Amid the watersheds of early parenthood, sitting hunkered and unseemly in the company of significant and esteemed events such as teething, crawling and walking, there's an odd and selfish occurrence: the last time you went out to a restaurant without your child. It has been more than a year since our last child-free meal. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining. Rather, when we went for dinner last Tuesday for the first time in a long time, I was surprised at just how strange and difficult it was.
Astrid's grandparents have been in Abu Dhabi for a few weeks and they offered to look after her. So one night Lucy and I went out for dinner. Getting pleasure from eating out is mostly habit. You can see the awkwardness and tension of uninitiated or occasional diners. It sags and waddles in ill-chosen garb. It stutters and prevaricates over the menu. It gasps at the hefty bill. Regulars know how to relax and enjoy themselves - I know because I used to be one - but after a year of not going out, I felt I'd lost the knack.
At first, I felt quite happy to be out without Astrid. The air was warm and the breeze was pleasant. It was a relief not to have to be continuously vigilant and responsible. But the euphoria was fleeting, akin to an inmate released from jail who relishes his freedom but is quickly swamped by its possibility. The pleasure ebbed away when the waiter brought the menu. Scanning its embossed type, larded with unctuous nouns, I reached the end unable to find a dish that cost less than Astrid's new shoes.
That's the main problem: you can kid yourself that you haven't really changed, that you're the same person you used to be only with children, that you don't do anything differently, but it is, I would venture, impossible to stay the same. This realisation rears its head most visibly when your old life intersects with your new and it crops up when you try to re-enact stuff you did before you had children. I was meant to be enjoying eating out because I used to enjoy it, but I wasn't.
This awareness that you have changed is not as depressing as it sounds. It is better to go with it than fight it. We will still try to go out for dinner more often. We will develop a new habit but we will choose somewhere cheaper in future. The polyphonic spree of Abu Dhabi's Womad festival last month seems to have done wonders for Astrid's sense of rhythm even now. She enjoyed bouncing around on the sand to rasping Mongolian folk music, Afrobeat and French ska, but it was at one of the festival's drum workshops that she truly embraced the power of the beat. She banged on the bongos for a long time and even followed the rhythms of the group at times.
Scientific research has found that babies are born with the ability to discern beats. In 2009, researchers from the Institute for Psychology in Budapest and the University of Amsterdam played a drum rhythm to newborn babies and used EEG to measure how their brains responded. When the rhythm was altered, the babies reacted in a way that suggested they could perceive the beat. These findings do not explain why some babies seem to have rhythm, while others do not. Perhaps every baby has its own rhythm. It is just not necessarily the rhythm that is prevalent at the time.
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Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
The smuggler
Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple.
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.
Khouli conviction
Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.
For sale
A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.
- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico
- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000
- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950
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Practitioners of mindful eating recommend the following books to get you started:
Savor: Mindful Eating, Mindful Life by Thich Nhat Hanh and Dr Lilian Cheung
How to Eat by Thich Nhat Hanh
The Mindful Diet by Dr Ruth Wolever
Mindful Eating by Dr Jan Bays
How to Raise a Mindful Eaterby Maryann Jacobsen
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