years previously, which is how the two ended up meeting through Keralamatrimony.com.

“My parents were handling my profile, but they would show me some matches that showed interest. I was drawn to his. It seemed honest and he was handling it himself at the time,” says Archana.

The parents got involved at that point to match horoscopes, a standard practice in their community in Kerala, before passing on contact numbers. Because they lived close to each other, they met for the first time in a nearby McDonald’s restaurant.

“The meeting was nice; the conversation felt so normal,” says Archana. “After that we started meeting every two days, then every day.”

Archana Sadanand, a social media influencer, met Pradeep K Nambiar, engineer, through a matrimony website. Supplied
Archana Sadanand, a social media influencer, met Pradeep K Nambiar, engineer, through a matrimony website. Supplied

After hanging out for three months, they told their parents how they felt, the family connected, and the two got engaged. For Archana, it didn’t seem too fast. Because they were both meeting up by themselves, with little involvement from their parents, it didn’t even feel like an arranged marriage.

“People are always so shocked at the idea of an arranged marriage, but how is this any different to meeting on a dating website? At least when you meet on a matrimonial website, you know that both parties are serious about an end goal, and want to see the relationship going somewhere,” she says.

Verdict on 'Indian Matchmaking'

Archana: It was cringe-worthy but also really entertaining. I would love to see a season two. I hope the people on the show realise how they look to the outside world. I don’t think it’s an accurate representation of arranged marriage. I think it’s a reality show at the end of the day and if it’s not controversial, it’s not successful, so the show’s creators went for extreme scenarios.

Making the first call

Divya Lobo and Praveen D'Souza with their son Mark, aged 4. Supplied
Divya Lobo and Praveen D'Souza with their son Mark, aged 4. Supplied

In many parts of India, churches have a centre that provides a matchmaking service, which is how Divya Lobo and Praveen D’Souza met. They were in Bengaluru at the time, and they had both registered at their local church. The family connected through the service, passed along phone numbers, and it was Divya who made the first call.

“That was a bit unusual, in an arranged set-up, for the girl to be the first to call,” says Praveen. “We planned a meeting at a local coffee shop.”

Unlike traditional arranged set-ups, Divya hadn’t seen Praveen’s picture while organising the meeting. The night before, she messaged him to ask if he could send her a photo of himself. “A lot of people doctor these photos anyway, to make themselves look a certain way. It wasn’t a priority for me,” says Divya.

The meeting took an unexpected turn when the coffee shop turned out to be full, which led them to a nearby cafeteria. After the meal, Praveen realised he didn’t have any cash and since the cafeteria didn’t accept cards, Divya paid for the meal. They parted ways, but Praveen then realised he didn’t have any money to pay for parking either. “I had to call her up and ask if I could borrow money for parking,” he says, laughing.

“I never got that money back,” Divya adds.

Divya Lobo and Praveen D'Souza met via a church matchmaking service.
Divya Lobo and Praveen D'Souza met via a church matchmaking service.

In their community (they are both from Mangalore), it is common for couples to meet independently before they decide to introduce each other to their parents. In Praveen and Divya’s case, her parents first met him separately, without his family, and took a liking to him. The couple kept in touch over the phone, met frequently, were engaged within two months and married within six. They’ve now been married for nine years, and have a 4-year-old son.

“I think the concept of arranged marriage is getting more broadminded, especially in some communities,” says Praveen. “I think the important factor is whether someone is meeting people because they want to get married or because their parents want them to get married. If it’s the parents, it becomes more traditional. But, in our case, we were driving things forward. It didn’t feel very traditional.”

Verdict on 'Indian Matchmaking'

Divya: It’s pretty realistic. In the show, the matchmaker sets people up, and then they go on dates to figure out whether they like each other; the latter part was similar for us. I thought some of the show's characters, like Nadia for instance, were very relatable.

Technology has been a game-changer

Mohit and Jogan Bhojwani communicated virtually for months before meeting. Supplied
Mohit and Jogan Bhojwani communicated virtually for months before meeting. Supplied

Like some of the stars in Indian Matchmaking, Mohit and Jogan Bhojwani are Sindhis, an ethnic group with roots in Sindh, Pakistan. While they're familiar with the process of an arranged marriage, as depicted on the show, their story was quite different.

Like most modern-day couples, Mohit and Jogan were introduced through someone they both knew.

“A relative from my dad’s side knew Mohit, who she thought would be a good fit for me. Initially I was hesitant; I wanted to continue living in Mumbai and he was in Dubai. I thought about it for a few days and then figured I might as well give it a try,” says Jogan.

