What’s important to you about money? This can be an uncomfortable question because we are not used to really thinking about money often.
The purpose of this question isn’t to think about goals. It’s to go deeper, to get at the reason for why you have certain goals.
Roy Disney, Walt Disney’s brother, and the former Disney chief executive, once said: “When your values are clear, your decisions are easy.”
Knowing what drives your financial decisions can help you reach smarter financial goals, live healthier and improve well-being, experts say.
“We all have these beliefs clunking around in our heads and for many of us, they’ve been passed down from our parents,” says Dr Brad Klontz, a financial psychologist at Creighton University, in the US.
These internal beliefs are formed by your childhood experiences, the community you grew up in and the habits of those around you.
Mr Klontz identified four common attitudes towards money: money worship, money avoidance, money vigilance and money status.
Do you worry about money despite having a steady income and a healthy retirement fund? You may be “money vigilant”. Do you believe money can solve all your problems? You could be a “money worshipper”.
Recognising your own money personality is the first step towards improving your financial health.
Money worship
Money worshippers believe more money will solve their problems and you can never have enough of it. You are more likely to overspend and carry debt. Money worship is the most common personality.
Takeaway: If you’re a money worshipper, you can control your spending by creating a budget, a financial plan and learning about the different ways to pay off debt.
Internal beliefs [about money] are formed by your childhood experiences, the community you grew up in and the habits of those around you
Sam Instone,
AES
Money avoidance
Avoiders believe money is bad and they do not deserve it. They may ignore their finances and avoid thinking about them. They may also give away money to others so they don’t have it.
Takeaway: One option if you’re an avoider is to automate your finances – sending money to a separate savings or investment account, for example. Loved ones can help hold you accountable to those tasks.
Money vigilance
Those who are vigilant believe being frugal and saving are important. They may be secretive about their finances, highly defensive of their beliefs and uncomfortable discussing their money feelings and experiences with others.
Takeaway: Talk to as many people as you can. If you’re uncomfortable talking to family or friends but have money questions, join an online community to learn from others. Realise that people who make different financial decisions to you are not always crazy. Decrease your judgement and increase your awareness.
Money status
People who hold this belief see money as a means to achieving a higher status. They believe self-worth is equal to net worth and may be driven to earn more money than their peers. They may also take risks to make money quickly and buy expensive things.
Takeaway: If you hold this belief, give yourself a cooling-off period before making a purchase. You can also make a budget – and stick to it – to avoid overspending. Make the most of your cash. Track all your spending to understand your trends and spot opportunities to save money.
So, what’s important to you about money?
The first answer many people come up with are usually around security and freedom. But once we pause and think, we can move deeper into the “why” of money. This question faces some inconsistencies in our lives. Let me give you an example.
My friend, who we’ll call Adam, was a top professional whose career required him to be super competitive. He was “type A” to the hilt and worked long hours.
So when I talked to Adam and his wife and asked him this question, I was curious about his response. “Freedom,” Adam said, almost instantly. When I asked what freedom meant, he replied: “More time.”
I said: “Okay, let’s pretend you’re there. Let’s say you have more time. What’s so important about being at that spot?” With some emotion, he said: “I want the time to be with family.”
Bingo. Adam shared he is actually a “vigilant family steward” not a “hard-nosed” lawyer.
Now, don’t get caught up on Adam’s specific answer. His values are his own, yours may be completely different. But keep in mind that once you identify how you think and what’s most important to you, things get clearer.
Being able to answer this question gives you a lens through which to view your financial decisions.
The ultimate value of education is about learning to make better decisions. And after you’ve identified what’s most important, you’ll have incredibly useful information to help you make the best decisions to match your values.
In fact, it can even make it easy to say no to things that distract you from what’s important.
After all, personal finance is more personal than it is finance.
Sam Instone is co-chief executive of wealth management company AES
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BUNDESLIGA FIXTURES
Saturday, May 16 (kick-offs UAE time)
Borussia Dortmund v Schalke (4.30pm)
RB Leipzig v Freiburg (4.30pm)
Hoffenheim v Hertha Berlin (4.30pm)
Fortuna Dusseldorf v Paderborn (4.30pm)
Augsburg v Wolfsburg (4.30pm)
Eintracht Frankfurt v Borussia Monchengladbach (7.30pm)
Sunday, May 17
Cologne v Mainz (4.30pm),
Union Berlin v Bayern Munich (7pm)
Monday, May 18
Werder Bremen v Bayer Leverkusen (9.30pm)
Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
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Applicants should send their completed applications - CV, covering letter, sample(s) of your work, letter of recommendation - to Nick March, Assistant Editor in Chief at The National and UAE programme administrator for the Rosalynn Carter Fellowships for Mental Health Journalism, by 5pm on April 30, 2020.
Please send applications to nmarch@thenational.ae and please mark the subject line as “Rosalynn Carter Fellowship for Mental Health Journalism (UAE programme application)”.
The local advisory board will consider all applications and will interview a short list of candidates in Abu Dhabi in June 2020. Successful candidates will be informed before July 30, 2020.
