It is never advisable to argue with a 15-year-old: it goes nowhere, and I am always defeated by a logic that is both shallow yet lovably true. This was the case when I was chatting with my friend's daughter over the phone this week, praising her maturity and the fact she is doing really well in school. I suggested that she take part in the latest online fad, The 10-Year-Challenge, with the proviso that she details her journey to becoming a gifted athlete after recovering from the physical and emotional trauma of a car accident in Abu Dhabi as a nine-year-old.
Inspirational, right? Apparently not – the idea was shot down as soon as it left my lips. “Yeah right,” she said. “The whole thing is just a beauty challenge.”
At least she could see it for what it is. And I have to admit, it made me somewhat dispirited – with social media fast becoming our dominant form of communication, it is concerning to me that it continues to appeal to our base instincts for reductive hashtag trends.
Social media is all about life's greatest hits
Over the last week, my feeds have been inundated by friends and acquaintances posting split-screen shots of portraits taken a decade apart. Almost all of the posts focused on how people have physically changed, talking about “how time just flies so fast”.
I was surprised by how enraged I was. Here were my trusted friends, some of whom went through the hell of divorce and financial ruin, reducing the great growth they have made in a decade down to a few extra wrinkles and grey hair.
Then I looked at my own social media feed: my Instagram posts, which go back to the day I joined The National eight years ago, are littered with me on trips, having coffee and going to gigs. It took me half an hour to get from the most recent Instagram post (of me posing with the latest singer I interviewed) to the first one – no wonder they said time flies.
What my posts don't mention were the long and sustained periods of doubt and struggles I experienced as a result of living abroad, or a recent diagnosis of high blood pressure due to a previously unhealthy lifestyle.
My social media channels, I came to realise, are subconsciously well curated to resemble what I can only describe as "life's greatest hits". It traced a false ageing process, both emotional and physical, as a simple straight line devoid of the curves and U-turns that are truly the seeds of my growth.
Let's do our own #10YearChallenge
This realisation made me call an Abu Dhabi friend who took part in the challenge: I asked him why he chose to post only his physical transformation – he had lost an impressive 20 kilograms – but at the same time didn't mention how he bounced back from a divorce that sent him into a long stint of depression four years ago.
He is doing well now, I reasoned, and what he learned over the decade would surely provide solace to those facing a similar challenge.
After going back and forth about it, he finally nailed down the reason why. “Because I am not with it yet man. I am happy, I am remarried and I am blessed, but I am still upset about the divorce and sometimes I still feel like I am going through it,” he said.
“Social media wants a simple story – a beginning, middle and end. For me, it was: I was fat, I trained my butt off, and now I am skinny. I posted that. Story over. You want depth, and that’s complicated.”
And it certainly is. The truth is we often age faster than we grow as human beings, and tracing the wisdom we learn from life’s cracks is an exercise so subtle and fluid that it is nearly impossible to capture in the static form of a social media challenge.
That proves that there are still some things worth talking about in person, rather than posting about online. So, let's use the weekend to meet with our loved ones and share our own real 10 Year Challenge tales over a coffee. Because growing old is easy, but growing up is harder, and is something truly worth celebrating.
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If you go
Where to stay: Courtyard by Marriott Titusville Kennedy Space Centre has unparalleled views of the Indian River. Alligators can be spotted from hotel room balconies, as can several rocket launch sites. The hotel also boasts cool space-themed decor.
When to go: Florida is best experienced during the winter months, from November to May, before the humidity kicks in.
How to get there: Emirates currently flies from Dubai to Orlando five times a week.
Ticket prices
- Golden circle - Dh995
- Floor Standing - Dh495
- Lower Bowl Platinum - Dh95
- Lower Bowl premium - Dh795
- Lower Bowl Plus - Dh695
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Test
Director: S Sashikanth
Cast: Nayanthara, Siddharth, Meera Jasmine, R Madhavan
Star rating: 2/5
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
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About Okadoc
Date started: Okadoc, 2018
Founder/CEO: Fodhil Benturquia
Based: Dubai, UAE
Sector: Healthcare
Size: (employees/revenue) 40 staff; undisclosed revenues recording “double-digit” monthly growth
Funding stage: Series B fundraising round to conclude in February
Investors: Undisclosed
Key 2013/14 UAE Motorsport dates
October 4: Round One of Rotax Max Challenge, Al Ain (karting)
October 1: 1 Round One of the inaugural UAE Desert Championship (rally)
November 1-3: Abu Dhabi Grand Prix (Formula One)
November 28-30: Dubai International Rally
January 9-11: 24Hrs of Dubai (Touring Cars / Endurance)
March 21: Round 11 of Rotax Max Challenge, Muscat, Oman (karting)
April 4-10: Abu Dhabi Desert Challenge (Endurance)
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Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
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The White Lotus: Season three
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Starring: Walton Goggins, Jason Isaacs, Natasha Rothwell
Rating: 4.5/5
Who is Mohammed Al Halbousi?
The new speaker of Iraq’s parliament Mohammed Al Halbousi is the youngest person ever to serve in the role.
The 37-year-old was born in Al Garmah in Anbar and studied civil engineering in Baghdad before going into business. His development company Al Hadeed undertook reconstruction contracts rebuilding parts of Fallujah’s infrastructure.
He entered parliament in 2014 and served as a member of the human rights and finance committees until 2017. In August last year he was appointed governor of Anbar, a role in which he has struggled to secure funding to provide services in the war-damaged province and to secure the withdrawal of Shia militias. He relinquished the post when he was sworn in as a member of parliament on September 3.
He is a member of the Al Hal Sunni-based political party and the Sunni-led Coalition of Iraqi Forces, which is Iraq’s largest Sunni alliance with 37 seats from the May 12 election.
He maintains good relations with former Prime Minister Nouri Al Maliki’s State of Law Coaliton, Hadi Al Amiri’s Badr Organisation and Iranian officials.
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In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
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COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
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In numbers
1,000 tonnes of waste collected daily:
- 800 tonnes converted into alternative fuel
- 150 tonnes to landfill
- 50 tonnes sold as scrap metal
800 tonnes of RDF replaces 500 tonnes of coal
Two conveyor lines treat more than 350,000 tonnes of waste per year
25 staff on site