Phone numbers were exchanged and the pair started texting each other; they connected online and their communication continued virtually for three months. The first time they met face to face was when Mohit went to Mumbai for a holiday in 2017, and Jogan picked him up from the airport.

Mohit and Jogan Bhojwani at their wedding. Supplied
Mohit and Jogan Bhojwani at their wedding. Supplied

Their case isn't traditional for their community, and is considered more of a love marriage neither of their families believed in matching horoscopes, so they eschewed that part as well. Although they have seen plenty of traditional marriages within the community, things are changing, they say.

“Technology has changed things,” says Mohit. “Earlier people would trust their parents completely to make that match; they wouldn’t even meet their future partner. But with WhatsApp and social media, it’s impossible not to communicate. Not only do couples talk every day, they follow each other on Facebook, Instagram, and they know their friends and inner circles well before the marriage. It’s impossible not to be in touch.”

Verdict on 'Indian Matchmaking'

Mohit: It was pretty accurate. When it comes to arranged marriages, people can be really picky, sometimes even stating whether they want spouses who are self-made or come from a family business.

And, in the beginning, they are judged on the basis of their biodata, so the book is judged by the cover. While that is unfortunate, it does also speed the process up sometimes as people know exactly what they’re looking for. In fact, the idea of biodata is similar to dating apps, where people swipe according to looks. At least over here, there are background checks, more understanding of the person and what they’re looking for.

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Being overweight or obese increases the chances of developing the more common type 2 diabetes.

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2. They can be created when massive stars collapse under their own weight

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Common OCD symptoms and how they manifest

Checking: the obsession or thoughts focus on some harm coming from things not being as they should, which usually centre around the theme of safety. For example, the obsession is “the building will burn down”, therefore the compulsion is checking that the oven is switched off.

Contamination: the obsession is focused on the presence of germs, dirt or harmful bacteria and how this will impact the person and/or their loved ones. For example, the obsession is “the floor is dirty; me and my family will get sick and die”, the compulsion is repetitive cleaning.

Orderliness: the obsession is a fear of sitting with uncomfortable feelings, or to prevent harm coming to oneself or others. Objectively there appears to be no logical link between the obsession and compulsion. For example,” I won’t feel right if the jars aren’t lined up” or “harm will come to my family if I don’t line up all the jars”, so the compulsion is therefore lining up the jars.

Intrusive thoughts: the intrusive thought is usually highly distressing and repetitive. Common examples may include thoughts of perpetrating violence towards others, harming others, or questions over one’s character or deeds, usually in conflict with the person’s true values. An example would be: “I think I might hurt my family”, which in turn leads to the compulsion of avoiding social gatherings.

Hoarding: the intrusive thought is the overvaluing of objects or possessions, while the compulsion is stashing or hoarding these items and refusing to let them go. For example, “this newspaper may come in useful one day”, therefore, the compulsion is hoarding newspapers instead of discarding them the next day.

Source: Dr Robert Chandler, clinical psychologist at Lighthouse Arabia

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Date started: 2015

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Arsenal 2

Sokratis Papastathopoulos 45 4'

Eddie Ntkeiah 51'

Portsmouth 0

 

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Malala Yousafzai is enjoying married life, her father said.

The 24-year-old married Pakistan cricket executive Asser Malik last year in a small ceremony in the UK.

Ziauddin Yousafzai told The National his daughter was ‘very happy’ with her husband.

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Siblings: five brothers and one sister

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Favourite place: UAE

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What he did to pass the time during the trip: listen to audio books

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Opening Rugby Championship fixtures: Games can be watched on OSN Sports
Saturday: Australia v New Zealand, Sydney, 1pm (UAE)
Sunday: South Africa v Argentina, Port Elizabeth, 11pm (UAE)

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'Worse than a prison sentence'

Marie Byrne, a counsellor who volunteers at the UAE government's mental health crisis helpline, said the ordeal the crew had been through would take time to overcome.

“It was worse than a prison sentence, where at least someone can deal with a set amount of time incarcerated," she said.

“They were living in perpetual mystery as to how their futures would pan out, and what that would be.

“Because of coronavirus, the world is very different now to the one they left, that will also have an impact.

“It will not fully register until they are on dry land. Some have not seen their young children grow up while others will have to rebuild relationships.

“It will be a challenge mentally, and to find other work to support their families as they have been out of circulation for so long. Hopefully they will get the care they need when they get home.”

