Becoming a grandparent is one of those life moments that doesn't get the attention it deserves, but it certainly is a marker. Signifying the move from middle to old age, it's a realisation that you're getting-on, but one wrapped in an overwhelming sea of pride and joy.
Throw the Covid lockdown and 7,500 kilometres between you and the new arrival into the equation and it becomes an emotional roller coaster.
We are among the first Gen-Xers to become grandparents, and it's odd.
We are young, at least at heart, and only somewhat creaky in knee and with just the odd grey hair.
We are from the generation of hip-hop and indie, and we have always been a bit, as our parents would say: "cool".
How did we become grandad and granny? Having our oldest son, the dad, while still at art college certainly helped, but to be honest, being a grandad is my dream job.
I feel I’ve been in training for this since I was a kid. I’m a natural grandad: lots of fun and little responsibility is how I roll.
Sadly, imagining is all I’m able to do right now, until we can get on a plane and fly home to the UK to meet our new grandson. Even when we are allowed to hop on the plane, we will likely be faced with two weeks isolation back in Britain before we get that first cuddle.
If we stuck to our usual two weeks back in the UK over the summer, two weeks isolation means a quick hug at the airport just before flying back. Not ideal.
I imagine that being an expat grandparent involves a lot of missing out, even at the best of times, but the lockdown and an inability to fly means I need to employ unexpected patience for a stretch, which is thankfully tempered by my practical fatalism.
Coronavirus has presented so many problems to so many people, and so ours only rates as a minor inconvenience in the grand scheme of things, but it is something that we have had to deal with.
We battled through the long hours of labour with our son via WhatsApp, him covid-banned from the maternity unit until the business end started. He was then only allowed an hour or two with his wife and son before being banished until the following day.
We paced the floor with him throughout. But that is how it is, I can see the reasoning of why he couldn't be there, and why we can't, and I agree with it.
It’s easier to handle situations when you really have no other choice, even when the path is difficult.
So, for the foreseeable future, its Zoom, WhatsApp, virtual cuddles and virtual grandparenting.
I'm sat at my working-from-home spot in our spare bedroom with a picture of my grandson stuck next to me. Him in London, us in Abu Dhabi.
What I do know is that this too will pass, and one day he’ll be fast asleep in this very room while his parents take a well-earned break and enjoy the sun and beaches while we just, I don’t know, watch him a while.
Frank Elvis Donaldson (Yes, really). Born on 31 May, 2020. 8.5lb bruiser.
My first grandson.
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China and the UAE forged even closer links between the two countries during the landmark state visit after finalising a ten-point agreement on a range of issues, from international affairs to the economy and trade and renewable energy.
1. Politics: The two countries agreed to support each other on issues of security and to work together on regional and international challenges. The nations also confirmed that the number of high-level state visits between China and the UAE will increase.
2. Economy: The UAE offers its full support to China's Belt and Road Initiative, which will combine a land 'economic belt" and a "maritime silk road" that will link China with the Arabian Gulf as well as Southeast, South and Central China, North Africa and, eventually, Europe.
3. Business and innovation: The two nations are committed to exploring new partnerships in sectors such as Artificial Intelligence, energy, the aviation and transport industries and have vowed to build economic co-operation through the UAE-China Business Committee.
4. Education, science and technology: The Partnership Programme between Arab countries in Science and Technology will encourage young Emirati scientists to conduct research in China, while the nations will work together on the peaceful use of nuclear energy, renewable energy and space projects.
5. Renewable energy and water: The two countries will partner to develop renewable energy schemes and work to reduce climate change. The nations have also reiterated their support for the Abu Dhabi-based International Renewable Energy Agency.
6. Oil and gas: The UAE and China will work in partnership in the crude oil trade and the exploration and development of oil and natural gas resources.
7. Military and law enforcement and security fields: Joint training will take place between the Chinese and UAE armed forces, while the two nations will step up efforts to combat terrorism and organised crime.
8. Culture and humanitarian issues: Joint cultural projects will be developed and partnerships will be cultivated on the preservation of heritage, contemporary art and tourism.
9. Movement between countries: China and the UAE made clear their intent to encourage travel between the countries through a wide-ranging visa waiver agreement.
10. Implementing the strategic partnership: The Intergovernmental Co-operation Committee, established last year, will be used to ensure the objectives of the partnership are implemented.
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Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple.
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.
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Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
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He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.
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A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
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The trip
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- Technology expert in robotics and automation: Dh20,000 to Dh40,000
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- HR leader: Dh40,000 to Dh60,000
- Engineering leader: Dh30,000 to Dh55,000
- Project manager: Dh55,000 to Dh65,000
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- Field engineer: Dh6,500 to Dh7,500
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- Field operator: Dh5,000 to Dh7,000
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- set out well ahead of time
- make sure you have at least Dh15 on you Nol card, as there could be big queues for top-up machines
- enter the right cabin. The train may be too busy to move between carriages once you're on
- don't carry too much luggage and tuck it under a seat to make room for fellow passengers
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