My son came home from training at Manchester City one day last season and he wasn't happy.
Craig Bellamy wasn't featuring in Roberto Mancini's future plans and had been told to play with the reserves and younger players such as my son, Devante. He said that Bellamy did nothing but moan at him and I could see that it was getting him down.
It is one thing being angry and wanting to get away from a club, it is another to take your frustrations out on a 16-year-old kid. To me, Bellamy was wrong.
I knew the situation well because I had seen it when I was a player.
Nobody at a football club benefits from an unhappy player, not the player, his club or teammates. I saw it from a young age at Arsenal, when senior pros would be sent to play alongside youngsters like me in the reserves. They moaned, didn't try and bad-mouthed the manager. It was a horrible, negative situation.
We should have looked up to the senior players, learned from them and aspired to be them. Instead, we found out how corrosive the presence of a bitter player with personal agendas can be.
Perry Groves was one such senior player and he wasn't happy playing in the reserves. It wasn't like he was the best player in the world - in fact he wasn't even the best player in the reserves - but his unhappiness affected the younger lads.
The player is usually blamed, but he is not always at fault.
Look at Chelsea at the moment. The manager made it clear that Nicolas Anelka wasn't in his plans.
Anelka once had a reputation for being a difficult character who always wanted to move, but he accepted that he wasn't wanted and found a move for himself, a very lucrative one. No fuss, no hanging around polluting the minds of the other players.
Not every player is at Anelka's level and not every club can let players leave for free like Chelsea. Andre Villas-Boas can afford to force the issue and then come out smelling of roses. I respect the fact that he has been clear with the players and told them straight before they can fester.
The Chelsea manager is clearly establishing his power. He has told the defender, Alex, the same and he is expected to leave. Again, it is better for him to leave if he doesn't feature in his plans.
As well as being the young kid watching the disillusioned professional, I've been the old pro who has been told he can go.
Blackburn Rovers told me that when I had two years left on my contract. I could have sat around and claimed my two years, but that wouldn't have been good for anyone. So we reached a compromise on my contract and I moved to Fulham.
That's football. If a manager wants you out, you are going to go one way or another, no matter what your contract says.
The media will often make a player out to be the bad guy because the club will use the local media to put their side of the story. The media need to maintain their relationship with the club rather than an outgoing player, but some players have powerful media contacts too and we're seeing that at Chelsea.
Villas-Boas will face more issues. Frank Lampard came out in the media this week and said that he did not speak to his manager, that he had not been told why he had been left out of the team and that he was as fit as ever and wanted to play for Chelsea.
That was a mistake and I laughed at that one because that's only going to irritate the manager. Every player wants to play until he's 40, but that's not always his choice.
Villas Boas has every right to do that because he is the boss.
He must have the absolute support of Roman Abramovich, the Chelsea owner, otherwise you can get into dangerous situations where so-called senior players can group together and bleat that the manager has lost the dressing room. That's not a healthy situation.
Villas-Boas is also sending out a message to the other players. You don't see Manchester United players beefing against Sir Alex Ferguson in the media because they know they would not last another two minutes at the club.
Villas-Boas would like a similar situation at Chelsea, but to establish his absolute power he must also win matches. It's a fickle, dirty industry that he's in, but he's not stupid.
Andrew Cole's column is written with the assistance of European football correspondent Andy Mitten
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'The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas are Setting up a Generation for Failure'
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Election pledges on migration
CDU: "Now is the time to control the German borders and enforce strict border rejections"
SPD: "Border closures and blanket rejections at internal borders contradict the spirit of a common area of freedom"
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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
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The five pillars of Islam
1. Fasting
2. Prayer
3. Hajj
4. Shahada
5. Zakat
The specs
Engine: 2.0-litre 4-cylturbo
Transmission: seven-speed DSG automatic
Power: 242bhp
Torque: 370Nm
Price: Dh136,814
Yahya Al Ghassani's bio
Date of birth: April 18, 1998
Playing position: Winger
Clubs: 2015-2017 – Al Ahli Dubai; March-June 2018 – Paris FC; August – Al Wahda
ADCC AFC Women’s Champions League Group A fixtures
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Engine: Electric motor generating 54.2kWh (Cooper SE and Aceman SE), 64.6kW (Countryman All4 SE)
Power: 218hp (Cooper and Aceman), 313hp (Countryman)
Torque: 330Nm (Cooper and Aceman), 494Nm (Countryman)
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh158,000 (Cooper), Dh168,000 (Aceman), Dh190,000 (Countryman)
Volvo ES90 Specs
Engine: Electric single motor (96kW), twin motor (106kW) and twin motor performance (106kW)
Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp
Torque: 480Nm, 670Nm, 870Nm
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2025 Fifa Club World Cup groups
Group A: Palmeiras, Porto, Al Ahly, Inter Miami.
Group B: Paris Saint-Germain, Atletico Madrid, Botafogo, Seattle.
Group C: Bayern Munich, Auckland City, Boca Juniors, Benfica.
Group D: Flamengo, ES Tunis, Chelsea, (Leon banned).
Group E: River Plate, Urawa, Monterrey, Inter Milan.
Group F: Fluminense, Borussia Dortmund, Ulsan, Mamelodi Sundowns.
Group G: Manchester City, Wydad, Al Ain, Juventus.
Group H: Real Madrid, Al Hilal, Pachuca, Salzburg.
In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
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Healthy tips to remember
Here, Dr Mohamed El Abiary, paediatric consultant at Al Zahra Hospital Dubai, shares some advice for parents whose children are fasting during the holy month of Ramadan:
Gradual fasting and golden points - For children under the age of 10, follow a step-by-step approach to fasting and don't push them beyond their limits. Start with a few hours fasting a day and increase it to a half fast and full fast when the child is ready. Every individual's ability varies as per the age and personal readiness. You could introduce a points system that awards the child and offers them encouragement when they make progress with the amount of hours they fast
Why fast? - Explain to your child why they are fasting. By shedding light on the importance of abstaining from food and drink, children may feel more encouraged to give it there all during the observance period. It is also a good opportunity to teach children about controlling urges, doing good for others and instilling healthy food habits
Sleep and suhoor - A child needs adequate sleep every night - at least eight hours. Make sure to set a routine early bedtime so he/she has sufficient time to wake up for suhoor, which is an essential meal at the beginning of the day
Good diet - Nutritious food is crucial to ensuring a healthy Ramadan for children. They must refrain from eating too much junk food as well as canned goods and snacks and drinks high in sugar. Foods that are rich in nutrients, vitamins and proteins, like fruits, fresh meats and vegetables, make for a good balanced diet