Real-world success is frequently weighed against more than good grades and classroom attendance. Silvia Razgova / The NationalSilvia Razgova / The National
Real-world success is frequently weighed against more than good grades and classroom attendance. Silvia Razgova / The NationalSilvia Razgova / The National
Real-world success is frequently weighed against more than good grades and classroom attendance. Silvia Razgova / The NationalSilvia Razgova / The National
Real-world success is frequently weighed against more than good grades and classroom attendance. Silvia Razgova / The NationalSilvia Razgova / The National

Many a valuable lesson learnt from humbling failures


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It is that time of the year again. Graduation caps were tossed in the air, and I was invited to numerous graduation parties. While they all shared a grin, many also shared common beliefs about the job market that I thought to be somewhat misleading.

Many college graduates in the UAE, including my dear friends, believe that excelling in their projects, showing up to every lecture and getting the highest grade point average will land them the best job opportunities in the market.

How could anyone turn them down for having a full grade point average? They ask me.

Attending every class on time might not guarantee you a good job position with that Arabian Gulf view, and coming through that tough accounting class with flying colours does not equate to succeeding in the real world.

Success at work and in the real world is not a written formula in a maths textbook that students can revise a couple of times to pass the exam. In fact, not failing a college course does not mean that a student will not fail later in life.

These assumptions that many students hold did not come out of the blue. They are often based on common beliefs that young adults have heard constantly from loving parents or picked up while tuned in to different media platforms.

Common belief number one is that good behaviour ensures success and kicks away failure. That was great advice in the classroom. You showed up on time, did your homework and studied a couple of weeks before exams, but that does not necessarily work in your career or your business.

On the contrary, many successful people did not learn anything before they failed numerous times. Failure is often the greatest teacher. The leaders of many great corporations did not have the best grades. Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg, in fact, is a college dropout.

Another common belief that many high school graduates hold dearly is that career success is synonymous with attending a first-class university. Some of them even fall into depression if the likes of Harvard turn down their application.

While a big college name pasted on their job résumés might aid them when they are job-hunting, it will not necessarily guarantee that they will succeed in their careers. Many recruiters and managers look at other qualities as well, such as community service, innovation and leadership traits.

Which takes us to the belief that a college graduate can easily land a job by solely having a degree. That might have been the case in my father's time, but in our time, many recruiters are looking for people who have also been active outside of the classrooms, where most lessons are learnt.

A good piece of advice I always tell college students is to not waste their summers watching sitcom marathons, but to intern, participate in community initiatives and to network, network and network. I credit much of my success to proper networking.

Last but not least, no one is great at everything they do. When I was in college, a friend of mine made a huge fuss when she did not earn an A grade in one of our business classes. Her excuse to our professor was that she never earned anything less than an Ain her life.

The professor welcomed her to the real world, where no one is perfect at everything. He pointed out that she may have done well in other courses, but that did not mean that she had earned that A in his.

As for me, I admit that my professional strength lies in the creative field and that I am terrible when it comes to physics and maths. But failure in one area does not mean that one is a failure in general.

Parents and friends may have had good intentions when they introduced these beliefs discussed above, but they often reinforce ideas that may not aid us when we graduate and step out into the world.

Life requires going through numerous tests, asking a whole bunch of questions and often comes with a side of failure, which is not necessarily a bad thing. Looking at it positively, failure encourages us to better ourselves and our products and careers.

Manar Al Hinai is an award-winning Emirati writer and fashion designer

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The specs

Price, base / as tested Dh960,000
Engine 3.9L twin-turbo V8 
Transmission Seven-speed dual-clutch automatic
Power 661hp @8,000rpm
Torque 760Nm @ 3,000rpm
Fuel economy, combined 11.4L / 100k

UAE's final round of matches
  • Sep 1, 2016 Beat Japan 2-1 (away)
  • Sep 6, 2016 Lost to Australia 1-0 (home)
  • Oct 6, 2016 Beat Thailand 3-1 (home)
  • Oct 11, 2016 Lost to Saudi Arabia 3-0 (away)
  • Nov 15, 2016 Beat Iraq 2-0 (home)
  • Mar 23, 2017 Lost to Japan 2-0 (home)
  • Mar 28, 2017 Lost to Australia 2-0 (away)
  • June 13, 2017 Drew 1-1 with Thailand (away)
  • Aug 29, 2017 v Saudi Arabia (home)
  • Sep 5, 2017 v Iraq (away)
UPI facts

