The writer pictured starting a family in Turkey, where she studied and married. Getty Images
The writer pictured starting a family in Turkey, where she studied and married. Getty Images
The writer pictured starting a family in Turkey, where she studied and married. Getty Images
The writer pictured starting a family in Turkey, where she studied and married. Getty Images

I always dreamt of raising my kids in Istanbul, but life had other plans


Kat Balleh
  • English
  • Arabic

The T1 tram line in Istanbul starts at the seaside in Kabatas, near the Besiktas football stadium, nestled between the blue shimmers of the Bosphorus and the apartment-covered hills that rise to Taksim Square.

Once you get on board the narrow tram with its large windows, it’s a slow-paced highlight reel through the city, winding along the water until it enters Istanbul’s old city. After passing from the Spice Bazaar to within sight of Topkapi Palace, Aya Sofya and the Blue Mosque, the route's remaining 15km goes deep into the vast and historic Fatih municipality.

The tram is almost always packed, but I used to jump on board at the first stop each week, nabbing a prized window seat to watch Istanbul close-up as I let my thoughts roam.

Many days were spent daydreaming on the tram travelling through Istanbul. Getty Images
Many days were spent daydreaming on the tram travelling through Istanbul. Getty Images

And one of them in particular stuck with me. Although an American, and then in my early twenties, I held on to the idea that if I had a daughter, she would some day also come to know these streets.

I would sit with her on this tram, showing her the restaurant in Sultanahmet where her father got his first job playing guitar.

Or we’d be on the 154 bus, and I could show her where to sit to catch the perfect peekaboo view of the Bosphorus descending down Sariyer’s green hills, like I used to during my term abroad at Koc University.

Or I could take her up to the top deck of the Besiktas-Kadikoy ferry, which crosses between Europe and Asia, complete with a view of the sunset splashing orange and pink over all Istanbul’s Ottoman minarets. Red Turkish tea in hand, I don’t think anyone could ever get tired of that view.

Sunsets over the water are hard to beat. Getty Images
Sunsets over the water are hard to beat. Getty Images

Adulting in Istanbul left a strange mark on me, as if I had come to truly know myself (and the world) while living there, and I’m not sure if that feeling will ever fully fade away.

I approached Istanbul with the enthusiasm of an overachieving student, fascinated by the visible history and the many cultures that left their marks on the infrastructure, the food and the language. Many joyful nights were spent watching (and sometimes joining in with) my husband's band playing into the early hours, followed by those wistful early-morning tram rides.

It's the place where I landed my first job. It's where I got married. But life has its way of moving you around.

My daughter Leyla (spelt the Turkish way) was born in Seattle, with snowy Mount Rainier visible from the hospital room. Applying for my husband's spousal visa brought me back to the US.

Life took me back to Seattle when I was pregnant with my daughter. Getty Images
Life took me back to Seattle when I was pregnant with my daughter. Getty Images

Leyla spent her first months acclimatising to the cold Seattle spring, with us lighting the fire into May to keep the house temperature baby-friendly. She felt the rain, saw the abundance of green, and slept through the early darkness of north-west winters.

We didn’t use public transport in Seattle, but we took daily walks near Puget Sound, Leyla always in a bundle, and watched the sun set over the water and behind mountain crests. She was a real Seattle girl – loved the cold, wore second-hand clothes and was notably independent even as a one-year-old.

The writer's husband and daughter in Turkey. Kat Balleh / The National
The writer's husband and daughter in Turkey. Kat Balleh / The National

Leyla is now a toddler in Abu Dhabi, where she has learnt to embrace the heat. But before we moved here I got to fulfil my dream of seeing my daughter in Istanbul.

While most dreams tend to disappoint when they become a reality, this one was enthralling. I was no longer the 20-something that traded sleep for live music, but I was still the curious history-lover who felt immense joy seeing Leyla’s tiny feet walking alongside Byzantine walls.

My husband and daughter exploring the streets of Istanbul. Kat Balleh / The National
My husband and daughter exploring the streets of Istanbul. Kat Balleh / The National

While my husband rightfully complained about pushing her stroller up cobblestone hills, for me these impracticalities were overshadowed by the kindness of strangers who helped us load her onto buses, or who showed no shyness in pinching her cheeks and telling her “mashallah”, how sweet she was. Istanbul is big, and it’s chaos, and I realise parenting there must come with a good amount of headaches, but the city will always have a part of me.

Each stage of life brings its habits and rituals and I’m appreciating the routines I’ve established here with Leyla in Abu Dhabi, where life took us next. I cherish our calm after-work canal walks or practising the Arabic she learns at school together. But it is fun to know that should the need arise, I could wake up one morning, jump on a plane with Leyla and be on a Kadikoy ferry in just a five or six hours – and back home in Abu Dhabi just the next day.

