In his early 20s, Chris Chen’s nephew dreamt of becoming a professional photographer, but to pursue that dream, he needed equipment that cost more than $5,000.
Mr Chen's nephew worked hard to save $1,500, then his maternal grandmother provided an additional $750. Mr Chen, a certified financial planner from Massachusetts, covered the rest.
“It helped him understand the value of money,” Mr Chen says of his nephew, who now earns his living as a photographer.
Grandparents – and other family members – often have the best intentions when it comes to helping their grandchildren financially, but experts say they don’t always know how best to do so and can accidentally hurt their own finances along the way.
Financial advisers recommend following these steps whenever you’re giving grandchildren a financial gift, whether big or small.
1. Protect your own finances
“The first question is, ‘Can you afford to help your grandchildren, and how much?’” says Lorraine Ell, chief executive and co-founder at Better Money Decisions, a national wealth management firm.
Checking your own retirement funds and overall financial security can help ensure that you’re in a position to give, she says.
Grandparents, Ms Ell says, are often compelled to “over give” out of love, but doing so in moderation instead can ensure your generosity is affordable.
Katie Lindquist, a certified financial planner in Wisconsin and owner of Lindenwood Financial, cautions against co-signing loans for grandchildren, which can put your own credit on the line.
“There are other ways to help, such as giving part of a down payment, that can help them without actually co-signing on the loan,” she says.
2. Talk to the parents before giving a gift
Before giving a financial gift to a grandchild, Ms Lindquist recommends discussing the idea with their parents.
“Make sure everyone is clear on the plan. You can figure out what accounts they already have and what their needs are,” she says.
If you’re giving cash, she adds, you might want to ask the parents to help the child keep it safe or direct the money to a specific savings account or purchase.
Still, Ms Lindquist adds it’s worth recognising that once you give the gift, “you can’t control what they spend it on”.
In some cases, parents might not want their children receiving money, says Trent Porter, chief executive at Priority Financial Partners in Colorado.
“Grandparents can become a piggy bank,” he says, where they end up enabling overspending.
It’s also essential to treat grandchildren fairly, he adds, even if unique needs require differing forms of financial help, such as contributing to a wedding for one and a travel opportunity for another.
3. Also discuss money openly with grandchildren
At the same time, it’s also worth setting clear expectations with your grandchildren, Mr Porter says.
“Be as specific as you can reasonably be: ‘We will give you x number of dollars for tuition’, instead of, ‘If you need help, here is a blank check’,” he says.
The first question is, Can you afford to help your grandchildren, and how much?
Lorraine Ell,
chief executive and co-founder at Better Money Decisions
When you’re giving money, it’s also a good time to talk about financial topics such as budgeting and saving, Mr Porter says.
“Communicating about those things gives them a huge advantage because most kids leave high school and have no idea,” he says.
Susan Greenhalgh, a financial coach and president of Mind Your Money, which provides financial coaching and workshops, says grandchildren are watching and observing your behaviour closely, and modelling healthy financial behaviour can be beneficial to them.
“Every conversation you have about money in their presence will become their money mindset, so you want to be careful about how you’re showing up for them,” she says.
Giving to charity can also be part of that conversation, she says.
“One grandparent I know wrote a note to his grandchildren every year at the holidays saying he would make a donation in their name to a favourite charity. It’s a beautiful thing to pass on,” Ms Greenhalgh says.
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Israel Palestine on Swedish TV 1958-1989
Director: Goran Hugo Olsson
Rating: 5/5
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THE BIO
Born: Mukalla, Yemen, 1979
Education: UAE University, Al Ain
Family: Married with two daughters: Asayel, 7, and Sara, 6
Favourite piece of music: Horse Dance by Naseer Shamma
Favourite book: Science and geology
Favourite place to travel to: Washington DC
Best advice you’ve ever been given: If you have a dream, you have to believe it, then you will see it.