More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions

MATCH INFO

Uefa Champions League semi-final, first leg

Tottenham 0-1 Ajax, Tuesday

Second leg

Ajax v Tottenham, Wednesday, May 8, 11pm

Game is on BeIN Sports

What the law says

Micro-retirement is not a recognised concept or employment status under Federal Decree Law No. 33 of 2021 on the Regulation of Labour Relations (as amended) (UAE Labour Law). As such, it reflects a voluntary work-life balance practice, rather than a recognised legal employment category, according to Dilini Loku, senior associate for law firm Gateley Middle East.

“Some companies may offer formal sabbatical policies or career break programmes; however, beyond such arrangements, there is no automatic right or statutory entitlement to extended breaks,” she explains.

“Any leave taken beyond statutory entitlements, such as annual leave, is typically regarded as unpaid leave in accordance with Article 33 of the UAE Labour Law. While employees may legally take unpaid leave, such requests are subject to the employer’s discretion and require approval.”

If an employee resigns to pursue micro-retirement, the employment contract is terminated, and the employer is under no legal obligation to rehire the employee in the future unless specific contractual agreements are in place (such as return-to-work arrangements), which are generally uncommon, Ms Loku adds.

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Day 1 results:

Open Men (bonus points in brackets)
New Zealand 125 (1) beat UAE 111 (3)
India 111 (4) beat Singapore 75 (0)
South Africa 66 (2) beat Sri Lanka 57 (2)
Australia 126 (4) beat Malaysia -16 (0)

Open Women
New Zealand 64 (2) beat South Africa 57 (2)
England 69 (3) beat UAE 63 (1)
Australia 124 (4) beat UAE 23 (0)
New Zealand 74 (2) beat England 55 (2)

The specs
  • Engine: 3.9-litre twin-turbo V8
  • Power: 640hp
  • Torque: 760nm
  • On sale: 2026
  • Price: Not announced yet
Most sought after workplace benefits in the UAE
  • Flexible work arrangements
  • Pension support
  • Mental well-being assistance
  • Insurance coverage for optical, dental, alternative medicine, cancer screening
  • Financial well-being incentives 
Key recommendations
  • Fewer criminals put behind bars and more to serve sentences in the community, with short sentences scrapped and many inmates released earlier.
  • Greater use of curfews and exclusion zones to deliver tougher supervision than ever on criminals.
  • Explore wider powers for judges to punish offenders by blocking them from attending football matches, banning them from driving or travelling abroad through an expansion of ‘ancillary orders’.
  • More Intensive Supervision Courts to tackle the root causes of crime such as alcohol and drug abuse – forcing repeat offenders to take part in tough treatment programmes or face prison.
UAE squad

Humaira Tasneem (c), Chamani Senevirathne (vc), Subha Srinivasan, NIsha Ali, Udeni Kuruppuarachchi, Chaya Mughal, Roopa Nagraj, Esha Oza, Ishani Senevirathne, Heena Hotchandani, Keveesha Kumari, Judith Cleetus, Chavi Bhatt, Namita D’Souza.

Dubai World Cup prize money

Group 1 (Purebred Arabian) 2000m Dubai Kahayla Classic - $750,000
Group 2 1,600m(Dirt) Godolphin Mile - $750,000
Group 2 3,200m (Turf) Dubai Gold Cup – $750,000
Group 1 1,200m (Turf) Al Quoz Sprint – $1,000,000
Group 2 1,900m(Dirt) UAE Derby – $750,000
Group 1 1,200m (Dirt) Dubai Golden Shaheen – $1,500,000
Group 1 1,800m (Turf) Dubai Turf –  $4,000,000
Group 1 2,410m (Turf) Dubai Sheema Classic – $5,000,000
Group 1 2,000m (Dirt) Dubai World Cup– $12,000,000