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If you go

The flights

Etihad and Emirates fly direct from the UAE to Chicago from Dh5,215 return including taxes.

The hotels

Recommended hotels include the Intercontinental Chicago Magnificent Mile, located in an iconic skyscraper complete with a 1929 Olympic-size swimming pool from US$299 (Dh1,100) per night including taxes, and the Omni Chicago Hotel, an excellent value downtown address with elegant art deco furnishings and an excellent in-house restaurant. Rooms from US$239 (Dh877) per night including taxes. 

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Hobbies: Writing and running
Favourite sport: beach volleyball
Favourite holiday destinations: Turkey and Puerto Rico​

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Camelpox

Caused by a virus related to the one that causes human smallpox, camelpox typically causes fever, swelling of lymph nodes and skin lesions in camels aged over three, but the animal usually recovers after a month or so. Younger animals may develop a more acute form that causes internal lesions and diarrhoea, and is often fatal, especially when secondary infections result. It is found across the Middle East as well as in parts of Asia, Africa, Russia and India.

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The Sand Castle

Director: Matty Brown

Stars: Nadine Labaki, Ziad Bakri, Zain Al Rafeea, Riman Al Rafeea

Rating: 2.5/5

THE BIO

Born: Mukalla, Yemen, 1979

Education: UAE University, Al Ain

Family: Married with two daughters: Asayel, 7, and Sara, 6

Favourite piece of music: Horse Dance by Naseer Shamma

Favourite book: Science and geology

Favourite place to travel to: Washington DC

Best advice you’ve ever been given: If you have a dream, you have to believe it, then you will see it.

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Opening day UAE Premiership fixtures, Friday, September 22:

  • Dubai Sports City Eagles v Dubai Exiles
  • Dubai Hurricanes v Abu Dhabi Saracens
  • Jebel Ali Dragons v Abu Dhabi Harlequins
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Director: Siva
Stars: Suriya, Bobby Deol, Disha Patani, Yogi Babu, Redin Kingsley
Rating: 2/5
 
Company profile

Company name: Suraasa

Started: 2018

Founders: Rishabh Khanna, Ankit Khanna and Sahil Makker

Based: India, UAE and the UK

Industry: EdTech

Initial investment: More than $200,000 in seed funding

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Ms Davison came to Dubai from Kerala after her marriage in 1996 when she was 21-years-old

Since 2001, Ms Davison has worked at many affordable schools such as Our Own English High School in Sharjah, and The Apple International School and Amled School in Dubai

Favourite Book: The Alchemist

Favourite quote: Failing to prepare is preparing to fail

Favourite place to Travel to: Vienna

Favourite cuisine: Italian food

Favourite Movie : Scent of a Woman

 

 

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Stars: Ajith Kumar, Arjun Sarja, Trisha Krishnan, Regina Cassandra

Rating: 4/5

 

The biog

First Job: Abu Dhabi Department of Petroleum in 1974  
Current role: Chairperson of Al Maskari Holding since 2008
Career high: Regularly cited on Forbes list of 100 most powerful Arab Businesswomen
Achievement: Helped establish Al Maskari Medical Centre in 1969 in Abu Dhabi’s Western Region
Future plan: Will now concentrate on her charitable work

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Abu Dhabi World Pro 2019 remaining schedule:

Wednesday April 24: Abu Dhabi World Professional Jiu-Jitsu Championship, 11am-6pm

Thursday April 25:  Abu Dhabi World Professional Jiu-Jitsu Championship, 11am-5pm

Friday April 26: Finals, 3-6pm

Saturday April 27: Awards ceremony, 4pm and 8pm

Seemar’s top six for the Dubai World Cup Carnival:

1. Reynaldothewizard
2. North America
3. Raven’s Corner
4. Hawkesbury
5. New Maharajah
6. Secret Ambition

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Europe’s rearming plan
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  • Engage the bloc's European Investment Bank to drop limits on lending to defence firms
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UAE squad to face Ireland

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LIGUE 1 FIXTURES

All times UAE ( 4 GMT)

Friday
Nice v Angers (9pm)
Lille v Monaco (10.45pm)

Saturday
Montpellier v Paris Saint-Germain (7pm)
Bordeaux v Guingamp (10pm)
Caen v Amiens (10pm)
Lyon v Dijon (10pm)
Metz v Troyes (10pm)

Sunday
Saint-Etienne v Rennes (5pm)
Strasbourg v Nantes (7pm)
Marseille v Toulouse (11pm)

Updated: October 19, 2025, 6:42 PM