An a la carte iftar is more enjoyable than the normal buffet service. Courtesy Chef Halawa
An a la carte iftar is more enjoyable than the normal buffet service. Courtesy Chef Halawa
An a la carte iftar is more enjoyable than the normal buffet service. Courtesy Chef Halawa
An a la carte iftar is more enjoyable than the normal buffet service. Courtesy Chef Halawa

Why I’ve lost my appetite for Ramadan buffets: the many pros of an a la carte iftar


Saeed Saeed
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"This feels more like a dinner than breakfast," a friend mutters when arriving at a plush Abu Dhabi hotel for iftar.

In a way, he is right.

We are ushered to our seats and once we eat our dates, the soups, salads and main meals arrive to our table in short order.

This is iftar in the pandemic age and I am digging it.

My friend, however, ruefully observes the vibe of the room. He thinks it’s quiet, I argue it's serene.

He points to the lack of anticipatory buzz leading up to iftar, while I highlight the newfound civility amid the patrons.

The thrill of the buffet

So we are not on the same plate, so to speak. But one thing we agree on is how a lack of buffet station is a game-changer for iftars.

With health and safety measures curtailing the capacity of diners, a number of UAE hotels have ditched the buffet, long a staple of iftars, for the kind of elegant a la carte offerings reserved for the evening suhoor service.

An unintended benefit of this has been in the changing psychology of many seasoned iftar diners.

One of them being me.

An a la carte iftar for Ramadan. Getty Images
An a la carte iftar for Ramadan. Getty Images

Pre-pandemic, I considered myself an expert on all things “buffet-ology”.

I even wrote a piece for The National elucidating on the "golden rules" of buffet eating, the most important of which was to respect the process. "This means arriving to the hotel a few minutes before show-time and do a reconnaissance of the meal," I pronounced with relish.

This is the lost buzz my friend is referring to. It is the excitement of warriors pacing the arena and pondering a plan of attack (a killer tip: avoid unnecessary fillers such as bread and salads, and head straight for the meat).

Now that’s gone and the only anticipation we can summon pre-meal is when a menu offers something more creative than a mixed-grill plate.

Then comes the guilt

But it’s a thrill worth sacrificing, for what is gained is a more soulful experience.

For starters, we have more immersive exchanges at the iftar table, which was a rarity in the live cooking stations era.

When the buffet was in full swing, I would often have one eye on my companions and the other on the worryingly diminishing number of lamb chops on the grill.

Conversations were unfocused at best. Spirited debates would be jarringly paused as I decided to go “for another round” of the culinary gauntlet.

Eventually, I would lose my appetite from eating too much and too soon.

I'd also start to feel increasingly guilty when surveying a growing pile of carelessly uneaten plates strewn around the dining hall.

Then came the worst part: going to the nightly taraweeh prayer and feeling out of sorts because I overate, again.

A la carte is so much better

This Ramadan, I have felt none of those physical pangs and anxieties.

With the buffet out of the equation and food portions controlled by the set menu, iftars have been truly enriching.

The constant clatter of plates and shuffling feet have been replaced with the warm hum of conversation.

Iftar services are now also smooth and swift enough to have us ready to go to the mosque in time and feeling alert.

It all makes me feel grateful for being able to see another Ramadan, surrounded by friends, in one of the safest countries in the world.

Therefore, I plan to permanently retire from iftar buffets, even when they do make a resurgence.

It has been a great ride, but I've now found a way to enjoy iftar with my heart and stomach full, but not to bursting.

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2002 Giselle Khoury (Colombia)

2004 Nathalie Nasralla (France)

2005 Catherine Abboud (Oceania)

2007 Grace Bijjani  (Mexico)

2008 Carina El-Keddissi (Brazil)

2009 Sara Mansour (Brazil)

2010 Daniella Rahme (Australia)

2011 Maria Farah (Canada)

2012 Cynthia Moukarzel (Kuwait)

2013 Layla Yarak (Australia)              

2014 Lia Saad  (UAE)

2015 Cynthia Farah (Australia)

2016 Yosmely Massaad (Venezuela)

2017 Dima Safi (Ivory Coast)

2018 Rachel Younan (Australia)

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The hotels

Rooms at the Ritz-Carlton Almaty cost from Dh1,944 per night including taxes; and in Astana the new Ritz-Carlton Astana (www.marriott) costs from Dh1,325; alternatively, the new St Regis Astana costs from Dh1,458 per night including taxes. 

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Create and maintain a strong bond between yourself and your child, through sensitivity, responsiveness, touch, talk and play. “The bond you have with your kids is the blueprint for the relationships they will have later on in life,” says Dr Sarah Rasmi, a psychologist.
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Important questions to consider

1. Where on the plane does my pet travel?

There are different types of travel available for pets:

  • Manifest cargo
  • Excess luggage in the hold
  • Excess luggage in the cabin

Each option is safe. The feasibility of each option is based on the size and breed of your pet, the airline they are traveling on and country they are travelling to.

 

2. What is the difference between my pet traveling as manifest cargo or as excess luggage?

If traveling as manifest cargo, your pet is traveling in the front hold of the plane and can travel with or without you being on the same plane. The cost of your pets travel is based on volumetric weight, in other words, the size of their travel crate.

If traveling as excess luggage, your pet will be in the rear hold of the plane and must be traveling under the ticket of a human passenger. The cost of your pets travel is based on the actual (combined) weight of your pet in their crate.

 

3. What happens when my pet arrives in the country they are traveling to?

As soon as the flight arrives, your pet will be taken from the plane straight to the airport terminal.

If your pet is traveling as excess luggage, they will taken to the oversized luggage area in the arrival hall. Once you clear passport control, you will be able to collect them at the same time as your normal luggage. As you exit the airport via the ‘something to declare’ customs channel you will be asked to present your pets travel paperwork to the customs official and / or the vet on duty. 

If your pet is traveling as manifest cargo, they will be taken to the Animal Reception Centre. There, their documentation will be reviewed by the staff of the ARC to ensure all is in order. At the same time, relevant customs formalities will be completed by staff based at the arriving airport. 

 

4. How long does the travel paperwork and other travel preparations take?

This depends entirely on the location that your pet is traveling to. Your pet relocation compnay will provide you with an accurate timeline of how long the relevant preparations will take and at what point in the process the various steps must be taken.

In some cases they can get your pet ‘travel ready’ in a few days. In others it can be up to six months or more.

 

5. What vaccinations does my pet need to travel?

Regardless of where your pet is traveling, they will need certain vaccinations. The exact vaccinations they need are entirely dependent on the location they are traveling to. The one vaccination that is mandatory for every country your pet may travel to is a rabies vaccination.

Other vaccinations may also be necessary. These will be advised to you as relevant. In every situation, it is essential to keep your vaccinations current and to not miss a due date, even by one day. To do so could severely hinder your pets travel plans.

Source: Pawsome Pets UAE

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