My son and I are creating our very own adventure book. A sort of scrapbook where we're writing down where we want to travel to, sticking in photographs of the places, including maps, writing bits of information - and a target date. I love that my little one is very keen on exploring new countries and the big outdoors, so what better way to get him to think about money, and be actively involved in decision-making, as well as plan for the future?
He already knows that we have to save money to pay for these excursions, and that he needs to think about what he wants versus what he needs; when he says he wants a toy (gifts are generally limited to special occasions), we have a chat about whether he'd rather have the toy, or his much awaited trip to Sri Lanka early next year - so far he's chosen the trip every time.
In fact, he's taken it to another level: just last week, on the back of buying much-needed socks and shoes, he suddenly asked, on the way to the car, whether the money we'd just spent meant less money for Sri Lanka. How wonderful. It means that he's processing information, and is figuring out how decision-making and spending habits affect what we can do with our lives.
We had a discussion about how there are some things that we need to spend money on, and yes it means less money for the holiday fund, but that it's fine, and that it's the other stuff that we need to look at, the stuff we don't really need, and sure, sometimes we want to give ourselves a treat - and that's fine too. All very complicated really - I know many adults who are struggling with these concepts and decisions.
Who wouldn't want to truly provide for their child and make them happy? The way we go about this, and what our behaviour translates into in terms of how our children view, feel about and use money is the really important thing. Why? Because this will become their blueprint for money and life - at least for their first few decades.
I'm increasingly concerned about how parents believe they are setting their children up for life by leaving them money. There are even policies out there that can create immense wealth - millions of dollars - upon the death of the parent. Put simply, these are life insurance policies where the payout can be in the tens, if not hundreds, of millions of dollars. Sounds like an amazing gift to leave your children doesn't it?
I believe one of the biggest gifts we can give our children is the ability to manage their money, and for them to have a great, positive emotional relationship with it.
This needs to include their view on life, and honouring their decisions, decisions that they'd ideally arrive at after knowing, and understanding, in their own special way, the facts and the consequences.
You see, we cannot truly ensure that our children will not lack for anything financially, even if we take out a life policy that leaves them with millions. Let us not forget the ongoing ramifications of the credit crunch where people and families have lost everything, or situations where a sudden onset of debilitating illness or death changes dreams and plans overnight.
And even if you did manage to leave your progeny with a bundle of cash, what's to say they won't fritter it away? The media is full of stories of sporting heroes, pop stars and lottery winners who, having scooped up millions, are destitute because of reckless spending, mismanagement of money, or bad decisions.
We cannot guarantee how long we will remain fit and healthy, or how much time we have on the planet. So instead of hoping for the best, get real and plan for the worst, and give your child the gift of respecting money and learning how to best use it.
My son is six, and so far we have Antarctica, Madagascar, Sri Lanka and an annual ski holiday in our adventure book. I hope we get to experience these places, and many more, together. But even if all our planned adventures don't become reality, we'll have had a great journey on the way, secure in the knowledge that he'll be in an excellent position to embark on whatever life experience he puts his mind to.
Nima Abu Wardeh is the founder of the personal finance website www.cashy.me. You can contact her at nima@cashy.me
NO OTHER LAND
Director: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham, Rachel Szor, Hamdan Ballal
Stars: Basel Adra, Yuval Abraham
Rating: 3.5/5
The finalists
Player of the Century, 2001-2020: Cristiano Ronaldo (Juventus), Lionel Messi (Barcelona), Mohamed Salah (Liverpool), Ronaldinho
Coach of the Century, 2001-2020: Pep Guardiola (Manchester City), Jose Mourinho (Tottenham Hotspur), Zinedine Zidane (Real Madrid), Sir Alex Ferguson
Club of the Century, 2001-2020: Al Ahly (Egypt), Bayern Munich (Germany), Barcelona (Spain), Real Madrid (Spain)
Player of the Year: Cristiano Ronaldo, Lionel Messi, Robert Lewandowski (Bayern Munich)
Club of the Year: Bayern Munich, Liverpool, Real Madrid
Coach of the Year: Gian Piero Gasperini (Atalanta), Hans-Dieter Flick (Bayern Munich), Jurgen Klopp (Liverpool)
Agent of the Century, 2001-2020: Giovanni Branchini, Jorge Mendes, Mino Raiola
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
Crazy Rich Asians
Director: Jon M Chu
Starring: Constance Wu, Henry Golding, Michelle Yeon, Gemma Chan
Four stars
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Ms Yang's top tips for parents new to the UAE
- Join parent networks
- Look beyond school fees
- Keep an open mind
Honeymoonish
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In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
THE SIXTH SENSE
Starring: Bruce Willis, Toni Collette, Hayley Joel Osment
Director: M. Night Shyamalan
Rating: 5/5
Key facilities
- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
World Cup warm-up fixtures
Friday, May 24:
- Pakistan v Afghanistan (Bristol)
- Sri Lanka v South Africa (Cardiff)
Saturday, May 25
- England v Australia (Southampton)
- India v New Zealand (The Oval, London)
Sunday, May 26
- South Africa v West Indies (Bristol)
- Pakistan v Bangladesh (Cardiff)
Monday, May 27
- Australia v Sri Lanka (Southampton)
- England v Afghanistan (The Oval, London)
Tuesday, May 28
- West Indies v New Zealand (Bristol)
- Bangladesh v India (Cardiff)
The biog
DOB: March 13, 1987
Place of birth: Jeddah, Saudi Arabia but lived in Virginia in the US and raised in Lebanon
School: ACS in Lebanon
University: BSA in Graphic Design at the American University of Beirut
MSA in Design Entrepreneurship at the School of Visual Arts in New York City
Nationality: Lebanese
Status: Single
Favourite thing to do: I really enjoy cycling, I was a participant in Cycling for Gaza for the second time this year
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Libya's Gold
UN Panel of Experts found regime secretly sold a fifth of the country's gold reserves.
The panel’s 2017 report followed a trail to West Africa where large sums of cash and gold were hidden by Abdullah Al Senussi, Qaddafi’s former intelligence chief, in 2011.
Cases filled with cash that was said to amount to $560m in 100 dollar notes, that was kept by a group of Libyans in Ouagadougou, Burkina Faso.
A second stash was said to have been held in Accra, Ghana, inside boxes at the local offices of an international human rights organisation based in France.