Gothia Cup 2025

4,872 matches 

1,942 teams

116 pitches

76 nations

26 UAE teams

15 Lebanese teams

2 Kuwaiti teams

COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Mamo 

 Year it started: 2019 Founders: Imad Gharazeddine, Asim Janjua

 Based: Dubai, UAE

 Number of employees: 28

 Sector: Financial services

 Investment: $9.5m

 Funding stage: Pre-Series A Investors: Global Ventures, GFC, 4DX Ventures, AlRajhi Partners, Olive Tree Capital, and prominent Silicon Valley investors. 

 
Short-term let permits explained

Homeowners and tenants are allowed to list their properties for rental by registering through the Dubai Tourism website to obtain a permit.

Tenants also require a letter of no objection from their landlord before being allowed to list the property.

There is a cost of Dh1,590 before starting the process, with an additional licence fee of Dh300 per bedroom being rented in your home for the duration of the rental, which ranges from three months to a year.

Anyone hoping to list a property for rental must also provide a copy of their title deeds and Ejari, as well as their Emirates ID.

WHEN TO GO:

September to November or March to May; this is when visitors are most likely to see what they’ve come for.

WHERE TO STAY:

Meghauli Serai, A Taj Safari - Chitwan National Park resort (tajhotels.com) is a one-hour drive from Bharatpur Airport with stays costing from Dh1,396 per night, including taxes and breakfast. Return airport transfers cost from Dh661.

HOW TO GET THERE:

Etihad Airways regularly flies from Abu Dhabi to Kathmandu from around Dh1,500 per person return, including taxes. Buddha Air (buddhaair.com) and Yeti Airlines (yetiairlines.com) fly from Kathmandu to Bharatpur several times a day from about Dh660 return and the flight takes just 20 minutes. Driving is possible but the roads are hilly which means it will take you five or six hours to travel 148 kilometres.

Abu Dhabi GP Saturday schedule

12.30pm GP3 race (18 laps)

2pm Formula One final practice 

5pm Formula One qualifying

6.40pm Formula 2 race (31 laps)

How Alia's experiment will help humans get to Mars

Alia’s winning experiment examined how genes might change under the stresses caused by being in space, such as cosmic radiation and microgravity.

Her samples were placed in a machine on board the International Space Station. called a miniPCR thermal cycler, which can copy DNA multiple times.

After the samples were examined on return to Earth, scientists were able to successfully detect changes caused by being in space in the way DNA transmits instructions through proteins and other molecules in living organisms.

Although Alia’s samples were taken from nematode worms, the results have much bigger long term applications, especially for human space flight and long term missions, such as to Mars.

It also means that the first DNA experiments using human genomes can now be carried out on the ISS.

 

Why seagrass matters
  • Carbon sink: Seagrass sequesters carbon up to 35X faster than tropical rainforests
  • Marine nursery: Crucial habitat for juvenile fish, crustations, and invertebrates
  • Biodiversity: Support species like sea turtles, dugongs, and seabirds
  • Coastal protection: Reduce erosion and improve water quality
Key figures in the life of the fort

Sheikh Dhiyab bin Isa (ruled 1761-1793) Built Qasr Al Hosn as a watchtower to guard over the only freshwater well on Abu Dhabi island.

Sheikh Shakhbut bin Dhiyab (ruled 1793-1816) Expanded the tower into a small fort and transferred his ruling place of residence from Liwa Oasis to the fort on the island.

Sheikh Tahnoon bin Shakhbut (ruled 1818-1833) Expanded Qasr Al Hosn further as Abu Dhabi grew from a small village of palm huts to a town of more than 5,000 inhabitants.

Sheikh Khalifa bin Shakhbut (ruled 1833-1845) Repaired and fortified the fort.

Sheikh Saeed bin Tahnoon (ruled 1845-1855) Turned Qasr Al Hosn into a strong two-storied structure.

Sheikh Zayed bin Khalifa (ruled 1855-1909) Expanded Qasr Al Hosn further to reflect the emirate's increasing prominence.

Sheikh Shakhbut bin Sultan (ruled 1928-1966) Renovated and enlarged Qasr Al Hosn, adding a decorative arch and two new villas.

Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan (ruled 1966-2004) Moved the royal residence to Al Manhal palace and kept his diwan at Qasr Al Hosn.

Sources: Jayanti Maitra, www.adach.ae

Usain Bolt's World Championships record

2007 Osaka

200m Silver

4x100m relay Silver

 

2009 Berlin

100m Gold

200m Gold

4x100m relay Gold

 

2011 Daegu

100m Disqualified in final for false start

200m Gold

4x100m relay Gold

 

2013 Moscow

100m Gold

200m Gold

4x100m relay Gold

 

2015 Beijing

100m Gold

200m Gold

4x100m relay Gold

 

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