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Catchweight 63.5kg: Shakriyor Juraev (UZB) beat Bahez Khoshnaw (IRQ). Round 3 TKO (body kick)
Lightweight: Nart Abida (JOR) beat Moussa Salih (MAR). Round 1 by rear naked choke
Catchweight 79kg: Laid Zerhouni (ALG) beat Ahmed Saeb (IRQ). Round 1 TKO (punches)
Catchweight 58kg: Omar Al Hussaini (UAE) beat Mohamed Sahabdeen (SLA) Round 1 rear naked choke
Flyweight: Lina Fayyad (JOR) beat Sophia Haddouche (ALG) Round 2 TKO (ground and pound)
Catchweight 80kg: Badreddine Diani (MAR) beat Sofiane Aïssaoui (ALG) Round 2 TKO
Flyweight: Sabriye Sengul (TUR) beat Mona Ftouhi (TUN). Unanimous decision
Middleweight: Kher Khalifa Eshoushan (LIB) beat Essa Basem (JOR). Round 1 rear naked choke
Heavyweight: Mohamed Jumaa (SUD) beat Hassen Rahat (MAR). Round 1 TKO (ground and pound)
Lightweight: Abdullah Mohammad Ali Musalim (UAE beat Omar Emad (EGY). Round 1 triangle choke
Catchweight 62kg: Ali Taleb (IRQ) beat Mohamed El Mesbahi (MAR). Round 2 KO
Catchweight 88kg: Mohamad Osseili (LEB) beat Samir Zaidi (COM). Unanimous decision
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The White Lotus: Season three
Creator: Mike White
Starring: Walton Goggins, Jason Isaacs, Natasha Rothwell
Rating: 4.5/5
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The Bio
Hometown: Bogota, Colombia
Favourite place to relax in UAE: the desert around Al Mleiha in Sharjah or the eastern mangroves in Abu Dhabi
The one book everyone should read: 100 Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. It will make your mind fly
Favourite documentary: Chasing Coral by Jeff Orlowski. It's a good reality check about one of the most valued ecosystems for humanity
Awar Qalb
Director: Jamal Salem
Starring: Abdulla Zaid, Joma Ali, Neven Madi and Khadija Sleiman
Two stars
Graduated from the American University of Sharjah
She is the eldest of three brothers and two sisters
Has helped solve 15 cases of electric shocks
Enjoys travelling, reading and horse riding
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Cast: Vicky Kaushal, Akshaye Khanna, Diana Penty, Vineet Kumar Singh, Rashmika Mandanna
Rating: 1/5
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Cast: Loujain Adada, Zeina Khoury, Farhana Bodi, Ebraheem Al Samadi, Mona Kattan, and couples Safa & Fahad Siddiqui and DJ Bliss & Danya Mohammed
Rating: 1/5
TEAMS
EUROPE:
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USA:
Brooks Koepka, Justin Thomas, Dustin Johnson, Patrick Reed, Bubba Watson, Jordan Spieth, Rickie Fowler, Webb Simpson, Tiger Woods, Phil Mickelson, Bryson DeChambeau ( 1 TBC)
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David Haye record
Total fights: 32
Wins: 28
Wins by KO: 26
Losses: 4
Pad Man
Dir: R Balki
Starring: Akshay Kumar, Sonam Kapoor, Radhika Apte
Three-and-a-half stars
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Babumoshai Bandookbaaz
Director: Kushan Nandy
Starring: Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Bidita Bag, Jatin Goswami
Three stars
Notable salonnières of the Middle East through history
Al Khasan (Okaz, Saudi Arabia)
Tamadir bint Amr Al Harith, known simply as Al Khasan, was a poet from Najd famed for elegies, earning great renown for the eulogy of her brothers Mu’awiyah and Sakhr, both killed in tribal wars. Although not a salonnière, this prestigious 7th century poet fostered a culture of literary criticism and could be found standing in the souq of Okaz and reciting her poetry, publicly pronouncing her views and inviting others to join in the debate on scholarship. She later converted to Islam.
Maryana Marrash (Aleppo)
A poet and writer, Marrash helped revive the tradition of the salon and was an active part of the Nadha movement, or Arab Renaissance. Born to an established family in Aleppo in Ottoman Syria in 1848, Marrash was educated at missionary schools in Aleppo and Beirut at a time when many women did not receive an education. After touring Europe, she began to host salons where writers played chess and cards, competed in the art of poetry, and discussed literature and politics. An accomplished singer and canon player, music and dancing were a part of these evenings.
Princess Nazil Fadil (Cairo)
Princess Nazil Fadil gathered religious, literary and political elite together at her Cairo palace, although she stopped short of inviting women. The princess, a niece of Khedive Ismail, believed that Egypt’s situation could only be solved through education and she donated her own property to help fund the first modern Egyptian University in Cairo.
Mayy Ziyadah (Cairo)
Ziyadah was the first to entertain both men and women at her Cairo salon, founded in 1913. The writer, poet, public speaker and critic, her writing explored language, religious identity, language, nationalism and hierarchy. Born in Nazareth, Palestine, to a Lebanese father and Palestinian mother, her salon was open to different social classes and earned comparisons with souq of where Al Khansa herself once recited.
MATCH INFO
Pakistan 106-8 (20 ovs)
Iftikhar 45, Richardson 3-18
Australia 109-0 (11.5 ovs)
Warner 48 no, Finch 52 no
Australia win series 2-0
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Uefa Nations League
League A, Group 4
Spain v England, 10.45pm (UAE)
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THE BIO
Favourite car: Koenigsegg Agera RS or Renault Trezor concept car.
Favourite book: I Am Pilgrim by Terry Hayes or Red Notice by Bill Browder.
Biggest inspiration: My husband Nik. He really got me through a lot with his positivity.
Favourite holiday destination: Being at home in Australia, as I travel all over the world for work. It’s great to just hang out with my husband and family.
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