Ask Ali: There’s no taboo on visiting an ill colleague


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Dear Ali: An Emirati male colleague of mine became sick recently and had to go into hospital for an operation. I was told by some people that it wouldn't be appropriate for me to visit him because his family is there and they might think I am his girlfriend, which I am not. What would you advise? LE, Al Ain

Dear LE: First of all I wish him a fast recovery and as we say in Arabic — Allah yashfii mardhana — may God cure our sick ones.

In our religion, visiting sick people is an advisable act – no matter your age, nationality or gender. However, there are some circumstances we shall pay attention to when planning to visit someone in the hospital. Those who can’t come usually send flowers or baskets of chocolates with “get well soon” cards.

If you are a married woman there should not be any problem for you to visit your colleague in the hospital, especially if your husband and children are joining you.

Yes, close family members like husband or wife, parents, sisters and brothers usually take care of their loved ones and spend most of time in the hospital ward during the recovery process. That’s why there is a great chance for you to meet someone from his family, and there is nothing wrong with that. You can also invite your other co-workers to join you, particularly if you know there might be a wife of your colleague, to avoid any misunderstandings. In general, it is all common sense. There is no taboo on the hospital visits by non-relatives. We are happy to know that our friends and colleagues pay attention to our well-being.

Dear Ali: The UAE is a young country that I am sure has a longer history. I am wondering though how your chronicles were recorded and history books written? AA, Abu Dhabi

Dear AA: Originally, in the Arabian Peninsula all information was written by hand. These manuscripts, or in Arabic "mukhtataat", describe different events and stories that happened at certain times.

Writers of such chronicles from this region lived in the 19th and 20th centuries. Their main occupation was to record all significant events during that time.

Some of the earliest records about this land were found in Dutch libraries dated to 1500AD and were written by their seafarers. There are not so many records found in the Portuguese and British libraries. These documents are considered to be the most essential for the records of the UAE history.

At the beginning of the 20th century another way of recording information was by oral history. This is a unique way of collecting information through listening to the narrated stories of events, sometimes even through poetry. If the accounts of two more people matched, the story would be published in an article.

Nowadays these narrated stories are available in the National Archives. They are indexed and categorised and available to the public. Moreover there are oral history centres that are still collecting information from people.

By the way, you can visit a specially dedicated oral history section at the Sheikh Zayed Heritage Festival that runs until December 12 in Abu Dhabi.

Ali Al Saloom is a cultural adviser and public speaker from the UAE. Follow @AskAli on Twitter, and visit www.ask-ali.com to ask him a question and to find his guidebooks to the UAE, priced at Dh50.

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Tearful appearance

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Legislative setbacks for the government have blown a new hole in the budgetary calculations at a time when the deficit is stubbornly large and the economy is struggling to grow. 

She appeared with Keir Starmer on Thursday and the pair embraced, but he had failed to give her his backing as she cried a day earlier.

A spokesman said her upset demeanour was due to a personal matter.

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If you go

Flight connections to Ulaanbaatar are available through a variety of hubs, including Seoul and Beijing, with airlines including Mongolian Airlines and Korean Air. While some nationalities, such as Americans, don’t need a tourist visa for Mongolia, others, including UAE citizens, can obtain a visa on arrival, while others including UK citizens, need to obtain a visa in advance. Contact the Mongolian Embassy in the UAE for more information.

Nomadic Road offers expedition-style trips to Mongolia in January and August, and other destinations during most other months. Its nine-day August 2020 Mongolia trip will cost from $5,250 per person based on two sharing, including airport transfers, two nights’ hotel accommodation in Ulaanbaatar, vehicle rental, fuel, third party vehicle liability insurance, the services of a guide and support team, accommodation, food and entrance fees; nomadicroad.com

A fully guided three-day, two-night itinerary at Three Camel Lodge costs from $2,420 per person based on two sharing, including airport transfers, accommodation, meals and excursions including the Yol Valley and Flaming Cliffs. A return internal flight from Ulaanbaatar to Dalanzadgad costs $300 per person and the flight takes 90 minutes each way; threecamellodge.com

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How much of your income do you need to save?

The more you save, the sooner you can retire. Tuan Phan, a board member of SimplyFI.com, says if you save just 5 per cent of your salary, you can expect to work for another 66 years before you are able to retire without too large a drop in income.

In other words, you will not save enough to retire comfortably. If you save 15 per cent, you can forward to another 43 working years. Up that to 40 per cent of your income, and your remaining working life drops to just 22 years. (see table)

Obviously, this is only a rough guide. How much you save will depend on variables, not least your salary and how much you already have in your pension pot. But it shows what you need to do to achieve financial independence.

 

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