My other half, my built-in best friend and little sister, is finally graduating. I say “little”, but she’s not so little any more.
Whenever friends at work ask about her, I always refer to her as my “little sister”. Then one day, someone asked her age, and I said, “Oh, she’s only four years younger than me”. The look of surprise on their face, I will never forget it.
But the truth is, no matter how old she is, she will always be little to me.
I told her I was writing a column about her, something to reflect on our best memories, and as a gift for her graduation – although it has since been made clear she was expecting a trip! As I sit here writing and reflecting on our memories, I am choking up.
Every chapter of our lives holds its own special memories. Her favourite? The times I dragged her along to my basketball practices or hangouts with my friends, just so she wouldn’t be alone at home. Why did I do that? Simple. If I was going to have fun, she had to have fun too. If I ate, she ate. I never made plans without considering how it would fit both of us.
That’s how Hooyo (Mum, in Somali) raised us, to be joined at the hip.
Our childhood wasn’t always sunshine and giggles though. There were hair-pulling fights and plenty of moments that ended with Hooyo shouting at me to act like the eldest and be the role model. Back then, I didn’t fully understand what that meant. But now, seeing her grow into a person who is strong, grounded and full of purpose, I hope something in the way I lived helped shape the woman she is becoming.
I don’t have many motivators in life, except Allah, our mother and my sister. I rarely say it out loud, but I’ve learnt so much from her. Her bravery, for one, always inspires me. I remember going to Wild Wadi in Dubai. She fearlessly tried every ride and dragged me along. She gave me confidence, made me leap even when I doubted her judgment.
I think of those moments now as I watch her leap into this next chapter.
I clearly remember the day she packed her bag for university, four years ago. I cried alone. Watching her go was one of the proudest, hardest moments of my life because we had envisioned that moment so many times. I promised I would make sure she got to university, that I would do whatever it took. And I did.
In that moment, she wasn’t my baby sister any more. She was stepping into a world that is both beautiful and brutal. And I worried: would she hold her own, when I wasn’t there to protect her?
It was very clear that she was going to be OK. One of the first signs was a disagreement with friends. When she told me the story, I realised I wasn’t talking to the little Sumaya, who would once run to me in tears. I was speaking to a calm, thoughtful young woman who knew how to carry herself.
Another was the time her manager yelled at her at her part-time job. She told me the story calmly. I gave her big sister advice: hold your ground, do the right thing. But inside, I was livid. If I could have phoned her manager, I would have. But my sister didn’t need me to.
That’s the beauty of watching her grow, knowing she can navigate life with strength and grace.
Her graduation is so much more than a degree. It’s a full-circle moment, a chapter closing with pride and another opening with promise.
The sleepless nights, dragging me out after work for painting and photoshoots, sewing looks for her dream of becoming a fashion designer, they are behind us now. But what lies ahead is even more exciting. And I’m endlessly proud. Not just for what she has accomplished, but for who she is.
I’ll never forget her first runway show. To say I was proud is an understatement. I reached for my phone instantly, like a parent desperate to capture every second. I could hardly believe my eyes.
When Hooyo was out working, I slipped into the role of second mum without even realising it. I was the one shaping bits of her world, teaching her things in my own quiet ways. Like letting her figure things out by herself, even when I knew the answer, just so she would learn to trust herself. It might have felt frustrating then, but it was my way of helping her grow into someone confident and capable.
She has now grown into a woman I deeply admire. And no matter where life takes her, you will always be my little sister, the heart I carry outside of myself.
ELIO
Starring: Yonas Kibreab, Zoe Saldana, Brad Garrett
Directors: Madeline Sharafian, Domee Shi, Adrian Molina
Rating: 4/5
Fund-raising tips for start-ups
Develop an innovative business concept
Have the ability to differentiate yourself from competitors
Put in place a business continuity plan after Covid-19
Prepare for the worst-case scenario (further lockdowns, long wait for a vaccine, etc.)
Have enough cash to stay afloat for the next 12 to 18 months
Be creative and innovative to reduce expenses
Be prepared to use Covid-19 as an opportunity for your business
* Tips from Jassim Al Marzooqi and Walid Hanna
Fixtures and results:
Wed, Aug 29:
- Malaysia bt Hong Kong by 3 wickets
- Oman bt Nepal by 7 wickets
- UAE bt Singapore by 215 runs
Thu, Aug 30: UAE v Nepal; Hong Kong v Singapore; Malaysia v Oman
Sat, Sep 1: UAE v Hong Kong; Oman v Singapore; Malaysia v Nepal
Sun, Sep 2: Hong Kong v Oman; Malaysia v UAE; Nepal v Singapore
Tue, Sep 4: Malaysia v Singapore; UAE v Oman; Nepal v Hong Kong
Thu, Sep 6: Final
RESULTS
5pm: Wathba Stallions Cup – Handicap (PA) Dh70,000 (Turf) 2,200m
Winner: M'A Yaromoon, Jesus Rosales (jockey), Khalifa Al Neydai (trainer)
5.30pm: Khor Al Baghal – Conditions (PA) Dh80,000 (T) 1,600m
Winner: No Riesgo Al Maury, Antonio Fresu, Ibrahim Al Hadhrami
6pm: Khor Faridah – Handicap (PA) Dh80,000 (T) 1,600m
Winner: JAP Almahfuz, Royston Ffrench, Irfan Ellahi
6.30pm: Abu Dhabi Fillies Classic – Prestige (PA) Dh110,000 (T) 1,400m
Winner: Mahmouda, Pat Cosgrave, Abdallah Al Hammadi
7pm: Abu Dhabi Colts Classic – Prestige (PA) Dh110,000 (T) 1,400m
Winner: AS Jezan, George Buckell, Ahmed Al Mehairbi
7.30pm: Khor Laffam – Handicap (TB) Dh80,000 (T) 2,200m
Winner: Dolman, Antonio Fresu, Bhupath Seemar
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
Fire and Fury
By Michael Wolff,
Henry Holt
Super Saturday results
4pm: Mahab Al Shimaal Group 3 | US$350,000 | (Dirt) | 1,200m
Winner: Drafted, Pat Dobbs (jockey), Doug Watson (trainer).
