It’s an innocent question but whenever people ask me why I left the US for the UAE, I often wonder how much I should admit.
On Monday, rocker Ozzy Osbourne told The Guardian that he and his wife Sharon would be leaving America to move back to the UK for good, saying gun violence was a major factor.
“I’m fed up with people getting killed every day,” the singer told the British newspaper.
“God knows how many people have been shot in school shootings. And there was that mass shooting in Vegas at that concert.”
Sharon said: “America has changed so drastically. It isn’t the United States of America at all. Nothing’s united about it. It’s a very weird place to live right now.”
Even though I haven’t lived in the US since 2014, I can empathise with those feelings because I can see just how much things have changed.
When I moved from Boston to Abu Dhabi eight years ago, it was on a whim. Even though I didn’t know much about the Middle East, it felt like the right move.
Over the years, I’ve come to truly enjoy life abroad — and one of the reasons for that is how safe it is in comparison to many other countries.
A 2021 survey by Georgetown University has the UAE ranked first in terms of community safety, with 98.5 per cent of women saying they felt safe walking alone in their neighbourhoods at night — something I couldn't always say in America.
So, when I’m asked why I decided to leave the US, responding with, “Well, because I don’t want to be killed in a mass shooting” doesn’t seem like such an unreasonable answer. It might not be what they want to hear, but it is the truth.
The US has recorded 448 mass shootings so far in 2022, data from the Gun Violence Archive shows.
Of those, 19 are classified as mass murders that have killed at least four people. That's a disturbing statistic for a single year, more so considering there are still four months to go.
I was 11 when Columbine occurred in 1999, when 15 people died and 24 were injured in a mass shooting at a high school in a small town in America.
Back then, it seemed like an outlier, like something that would never happen again.
But then there was Virginia Tech in 2007, when I just had left home to attend university, and then Sandy Hook in 2012, which occurred a couple of weeks before Christmas in a town that was just under a 2.5-hour drive away from where I was.
More recently there’s been Uvalde, Buffalo, Parkland and so on, in the years I’ve lived in Abu Dhabi.
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Every time I get a news alert or a text message about a new mass shooting my heart sinks because in a way, by this point, it feels so American.
Other countries that have enacted strict gun control legislation or have banned guns to the general public do not suffer such incidents.
Watching these things continually take place makes me wonder how anyone can truly feel safe in the US any more.
I don't know exactly how many mass shootings have occurred in America since Columbine but I know in the two decades since, every single one of them should have been prevented.
And that's why I won't be leaving Abu Dhabi any time soon.
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The biog
Name: Samar Frost
Born: Abu Dhabi
Hobbies: Singing, music and socialising with friends
Favourite singer: Adele
Suggested picnic spots
Abu Dhabi
Umm Al Emarat Park
Yas Gateway Park
Delma Park
Al Bateen beach
Saadiyaat beach
The Corniche
Zayed Sports City
Dubai
Kite Beach
Zabeel Park
Al Nahda Pond Park
Mushrif Park
Safa Park
Al Mamzar Beach Park
Al Qudrah Lakes
THE BIO
Born: Mukalla, Yemen, 1979
Education: UAE University, Al Ain
Family: Married with two daughters: Asayel, 7, and Sara, 6
Favourite piece of music: Horse Dance by Naseer Shamma
Favourite book: Science and geology
Favourite place to travel to: Washington DC
Best advice you’ve ever been given: If you have a dream, you have to believe it, then you will see it.
Disability on screen
Empire — neuromuscular disease myasthenia gravis; bipolar disorder; post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
Rosewood and Transparent — heart issues
24: Legacy — PTSD;
Superstore and NCIS: New Orleans — wheelchair-bound
Taken and This Is Us — cancer
Trial & Error — cognitive disorder prosopagnosia (facial blindness and dyslexia)
Grey’s Anatomy — prosthetic leg
Scorpion — obsessive compulsive disorder and anxiety
Switched at Birth — deafness
One Mississippi, Wentworth and Transparent — double mastectomy
Dragons — double amputee
Fines for littering
In Dubai:
Dh200 for littering or spitting in the Dubai Metro
Dh500 for throwing cigarette butts or chewing gum on the floor, or littering from a vehicle.
Dh1,000 for littering on a beach, spitting in public places, throwing a cigarette butt from a vehicle
In Sharjah and other emirates
Dh500 for littering - including cigarette butts and chewing gum - in public places and beaches in Sharjah
Dh2,000 for littering in Sharjah deserts
Dh500 for littering from a vehicle in Ras Al Khaimah
Dh1,000 for littering from a car in Abu Dhabi
Dh1,000 to Dh100,000 for dumping waste in residential or public areas in Al Ain
Dh10,000 for littering at Ajman's beaches
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Date started: March 2019
Founder: Dr Ali Al Hammadi
Based: Abu Dhabi
Sector: AgriTech
Initial investment: None to date
Partners/Incubators: UAE Space Agency/Krypto Labs
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The biog
Favourite colour: Brown
Favourite Movie: Resident Evil
Hobbies: Painting, Cooking, Imitating Voices
Favourite food: Pizza
Trivia: Was the voice of three characters in the Emirati animation, Shaabiyat Al Cartoon
The biog
First Job: Abu Dhabi Department of Petroleum in 1974
Current role: Chairperson of Al Maskari Holding since 2008
Career high: Regularly cited on Forbes list of 100 most powerful Arab Businesswomen
Achievement: Helped establish Al Maskari Medical Centre in 1969 in Abu Dhabi’s Western Region
Future plan: Will now concentrate on her charitable work
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The biog
Year of birth: 1988
Place of birth: Baghdad
Education: PhD student and co-researcher at Greifswald University, Germany
Hobbies: Ping Pong, swimming, reading
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