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Directors: Madeline Sharafian, Domee Shi, Adrian Molina
Rating: 4/5
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Tearful appearance
Chancellor Rachel Reeves set markets on edge as she appeared visibly distraught in parliament on Wednesday.
Legislative setbacks for the government have blown a new hole in the budgetary calculations at a time when the deficit is stubbornly large and the economy is struggling to grow.
She appeared with Keir Starmer on Thursday and the pair embraced, but he had failed to give her his backing as she cried a day earlier.
A spokesman said her upset demeanour was due to a personal matter.
Indoor cricket in a nutshell
Indoor Cricket World Cup - Sept 16-20, Insportz, Dubai
16 Indoor cricket matches are 16 overs per side
8 There are eight players per team
9 There have been nine Indoor Cricket World Cups for men. Australia have won every one.
5 Five runs are deducted from the score when a wickets falls
4 Batsmen bat in pairs, facing four overs per partnership
Scoring In indoor cricket, runs are scored by way of both physical and bonus runs. Physical runs are scored by both batsmen completing a run from one crease to the other. Bonus runs are scored when the ball hits a net in different zones, but only when at least one physical run is score.
Zones
A Front net, behind the striker and wicketkeeper: 0 runs
B Side nets, between the striker and halfway down the pitch: 1 run
C Side nets between halfway and the bowlers end: 2 runs
D Back net: 4 runs on the bounce, 6 runs on the full
AGUERO'S PREMIER LEAGUE RECORD
Apps: 186
Goals: 127
Assists: 31
Wins: 117
Losses: 33
match info
Southampton 2 (Ings 32' & pen 89') Tottenham Hotspur 5 (Son 45', 47', 64', & 73', Kane 82')
Man of the match Son Heung-min (Tottenham)
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Volvo ES90 Specs
Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)
Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp
Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm
On sale: Later in 2025 or early 2026, depending on region
Price: Exact regional pricing TBA
RESULTS
Bantamweight title:
Vinicius de Oliveira (BRA) bt Xavier Alaoui (MAR)
(KO round 2)
Catchweight 68kg:
Sean Soriano (USA) bt Noad Lahat (ISR)
(TKO round 1)
Middleweight:
Denis Tiuliulin (RUS) bt Juscelino Ferreira (BRA)
(TKO round 1)
Lightweight:
Anas Siraj Mounir (MAR) bt Joachim Tollefsen (DEN)
(Unanimous decision)
Catchweight 68kg:
Austin Arnett (USA) bt Daniel Vega (MEX)
(TKO round 3)
Lightweight:
Carrington Banks (USA) bt Marcio Andrade (BRA)
(Unanimous decision)
Catchweight 58kg:
Corinne Laframboise (CAN) bt Malin Hermansson (SWE)
(Submission round 2)
Bantamweight:
Jalal Al Daaja (CAN) bt Juares Dea (CMR)
(Split decision)
Middleweight:
Mohamad Osseili (LEB) bt Ivan Slynko (UKR)
(TKO round 1)
Featherweight:
Tarun Grigoryan (ARM) bt Islam Makhamadjanov (UZB)
(Unanimous decision)
Catchweight 54kg:
Mariagiovanna Vai (ITA) bt Daniella Shutov (ISR)
(Submission round 1)
Middleweight:
Joan Arastey (ESP) bt Omran Chaaban (LEB)
(Unanimous decision)
Welterweight:
Bruno Carvalho (POR) bt Souhil Tahiri (ALG)
(TKO)
MATCH INFO
Uefa Champions League semi-final, first leg
Barcelona v Liverpool, Wednesday, 11pm (UAE).
Second leg
Liverpool v Barcelona, Tuesday, May 7, 11pm
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Specs
Engine: Electric motor generating 54.2kWh (Cooper SE and Aceman SE), 64.6kW (Countryman All4 SE)
Power: 218hp (Cooper and Aceman), 313hp (Countryman)
Torque: 330Nm (Cooper and Aceman), 494Nm (Countryman)
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh158,000 (Cooper), Dh168,000 (Aceman), Dh190,000 (Countryman)
Specs
Engine: 51.5kW electric motor
Range: 400km
Power: 134bhp
Torque: 175Nm
Price: From Dh98,800
Available: Now
MATCH INFO
Who: UAE v USA
What: first T20 international
When: Friday, 2pm
Where: ICC Academy in Dubai
UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
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RACE SCHEDULE
All times UAE ( 4 GMT)
Friday, September 29
First practice: 7am - 8.30am
Second practice: 11am - 12.30pm
Saturday, September 30
Qualifying: 1pm - 2pm
Sunday, October 1
Race: 11am - 1pm
The specs
Engine: Four electric motors, one at each wheel
Power: 579hp
Torque: 859Nm
Transmission: Single-speed automatic
Price: From Dh825,900
On sale: Now
WOMAN AND CHILD
Director: Saeed Roustaee
Starring: Parinaz Izadyar, Payman Maadi
Rating: 4/5
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