4.35pm: Al Bastakiya Listed | $300,000 | (D) | 1,900m
Winner: Divine Image, Brett Doyle, Charlie Appleby.
5.10pm: Nad Al Sheba Turf Group 3 | $350,000 | (Turf) | 1,200m
Winner: Blue Point, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.
5.45pm: Burj Nahaar Group 3 | $350,000 | (D) | 1,600m
Winner: Muntazah, Jim Crowley, Doug Watson.
6.20pm: Dubai City of Gold Group 2 | $300,000 | (T) | 2,410m
Winner: Old Persian, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.
6.55pm: Al Maktoum Challenge Round 3 Group 1 | $600,000 | (D) | 2,000m
Winner: Capezzano, Mickael Barzalona, Salem bin Ghadayer.
7.30pm: Jebel Hatta Group 1 | $400,000 | (T) | 1,800m
Winner: Dream Castle, Christophe Soumillon, Saeed bin Suroor.
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MATCH INFO
Everton 2 (Tosun 9', Doucoure 93')
Rotherham United 1 (Olosunde 56')
Man of the Match Olosunde (Rotherham)
The specs
- Engine: 3.9-litre twin-turbo V8
- Power: 640hp
- Torque: 760nm
- On sale: 2026
- Price: Not announced yet
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Key facilities
- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
How being social media savvy can improve your well being
Next time when procastinating online remember that you can save thousands on paying for a personal trainer and a gym membership simply by watching YouTube videos and keeping up with the latest health tips and trends.
As social media apps are becoming more and more consumed by health experts and nutritionists who are using it to awareness and encourage patients to engage in physical activity.
Elizabeth Watson, a personal trainer from Stay Fit gym in Abu Dhabi suggests that “individuals can use social media as a means of keeping fit, there are a lot of great exercises you can do and train from experts at home just by watching videos on YouTube”.
Norlyn Torrena, a clinical nutritionist from Burjeel Hospital advises her clients to be more technologically active “most of my clients are so engaged with their phones that I advise them to download applications that offer health related services”.
Torrena said that “most people believe that dieting and keeping fit is boring”.
However, by using social media apps keeping fit means that people are “modern and are kept up to date with the latest heath tips and trends”.
“It can be a guide to a healthy lifestyle and exercise if used in the correct way, so I really encourage my clients to download health applications” said Mrs Torrena.
People can also connect with each other and exchange “tips and notes, it’s extremely healthy and fun”.
Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
WWE Evolution results
- Trish Stratus and Lita beat Alicia Fox and Mickie James in a tag match
- Nia Jax won a battle royal, eliminating Ember Moon last to win
- Toni Storm beat Io Shirai to win the Mae Young Classic
- Natalya, Sasha Banks and Bayley beat The Riott Squad in a six-woman tag match
- Shayna Baszler won the NXT Women’s title by defeating Kairi Sane
- Becky Lynch retained the SmackDown Women’s Championship against Charlotte Flair in a Last Woman Standing match
- Ronda Rousey retained the Raw Women’s title by beating Nikki Bella
MATCH INFO
Manchester United 1 (Rashford 36')
Liverpool 1 (Lallana 84')
Man of the match: Marcus Rashford (Manchester United)
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Short-term let permits explained
Homeowners and tenants are allowed to list their properties for rental by registering through the Dubai Tourism website to obtain a permit.
Tenants also require a letter of no objection from their landlord before being allowed to list the property.
There is a cost of Dh1,590 before starting the process, with an additional licence fee of Dh300 per bedroom being rented in your home for the duration of the rental, which ranges from three months to a year.
Anyone hoping to list a property for rental must also provide a copy of their title deeds and Ejari, as well as their Emirates ID.
What are the GCSE grade equivalents?
- Grade 9 = above an A*
- Grade 8 = between grades A* and A
- Grade 7 = grade A
- Grade 6 = just above a grade B
- Grade 5 = between grades B and C
- Grade 4 = grade C
- Grade 3 = between grades D and E
- Grade 2 = between grades E and F
- Grade 1 = between grades F and G
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The National's picks
4.35pm: Tilal Al Khalediah
5.10pm: Continous
5.45pm: Raging Torrent
6.20pm: West Acre
7pm: Flood Zone
7.40pm: Straight No Chaser
8.15pm: Romantic Warrior
8.50pm: Calandogan
9.30pm: Forever Young
F1 The Movie
Starring: Brad Pitt, Damson Idris, Kerry Condon, Javier Bardem
Director: Joseph Kosinski
Rating: 4/5
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