Financial planning for our child's future helps husband sleep at night



Early on in my first trimester, Mr T came home with a book.

My husband is no bookworm, and prefers reading to-the-point articles on the internet over burying himself in a novel. My biggest regret is that I have not been able to introduce him to the pleasures of getting lost in the written word. It is not for lack of trying, but alas, my powers over him only go so far.

To have him walk into our apartment cradling a package from Magrudy's seemed momentous. I hadn't sent him out on any book-buying errands. Is it possible he went of his own accord?

In the paper shopping bag, a distinctive black-and-purple cover stared back at me, the letters a bright yellow. Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad, Poor Dad is the first book I have ever seen Mr T buy for himself.

"What's this?" I asked, confused. "Did someone give you this?"

He seemed slightly insulted. "I bought it. I wanted to read it."

Read it? My husband? Whatever for?

"I think it's about what rich fathers say to their kids, so the kid ends up rich and successful too," he said, straight-faced. "I have to figure out what to say to the kid, don't I?"

"The kid" he's referring to happens to be my 20-week-old unborn child and, apparently, we have already established that said child is going to be rich.

I dismissed the event as one of my husband's occasional quirky moments, better left unanalysed.

I should have known better, especially when he began tracking our expenses on his iPhone and talking to me about "budgeting apps".

A mere two weeks after that, he left work early one day to rush to a bank he had been researching extensively in order to open a savings account.

"It's about time; we should really have an account dedicated only to savings," he preached.

A few weeks ago, the pieces finally began to fall into place when I was informed, via email, that he would be a little late coming home from work one day.

"I have a meeting with a wealth management consultant," read the email. "It's about financial planning." Before I knew it, our conversations were riddled with phrases such as "life insurance" and "long-term savings" and "investments". In the evenings, instead of joining me on our trusty couch, Mr T can usually be found at the dining table, surrounded by papers covered with a lot of numbers, calculator in hand.

Suddenly, my husband was no longer nonchalant about my tendency to keep Balenciaga, Jimmy Choo and Prada in business.

"Do you have any idea how much we're going to spend on nappies for just that one kid?" he would ask me, time and time again.

In response, I'd beg him not to worry.

"Worried? Who's worried? I'm not worried. I've been meaning to meet with a wealth management consultant for ages. I just finally have the time, that's all."

Whatever helps him sleep at night.

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Dr Afridi's warning signs of digital addiction

Spending an excessive amount of time on the phone.

Neglecting personal, social, or academic responsibilities.

Losing interest in other activities or hobbies that were once enjoyed.

Having withdrawal symptoms like feeling anxious, restless, or upset when the technology is not available.

Experiencing sleep disturbances or changes in sleep patterns.

What are the guidelines?

Under 18 months: Avoid screen time altogether, except for video chatting with family.

Aged 18-24 months: If screens are introduced, it should be high-quality content watched with a caregiver to help the child understand what they are seeing.

Aged 2-5 years: Limit to one-hour per day of high-quality programming, with co-viewing whenever possible.

Aged 6-12 years: Set consistent limits on screen time to ensure it does not interfere with sleep, physical activity, or social interactions.

Teenagers: Encourage a balanced approach – screens should not replace sleep, exercise, or face-to-face socialisation.

Source: American Paediatric Association
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A foster couple or family must:

  • be Muslim, Emirati and be residing in the UAE
  • not be younger than 25 years old
  • not have been convicted of offences or crimes involving moral turpitude
  • be free of infectious diseases or psychological and mental disorders
  • have the ability to support its members and the foster child financially
  • undertake to treat and raise the child in a proper manner and take care of his or her health and well-being
  • A single, divorced or widowed Muslim Emirati female, residing in the UAE may apply to foster a child if she is at least 30 years old and able to support the child financially
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Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year

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TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013 

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Dos

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  • Always ask for the dress code if you don’t know
  • Wear a white kandura, white ghutra / shemagh (headwear) and black shoes for work 
  • Wear 100 per cent cotton under the kandura as most fabrics are polyester

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Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.

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Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.

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